inst of marriage vs power of love

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Guys,

I am utterly disappointed and depressed at the turn of events that happened this week 😕. Yes me, the beacon of eternal hope, who was not ready to believe till the last moment that RK will separate, is now hopeless !! It seems it is going to be once again a challenge between the insitution of marriage vs the power of love. Why are the serials always trying to prove one at the expense of the other? I am really sick of this 😡 .

Now, Kasturi is going to go all out and fight and protect Raunak against all evils, against all misfortunes, against all disappointments. Its like she is going to be his keeper. She will be the Sati Savitri, the eternal pativrata who will kill her love for her husband!!!
Its not Raunak, I think it is Robbie that will once again become the villain, at least as far a K is concerned. He will be made evil, just like Prem of Saathi Re 😭 . His love will be sacrificed at the altar of marriage.
Don't get me wrong, I highly support the institution of marriage. I believe in it very strongly, it is a sacred, fundamental basis for a beautiful relationship between a man and a woman. But the serials have really made a joke out of it.
Arre ek jagah heroine koh pativrata dikhayenge and the same heroine will marry a million times if the script demands it. Arre yaar, even Nannis and Daddis are falling in love and marrying in the world of soap (KZK and KGGK). This is so disgusting, its beyond words!!!! Not only repulsive, I find it insulting too!!!! 😡

Thank god, if not for the IF forum, I would have died!!!! Pehle toh I used to make my husband forcibly sit and listen to me ranting about Kasturi. But now-a-days I have to blackmail him, "story nahin sunoge toh khana nahin milega!!!" 😆
As soon as I start he is like, rehem karo, mujhe Kasturi ki kahaani mat sunao!!! Robbie ka haal jo hua, so hua, meri haalat kyun bigaad rahi ho!!!! 😆 😆. And if i tell him that I am depressed his reaction is, stop watching these stupid, sappy, senseless, insipid, unrealistic, dumb love stories and you will be fine!!!!!!!!!!!!

**deep sigh** Why are men so practical?????

Now-a-days I cannot even listen to the mitwa track. As soon as that song comes up, I immediately skip it!!!! 😭
And now I want to take revenge on the K-creatives 😡. Does anybody know how the TRP ratings system works??? Can I affect it from the US? Can we all boycott the serial, switch off our TVs when it is broadcast so we can send them this message that we are revolting????

Anyone wants to join me in this revolt????? 😃

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Posted: 18 years ago
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👏 👏 👏 you have just put my thoughts into the words. some times i feel instead of it being robbies dream, is it my dream 🤔
i know that it is 🤔 , why can't they show all this as dream and just bring back RK together ,

i also find it very funny that they make marriage as a joke
i have just stoped watching the epi's i will only once RK are back. they show that all the love RK had just vanished once K got married how is it possible?

i do not want to be in false hope once there is somethig concrete then only i will start watching it.

but even here in india if you say that you are watching
k-serial they will look at you and say oh no not again 😳

i am not sure about working of TRP's but I am with you in revolt. count me once , twice or howmuch ever time you can count me for counting purpose

thank god saving grace is IF , where we can put our comments and vent out some of our frustrations.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Very very.. sensessional topic...sometime I thought I do love someone beyond my life.. but whn its come 2 settle ur life... I thoughts lots of...lots of other factors..tooo... kya karee... zindjagi isee ka naam hai.... 😕

U r lucky dht ur husband @least listan u... whn i swicth on dhis serial.. my husband just walk out of d house..."na bajega baans na bajege bansuri..." 😉
if i discuss something as a general way he just put his hand off 2 my mouth.. 😉 [ just 4 not to say anything.. no second thought plz.... 😉 ]

Any way... I don't know wht will be d furture of dhis saga.. but m sure @ d end we will find kasturi rather alone or with d third one.. [ just my presumption... 😳 ]

"jaha tak bare kar sakengeee taha tak dekhegeee varna chod dengee.."""" abhi to yahi funda lekee dekhta hai...

how if inst. of marriage with power of luv.. makes our life delightful 4 ever????? kuch jayada hi soch liya na... 😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Unfortunately i can't join ur revolt because i only watch shows on IF/online. So my anger is not going to effect the TRPs. However, i'll support you guys morally. I do find that all K serials make a mockery out of marriage and i have pretty strong feelings about the institution of marriage. Marriage to me is not a bunch of rituals that are performed but marriage happens when your souls become intertwined in the presence of God -the greatest power in this world. If God is love and love is the greatest power on earth and marriage is a union of two souls in the presence of this great power...koi kisi ke gale main malgalsutra daal kar kaise bhandh jaata hai? Its mockery i tell you that movies and serials show that just by performing rituals you become bound to another person even when your soul is crying out its a sin cause your love stands for another.
And they call it marriage...a marriage that breaks at the slightest indication of problems and then the heroine goes running back to her love.
Marriage to me is very sacred and its ok if two people who are not in love with each other marry because they'll learn to love each other but it is unacceptable that two people who love someone else marry each other because thats just wrong. My conscience does not allow me to accept this even in fiction. I can continue forever on this topic so i am just gonna stop here before i loose it.

JC
Edited by jinc118 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: pragalbha

Guys,

I am utterly disappointed and depressed at the turn of events that happened this week 😕. Yes me, the beacon of eternal hope, who was not ready to believe till the last moment that RK will separate, is now hopeless !! It seems it is going to be once again a challenge between the insitution of marriage vs the power of love. Why are the serials always trying to prove one at the expense of the other? I am really sick of this 😡 .

Now, Kasturi is going to go all out and fight and protect Raunak against all evils, against all misfortunes, against all disappointments. Its like she is going to be his keeper. She will be the Sati Savitri, the eternal pativrata who will kill her love for her husband!!!
Its not Raunak, I think it is Robbie that will once again become the villain, at least as far a K is concerned. He will be made evil, just like Prem of Saathi Re 😭 . His love will be sacrificed at the altar of marriage.
Don't get me wrong, I highly support the institution of marriage. I believe in it very strongly, it is a sacred, fundamental basis for a beautiful relationship between a man and a woman. But the serials have really made a joke out of it.
Arre ek jagah heroine koh pativrata dikhayenge and the same heroine will marry a million times if the script demands it. Arre yaar, even Nannis and Daddis are falling in love and marrying in the world of soap (KZK and KGGK). This is so disgusting, its beyond words!!!! Not only repulsive, I find it insulting too!!!! 😡

Thank god, if not for the IF forum, I would have died!!!! Pehle toh I used to make my husband forcibly sit and listen to me ranting about Kasturi. But now-a-days I have to blackmail him, "story nahin sunoge toh khana nahin milega!!!" 😆
As soon as I start he is like, rehem karo, mujhe Kasturi ki kahaani mat sunao!!! Robbie ka haal jo hua, so hua, meri haalat kyun bigaad rahi ho!!!! 😆 😆. And if i tell him that I am depressed his reaction is, stop watching these stupid, sappy, senseless, insipid, unrealistic, dumb love stories and you will be fine!!!!!!!!!!!!

**deep sigh** Why are men so practical?????

Now-a-days I cannot even listen to the mitwa track. As soon as that song comes up, I immediately skip it!!!! 😭
And now I want to take revenge on the K-creatives 😡. Does anybody know how the TRP ratings system works??? Can I affect it from the US? Can we all boycott the serial, switch off our TVs when it is broadcast so we can send them this message that we are revolting????

Anyone wants to join me in this revolt????? 😃

though i am a RaKa fan i agree with u on this topic.......as far as k serials r concerned marriage and love dont go together......infact the effect is so much tht my cousin from the US snorts whenever the topic of indian culture is brought up...she's like "the only thing i hv understood thru these indian serials is tht there is no diff. in the values b/w the indians and their US counterparts except for the fact tht in the US all this is open whereas in india ppl do it secretly"...and when i tried to explain the real thing to her she just ignored it....now this is how the present indian culture is projected to the world and i hv stopped telling my soapy woes to my fiance long bk......men just cant understand us women....like its given in a HP bk " they hv the emotional range of a teaspoon".....my fiance doesn't mind watching the same cricket match umpteen no. of times but hates it when i say ki i felt like watching the repeat of such and such a episode......sorry to hv bored u with my rantings.......just had to put it out of my system😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: pragalbha

Guys,

I am utterly disappointed and depressed at the turn of events that happened this week 😕. Yes me, the beacon of eternal hope, who was not ready to believe till the last moment that RK will separate, is now hopeless !! It seems it is going to be once again a challenge between the insitution of marriage vs the power of love. Why are the serials always trying to prove one at the expense of the other? I am really sick of this 😡 .

Now, Kasturi is going to go all out and fight and protect Raunak against all evils, against all misfortunes, against all disappointments. Its like she is going to be his keeper. She will be the Sati Savitri, the eternal pativrata who will kill her love for her husband!!!
Its not Raunak, I think it is Robbie that will once again become the villain, at least as far a K is concerned. He will be made evil, just like Prem of Saathi Re 😭 . His love will be sacrificed at the altar of marriage.
Don't get me wrong, I highly support the institution of marriage. I believe in it very strongly, it is a sacred, fundamental basis for a beautiful relationship between a man and a woman. But the serials have really made a joke out of it.
Arre ek jagah heroine koh pativrata dikhayenge and the same heroine will marry a million times if the script demands it. Arre yaar, even Nannis and Daddis are falling in love and marrying in the world of soap (KZK and KGGK). This is so disgusting, its beyond words!!!! Not only repulsive, I find it insulting too!!!! 😡

Thank god, if not for the IF forum, I would have died!!!! Pehle toh I used to make my husband forcibly sit and listen to me ranting about Kasturi. But now-a-days I have to blackmail him, "story nahin sunoge toh khana nahin milega!!!" 😆
As soon as I start he is like, rehem karo, mujhe Kasturi ki kahaani mat sunao!!! Robbie ka haal jo hua, so hua, meri haalat kyun bigaad rahi ho!!!! 😆 😆. And if i tell him that I am depressed his reaction is, stop watching these stupid, sappy, senseless, insipid, unrealistic, dumb love stories and you will be fine!!!!!!!!!!!!

**deep sigh** Why are men so practical?????

Now-a-days I cannot even listen to the mitwa track. As soon as that song comes up, I immediately skip it!!!! 😭
And now I want to take revenge on the K-creatives 😡. Does anybody know how the TRP ratings system works??? Can I affect it from the US? Can we all boycott the serial, switch off our TVs when it is broadcast so we can send them this message that we are revolting????

Anyone wants to join me in this revolt????? 😃



I am going through the same boat.Sometimes I feel disgusted and really don't know what to do.I tell my husband everything.He says I am an emotional fool
he has even threatened me that he will remove the connection for direct tv ,if I ever tell him about kasturi.

Coming to the topic.At this point it is very difficult to choose.The institution of marriage is always sacred,one needs to have understanding ,love and trust in the marriage.But I firmly believe in the love marriages.I can't see lovers separated.

My only request to the creatives is please don't turn him into evil,so that there is no chance ever for RK to reunite.If turns like sunil shetty in dhadkan ,that would be the last straw for me to watch the serial.

I want this serial to remain the beautiful love story of Robbie and kasturi

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ismita

he has even threatened me that he will remove the connection for direct tv ,if I ever tell him about kasturi.

OMG, I can't believe this!!!!!! My husband said the same thing!!!!!! He is like you are becoming a nervous wreck and I better get the DirectTv cancelled. I said, I still have the IF Kasturi forum, where I can log in and see the serial or read the updates. He was shaking his head in disbelief 😆 😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: nightangel


if i discuss something as a general way he just put his hand off 2 my mouth.. 😉 [ just 4 not to say anything.. no second thought plz.... 😉 ]

how if inst. of marriage with power of luv.. makes our life delightful 4 ever????? kuch jayada hi soch liya na... 😳

nightangel, haath hi rakha na, toh phir kuch nahin sochenge, agar kuch aur hota, toh there would be high chances of second thoughts 😉 😆

And as far as your thought about inst. of marriage with power of luv, that would be the ultimate thing. But I am afraid that is too idealistic!! Will work only in books I guess!!!!

ismita thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: pragalbha

OMG, I can't believe this!!!!!! My husband said the same thing!!!!!! He is like you are becoming a nervous wreck and I better get the DirectTv cancelled. I said, I still have the IF Kasturi forum, where I can log in and see the serial or read the updates. He was shaking his head in disbelief 😆 😆


Hey by the way nice to know that we share same kind of pain
I always love to watch the love stories ,but can't see the lovers separated.My husband says I am a lost case.He doesnot know that I log into IF and write all the stuff.he only thinks that I watch the missing episodes........................

But seriously pragalbha Do you think they will ever unite???Otherwise I am planning to switch my loyalty towards other serial.This is really breaking me down.When I read some of the posts in the forums ,they are hinting towards Robbie turning negative like sunil shetty in dhadkhan ,which I can't bear .Before that It is better for me that i stop watching the serial.

I can't control my curiosity and even some times log in the office and read the updates.
Edited by ismita - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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sorry, double post so deleted the content of this one.

Edited by pragalbha - 18 years ago

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