Why Raj shouldn't forgive Avni easily this time - Rhett Butler style

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi guys!

Just last week I was saying how the Raj and Avni relationship had been fairly well done in the show and now this happens. I spoke too soon I think. Though I really shouldn't be surprised that Avni doesn't believe Raj, given her past record. Only this time, its gone too far.

Legally, I know there are all reasons to suspect Raj. But that's not the point. The point is that Avni, the one person who supposedly loves him the most, his wife, his soul-mate, believes that he can actually kill her brother. Relationships start with love but are built on trust. Though love doesn't automatically generate trust, Avni and Raj's relationship has gone far enough for this trust to develop. Sadly, even after all they have gone through, Avni has not developed this trust on Raj. Raj said so as much in today's episode where he admitted that he was more hurt by Avni's distrust than anything else. The look on his face when she didn't care was heartbreaking.

Yes, Raj's love has always been selfless. But he is also human. This incident will leave a huge mark on him. That's why when the truth comes out, I don't want Raj to forgive and forget easily. Avni needs to realise that this level of distrust will have consequences. She can't ride roughshod over Raj's feelings everytime and then be taken back lovingly into his life. You can tie back broken threads but knots remain. Avni needs to learn the value of trust and she needs to know the hard way. I am hoping this is shown and her development isn't glossed over. Spoilers show that they both will hate each other and all and I don't know how its going to go, but after the truth, Raj should not melt easily.

I'd like to make a reference to Gone With The Wind here, one of my favourite novels. Rhett Butler loved Scarlett unconditionally but she never understood it. When finally she realised and went to him, he said, "Scarlett, did it ever occur to you that even the most deathless love could wear out?" That is what I'm talking about. I do want Raj and Avni together, but not till Avni has fully realised the consequences of her actions and atoned for them.

Your thoughts?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Completely agree with you. I have already stopped watching this show since AvRaj wedding breakup and keeping myself updated only through WUs.
Here I would like to say that Avni is a very very immature girl. She is brought up in very caring and secure environment because of which she is unaware about outer world. I suppose...she still don't know the meaning of love..she don't know what actually love is. I suppose, whatever love she is thinking..is not actually a love but infatuation. And yes, K family is having a track record of arrogance n trust issues...so those qualities automatically got transferred to Avni as well.

Raj being true to his feelings, always tried hard to help Avni n K family everywhere...everytime. He always tried to please Avni...did plenty of things just to see Avni smile. He always insulted n blamed by K family but still he loved Avni unconditionally. But thats not the case with Avni.

Till now...we have always witness that whatever wrong happened to Avni or K family...Avni along with family always blamed Raj...Raj was the first to blamed. Trust is the base of every relation but here in AvRaj case...there is so called love but there is not trust at all from Avni's side.

Now, in Umadgaon she got to know that Raj broke the wedding because of Bhavna..her own mother. Raj was trying to find out the real cause of Bhavna's past and there Avni got to know that Raj is innocent...her love feelings pops up and they got married secretly. But even after that she always blamed Raj whenever anything wrong happened with her family.

Now...as we know...in some days Raj will be proved innocent...Virat will be exposed. BUT I really wish that now Raj should not accept Avni. Let Avni experience the consequences of not trusting the person you loved. Let Avni understand the pain of love and what happens when your beloved rejects you and wrongly blames you...hurts you knowing or unknowingly.

I really don't want EASY AvRaj reunion and want Raj not to forgive Avni easily. This is not more innocent love story...its become a action thriller suspense story... And Avni needs to learn a lesson of true love n trust.

Just wanted one more issue here... Bhavna madam.
Bhavana is the most ridiculous person in this show. So selfish n self-centered lady. She destroyed her daughters life just to keep herself safe and to keep her secret hidden. Even after knowing about Virat she is not coming forward to tell Avni or family true colors of Virat. And thats disgusting. No sympathy for Bhavna from my side.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: i-me-myself

Completely agree with you. I have already stopped watching this show since AvRaj wedding breakup and keeping myself updated only through WUs.

Here I would like to say that Avni is a very very immature girl. She is brought up in very caring and secure environment because of which she is unaware about outer world. I suppose...she still don't know the meaning of love..she don't know what actually love is. I suppose, whatever love she is thinking..is not actually a love but infatuation. And yes, K family is having a track record of arrogance n trust issues...so those qualities automatically got transferred to Avni as well.

Raj being true to his feelings, always tried hard to help Avni n K family everywhere...everytime. He always tried to please Avni...did plenty of things just to see Avni smile. He always insulted n blamed by K family but still he loved Avni unconditionally. But thats not the case with Avni.

Till now...we have always witness that whatever wrong happened to Avni or K family...Avni along with family always blamed Raj...Raj was the first to blamed. Trust is the base of every relation but here in AvRaj case...there is so called love but there is not trust at all from Avni's side.

Now, in Umadgaon she got to know that Raj broke the wedding because of Bhavna..her own mother. Raj was trying to find out the real cause of Bhavna's past and there Avni got to know that Raj is innocent...her love feelings pops up and they got married secretly. But even after that she always blamed Raj whenever anything wrong happened with her family.

Now...as we know...in some days Raj will be proved innocent...Virat will be exposed. BUT I really wish that now Raj should not accept Avni. Let Avni experience the consequences of not trusting the person you loved. Let Avni understand the pain of love and what happens when your beloved rejects you and wrongly blames you...hurts you knowing or unknowingly.

I really don't want EASY AvRaj reunion and want Raj not to forgive Avni easily. This is not more innocent love story...its become a action thriller suspense story... And Avni needs to learn a lesson of true love n trust.

Just wanted one more issue here... Bhavna madam.
Bhavana is the most ridiculous person in this show. So selfish n self-centered lady. She destroyed her daughters life just to keep herself safe and to keep her secret hidden. Even after knowing about Virat she is not coming forward to tell Avni or family true colors of Virat. And thats disgusting. No sympathy for Bhavna from my side.


Beautiful post! I agree it's quite surprising that Avni still doesn't trust Raj after everything he has done for her. Avni was this naive and immature girl who didn't know much about love or life. Raj came and changed all of that. He showed her how glorious and beautiful love could be, how peaceful relationships could be. She has never valued it enough. I didn't like how she didn't question Raj's actions even once when he rejected her, but fine that can be left to circumstances. But this is unacceptable. That's why Avni needs to go through the pain of Raj losing trust on this relationship. It's the only way she'll realise the gravity of what she has done.

About Bhavna, I agree. She really needs to speak up. In fact, it will be a good thing if Bhavana investigates and finds out the truth. It can be a kind of putting back everything right and easing her conscience.I may be alone in this, but i really don't want Avni to suspect and investigate. It should hit her in the face from someone else and she should feel all the guilt that she deserves.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Guys sorry to say But as usual u all will C " Forgiveness is great virtue " theory by Raj..bcoz avni's tear is enough to Melt his heart ...
&
Avni +whole K will do it again and Again ...
Some1 told me Who doesnt want to learn truly cant learn ...
And same way Avni dnt want to trust Raj so she wnt ...
Otherwise Raj himself is an example or His previous work is enough to trust him But unfortunatly she is blind and brainless when its Raj Bt she trust her family &will ignore every types of Fact ...

Made the Mockery of Raj's love,trust & their relation...

Sorry bt i cant expect Ph to show "learning to trust on Raj" Track ...
And about Bhavna ,,im sorry Reena mam bt this project spoiling ur Image ...
And i dnt know When Bhavna will open her mouth or will she ever open or nt ...


HOW CAN U EXPECT A POOR MOM EXPOSING/REVEALING VIRAT TRUTH ??? ...

Ruined a mother's image ...

Im extremly sorry bt whole cast of APHG its spoiling ur image ...

Im sorry bt i cant expect anything from PH & stopped watching from last week & reading WU from last 2 days ...
Enough of all this ...

DKP Will do whatever they want &will face what they deserve ...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sana_J.

Guys sorry to say But as usual u all will C " Forgiveness is great virtue " theory by Raj..bcoz avni's tear is enough to Melt his heart ...
&
Avni +whole K will do it again and Again ...
Some1 told me Who doesnt want to learn truly cant learn ...
And same way Avni dnt want to trust Raj so she wnt ...
Otherwise Raj himself is an example or His previous work is enough to trust him But unfortunatly she is blind and brainless when its Raj Bt she trust her family &will ignore every types of Fact ...

Made the Mockery of Raj's love,trust & their relation...

Sorry bt i cant expect Ph to show "learning to trust on Raj" Track ...
And about Bhavna ,,im sorry Reena mam bt this project spoiling ur Image ...
And i dnt know When Bhavna will open her mouth or will she ever open or nt ...


HOW CAN U EXPECT A POOR MOM EXPOSING/REVEALING VIRAT TRUTH ??? ...

Ruined a mother's image ...

Im extremly sorry bt whole cast of APHG its spoiling ur image ...

Im sorry bt i cant expect anything from PH & stopped watching from last week & reading WU from last 2 days ...
Enough of all this ...

DKP Will do whatever they want &will face what they deserve ...


I know it's possible that Raj will say its fine and everything happy but I really really want Raj to be harsh and make her face facts and Avni to repent. As opposed to before, it's a huge thing this time so they have to show its proper consequences. At least they should. It wouldn't be a Avni learning to trust track because she will do so immediately after the truth comes out. It would more be Avni trying to get Raj's trust back track. But obviously, it all depends on what they decide to show. And Bhavna really should do something. She owes it to Raj and Avni to do something.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its DKP's LAST CHANCE to comeback on track ..
oh sorry i prefered Avni's permanent trust ON RAJ &
learning the meaning of TRUST &LOVE ...

bcoz last time we saw the She Trusted him again &that too more than any1 though she mentioned bt after few days same old form blaming raj at 1st place ...

She didnt suffer like Raj bcoz Raj always Tried his best to keep her happy and safe Thats Y this time i really really wanna to C her feeling same pain & getting reality check ...
Atleast this will make her mature in true sense ...

Yes me too dnt want sudden solution of current problem specially in Raj-avni relation ...
wished to C proper plot and Avni's attempt to win raj's trust & making their relation normal like b4 ...

And also wished To C
A Strong MOM in Bhavna ...
enough of her silence ...

But sorry i cant trust PH Bcoz of their sudden change in track, roles ...
Finger crossed ...


Feeling bad for Raj + his love ...
AND also abhaas when he got the chance to b focused , writer killed him illogicaly...
Edited by Sana_J. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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actually totally disappointed ON avni-Raj relation issue ...
was thinking Writer /PH perfectly captures/shows Avraj relation bt
their relation cant stand in Storm..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Everyone,

Avni lacks logic in every circumstance. I have never seen someone talk about loving a man so much and if a pin drops she doubts him. In real life any smart guy would dump her by now after she disbelieved him about not killing her brother and making the policeman beat him so badly.
How can she logically believe Raj had anything to gain from killing Abhas.

I don't like Bhavna either she ruined her family to keep her husband thinking she is perfect and even after everything has come out, she has not had the decency to tell the full story, especially about Virat's threats.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post...completely agree with u...felt bad fr raj yesterday :(..i don't want raj to easily forgive Avni...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sana_J.

Its DKP's LAST CHANCE to comeback on track ..
oh sorry i prefered Avni's permanent trust ON RAJ &
learning the meaning of TRUST &LOVE ...

bcoz last time we saw the She Trusted him again &that too more than any1 though she mentioned bt after few days same old form blaming raj at 1st place ...

She didnt suffer like Raj bcoz Raj always Tried his best to keep her happy and safe Thats Y this time i really really wanna to C her feeling same pain & getting reality check ...
Atleast this will make her mature in true sense ...

Yes me too dnt want sudden solution of current problem specially in Raj-avni relation ...
wished to C proper plot and Avni's attempt to win raj's trust & making their relation normal like b4 ...

And also wished To C
A Strong MOM in Bhavna ...
enough of her silence ...

But sorry i cant trust PH Bcoz of their sudden change in track, roles ...
Finger crossed ...


Feeling bad for Raj + his love ...
AND also abhaas when he got the chance to b focused , writer killed him illogicaly...


Yes there are ways of showing something logical even with what they have done but god only knows what they will show. And don't even get me started on Abhaas's death. His character had so much potential but they killed him off. Ah well.

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