Is Ishu wrong for attending shaguns marriage functions

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N.R.Rona

@N.R.Rona

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Posted: 11 years ago

I dont know whether what am gonna tell is right or wrong..but i have some thoughts which are not not leaving me..so thought of pouring it out..and once more lemme tell you..these are only my thoughts ..must not be right..dont bash me plss..just think of it as mere attempt of mine to analyse the situation..n now..

Is ishita wrong..i have read in many posts taunting ishu as she is attending shaguns marriage..i agree what she has to face was not a silly thing or it cant be forgiven..but who were behind this..not mihir or shagun..we very well know that shagun is innocent completely regarding the humiliation faced by ishu..so shagyn is not to be punished..but if you wish we can blame her for the bad upbringing of adi..but he also is not aware of the plan of those bas***ds..but am not favouring adi..but just pointing out the facts..he is n was wrong..

n what was the mistake of mihir..nothing..

so from the start the entire bhalla n iyer clan are attending shaguns marriage for mihir n mihir only..

raha ishu ka sawal..from the words of the 3 -SAP their aim was to humiliate ishu n thereby raman and by that donon ki izzat ka darchiyan uda de..but vo donon aise vaise log nahi he jinke izzat ka koi matlab hi nahi he..jinke izzat itni asaani se to nahi luta sakte..jinke mooh chupane ki himmat aaj tak kisiko nahi he..vo donon suraj ki tarah roshan karte rahegi..aur jo bhi suraj ka roshni kam karne ki koshish karega vo khud hi jalkar raakh ho jayega par suraj ko koyi nuksaan nahi hoga na ho roshni ki na ho izzat ki..na ho kisi cheeze ki..isiliye ishu ko apne mooh chupakar ghar me hi pade rahne ki koyi zaroorat nahi he..agar aise vo sabse door raha to unn kameenon ki jeet hogi...vo koyi bardaasht nahin karega..ishra ko sar udakar sabke saamne hi rahna hoga..bhala isme darne ki kya baat hain..

vo log darte hain jo akela ho..ya phir jinhe support karne keliye koyi nahin ho..ishu ko kya darr..use support karne keliye raman hain ..vohi kaafi hain..par uska poora parivar uska saath hain..uska dosth bhi hain..to koyi darr nahi koyi chupna chipana bhi nahi..

isiliye mujhe lagta hain ki ishita ka shagun ki shaadi mein jane ko koyi problem nahin..raha sawaal unn kameenom ka..use niptane keliye raman hi kaafi hain..par mani bhi to hain..unn log kahin ka nahin rahega..anth mein wohi mooh chupane kelye bhaagtha firegaa...

ye sirf meri kuch thoughts hain..vo sahi ya galat mujhe nahin pata..

i will look forward to your responses..no bashing plss..its my first long topic..so am not so strong to handle in this initial stage of writing..but your thoughts are welcomed..be it positive or negative..

P.S. The suraj i referred above is SUN not the kameena suraj..pls clarify it..

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Babbupathak

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yes I am really upset no women after getting this humiliation go . What's wrong with cv

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kalyas

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Posted: 11 years ago

No one would go after the first fight with Shagun on her engagement day (about Ruhi), not atleast after Adi put her in jail... and OBVIOUSLY NOT after the humiliation she faced on Saturday (Hens party)

NO WOMAN WOULD BE SO DILDAAR TO GO😡

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--Megha--

@--Megha--

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Posted: 11 years ago

K firstly right n wrong is very subjective.

There have been times when people have forgiven people for most heinuous of crimes like Saints etc.

But I personally think its wrong to attend a place where u r treated badly, ur child was subjected to violence etc.

What path Ishita is choosing might b justified by the CVs as greatness or goodness of heart but IMO such people who dont fight against injustice and keep quiet and bear the torture r responsible for the unjust actions as well. N here not just Ishita but whole family is stupid to attend Shagun function even for Mihir.
What if Shagun again slaps Ruhi in a fit of rage?

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mayu1982

@mayu1982

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: mnr123
K firstly right n wrong is very subjective.

There have been times when people have forgiven people for most heinuous of crimes like Saints etc.

But I personally think its wrong to attend a place where u r treated badly, ur child was subjected to violence etc.

What path Ishita is choosing might b justified by the CVs as greatness or goodness of heart but IMO such people who dont fight against injustice and keep quiet and bear the torture r responsible for the unjust actions as well. N here not just Ishita but whole family is stupid to attend Shagun function even for Mihir.
What if Shagun again slaps Ruhi in a fit of rage?

@bold: Correct 👏.. Even in holy books it is written that Atyachaar karna to paap hi hai, magar atyachaar sahena maha paap hai.The crime which is against your family , against mankind, against humanity should not be forgiven, culprit needs to be punished. Not only this even earlier assault episode with ishita where cv completely failed to give any valid explanation is shameful act by cv.

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Dharanija

@Dharanija

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Posted: 11 years ago

There is a the saying, the one who puts up with injustice is even a bigger sinner than the one who does it.!

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

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Posted: 11 years ago

Well...if her going to the party is wrong, I find even Raman too wrong in this. We don't know what is gonna happen in episode. But, how come at first Raman agreed to her going to Shagun's place? Why dint the Bhallas stop her as an order? She is she...she is always like this...forgiving everyone, including Raman's horrible deeds also (Here she is forgiving Adi, not the molesters). The Bhallas could've stopped her. I don't see logic in blaming only Ishita, where Raman and the other Bhallas are also to be blamed.

And, don't say anyone that the episode dint air, so don't say about Raman. Then, I will say, wait for the epi first then see what made her go there. Okay😛.

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WhyAmIHereAgain

@WhyAmIHereAgain

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni
Well...if her going to the party is wrong, I find even Raman too wrong in this. We don't know what is gonna happen in episode. But, how come at first Raman agreed to her going to Shagun's place? Why dint the Bhallas stop her as an order? She is she...she is always like this...forgiving everyone, including Raman's horrible deeds also (Here she is forgiving Adi, not the molesters). The Bhallas could've stopped her. I don't see logic in blaming only Ishita, where Raman and the other Bhallas are also to be blamed.

And, don't say anyone that the episode dint air, so don't say about Raman. Then, I will say, wait for the epi first then see what made her go there. Okay😛.

@bold...bang on... i m really wondering y ppl are questioning ishita only... if raman (the character he is) truly forbids her from going... will she go... ?? so here everybody is at fault...but foremost... let the epi be telecasted... we dont know what happnd.. so y suddenly hanging ishita before the day comes... it seems like ppl love to hate ishita n her mahanta here.. if she wasnt mahaan she wudnt have done many many things...starting from the beginning..

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ankitasen

@ankitasen

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: shalz_123

@bold...bang on... i m really wondering y ppl are questioning ishita only... if raman (the character he is) truly forbids her from going... will she go... ?? so here everybody is at fault...but foremost... let the epi be telecasted... we dont know what happnd.. so y suddenly hanging ishita before the day comes... it seems like ppl love to hate ishita n her mahanta here.. if she wasnt mahaan she wudnt have done many many things...starting from the beginning..

Why a woman needs to remind not to go her molester's wedding function? Ishita is no kid, I would've blame Bhallas if they forced Ishita to attend the functions. That's not the case, she's at her own behest.
By doing so, Ishita is mocking women and their dignity.

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WhyAmIHereAgain

@WhyAmIHereAgain

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: ankitasen

Why a woman needs to remind not to go her molester's wedding function? Ishita is no kid, I would've blame Bhallas if they forced Ishita to attend the functions. That's not the case, she's at her own behest.
By doing so, Ishita is mocking women and their dignity.

shudnt we wait for the epi first?? tht is all i ask...

@sen..u r bangali??

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