Trying to Analyze a difficult person..ufff..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am trying to analyze Gautam here, it is such a tough task, i know that vey well...


i have been watching him since last 54 days.
So, I think i can attempt this task.

Sorry Gautam fans, if you dont like this post.

Gautam, when he first came he wanted to project himself as a big Casanova types, the way he flirted with Diandra, applying moisturizer and all.. talking with hidden meanings proves this point. It was really so gross to watch all that. I felt may be that was his way of playing a game, and thats how he wanted to project himself.

Suddenly Karisghma's gali episode happened. I agree that Tanna dragged it so much that we all started feeling sorry for Gautam. He gained lot of sympathy, and started getting a lot o votes. Salman , himself said that Karishma made him a hero.

I felt he deserved the votes. I expected him to change afterwards.. But to my disappointment he never tried to get better but became even worse.

He snaps at people without any big reason. In those 1st two weeks, the way he snapped at Praneet proves that. Gautam was talking to someone, Praneet came there to join them, Gautam literally asked him to shut his mouth and get out. people are saying he has lot of respect for adults..Praneet too is elder to him, then where is his respect? I saw him snapping at people that too without any provocation.

He feels that others have to wait for his permission to talk..h can interrupt people, but no one can dare to do the same.

He has very low boiling point, just casual remark or comment can bring out worse from him...

He is very dominating... Its difficult to be friends with someone who is so dominating, even if they are very good at heart.

If i such a friend like Gautam, i would prefer to maintain distance than to stay close and get hurt and insulted and taunted every single possible moment. I wish him the best, but i stay away.

People get negative at times, and at times bitch about others or lose tempers, we can understand them.
But, how can one stay calm when the other person does these things all the time. Is it not too much for anybody?

Gautam , i think is a kind of person who can bring out worse in people. While Imam scores 10/10 for that, Gautam will score a 6/10.

He loves to advice, taunt, point fingers at everybody about the house work they do. But he gets irritated and makes a big scene if someone tells him some very simple things. For example, Diandra asked him to put water in that used non-stck pan so that it will become easier to clean... No, he dint want her to say that...he had to pick up a big argument for that. Its such a simple issue, he could have said okay and put some water and leave it. I didnt see anything wrong in what she said at all.

Why should he interfere in Puneet and Karishma fight at all?

True friends should always have freedom to say anything, or correct if need arises. Friends can have difference of opinions and sometimes they might not agree with each other. It doesnt mean that they are mean and jealous. Whats the meaning of any friendship when you one always have to say yes to the other person.

As praneet said its easier to watch some people on a show, but if you have to live with them you will know how difficult it is.

Can anybody live in the same house with Imam for one/two days without losing your temper? Impossible.

I feel Gautam wants to play victim, he picks up fights and arguments with everybody so that he can always get cornered and gains sympathy from audience. If he becomes normal, and nice with everybody, he will lose his popularity for sure as people lose interest. Someone else will gain.

I strongly feel that Gautam knows what he is doing. May be it is his kind of playing game ..palying victim. If it is true, then he is GREAT!


Gautam fans, no bashing please.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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ur point of view respect it apreciate ur work
agree in some points 👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well written. Very balanced post. 😎
I share your sentiment. I too supported him in the beginning, but ab moh bhang ho gayaa hai... Gulati has been unbearable for a while now...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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its second week i'm following BB
and so far what i have seen is that gautam tries to get involves in others matters..
do you own work and don't interfer in what others r doing or how they r doing ...
most important he keep saying they r supporting their friend's , but he does the same as well
he support puneet more then others does to their friends.
I liked him when he said yes for sushant, he may not have hard feelings for anyone
but his attitude toward everyone is very bad..
he never say anything good about anyone.
i feel gautam is too immature yes he does what he likes
but we can't support say he's not wrong when in actual he's ...
he feels that he's perfect and all other's r fools that's wrong

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