Fire and Rain - Oct 22/23 - Page 7

Originally posted by: redwine1

Thank u all ... its so encouraging to read words of appreciation ..

Doc ( may i call u that) ... as i told u last night .. i was kind of put off seeing the technical gaffs in yesterdays episode ... for me technicals are very important for the whole viewing experience ..

Then in the LU thread i normally write highlighters of the episode & i had to push the disappointment aside & pick what was according to me highlights of the episode ... but even those frugal sentences were difficult to string ...

Then i came on to ur thread .. read thru ur post .. i dont know when i res'ed for space & when i wrote what i wrote .. it took me all of 3 - 4 mins to pen my thots ..

I can never write when i am not touched or influenced by the creative ... & what the episode failed to do . your writing did ... Swati & Gan ... thank u for introducing me to Doc ...

Doc this post is a tribute to ur wonderful talent .. So thank u .. u helped me pour out what was hidden somewhere in me about the episode ...

Love

R

Originally posted by: swathibalan

Aani.. you know this.. but still I will tell you again..

I love you and am a huge fan of your writing..🤗

Ruby's words touch the soul

Doc's- the mind

Yours - the heart

and G's collages create a beautiful world for the eyes

What more can a fan and reader ask.

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

I was logging off .. Then saw ruby's comment so came back...as this needs response.

Honestly Swathi? You put me in the same bracket as these brilliant minds.. ? ... really did you borrow Doc's cough syrup ... 😆 Kidding aside t. I know you're being generous about me.. Thanks a lot. I don't know whether I deserve this ... But still ..🤗

And I'm 100% with you about your comment about the other three... Their thinking mesmerizes me.. I truly feel the emotions when I read them.. I'll include you in my list as I love your writing to.. For preciseness in expression.

Glad I came to this forum .. 🤗

Originally posted by: berrysweet

Dear Lady ,

I am not going to say that I love your style, thots and viewpoints... because it is a given fact. . I will always like it and if I was to repeat telling you how interesting you are I will be in danger of being labelled as a bore! Thank you for all the undeserving praise, i just pen down my thoughts, magic happens when discussion like this ensues 😊

Have to say though, that the extreme judgement that is going on in this forum makes me cringe. So I have stayed away for a few days. I tend not to venture out too much, it's disheartening and ruins the show for me.

Let the man cry ... and the whole world cries with him. Please ...he is growing.. and the best part of growth brings pain. When his first wife left him, she took along with her , his essence of feeling like a man, who can keep his wife happy and satisfied. She made him think that he can only be loved , if he is able to give material wealth. And now with Ishita 's attitude with Mani.. he thinks maybe, just maybe, I cant be loved EVEN with material wealth. Poor man . He needs someone to hold his hand and show him his self worth. Exactly! I said the same thing while replying to one of the comments here, pain is essential for growth especially and Raman needs to grow. He might have suppressed his past but he isn't over it by any means and Ishita will help cross this bridge and pull him far away from his past.

As for the woman... MY GOD, does she not have a story to tell! Loved a man for years. Got rejected for a biological reason. Ladies out there, Do you even understand how it would feel not to conceive. Having a baby is Gods gift to a woman and then ultimately the women's gift to her man and ofcos the society . She must be feeling empty. Her present husband, lets face it does not help. He is too full of his woes. Her shortcoming that she feels, is kept to herself. Mani comes. He respects her. He is kind. He is her friend. He is sweet. He is everything that Raman is not.

She does not feel any self worth, so she cant see that she is important enough to Raman to affect him in any way.She is clueless about his feeling because he has NEVER shown her that she is personally important to him. {please dont bring up the resignation of his presidency. If I recall ,he blamed himself for the loss of her licence as he was rude to the despicable patient. If I was Ishita, I too would wonder if he did it because he loves me or because of guilt} Bang on! This is woman is hurt and how! None of us can know the pain of never being able to conceive and thankfull so. Yes there are options to adopt or go through surrogacy but the pain and the emptiness always persists. I have never seen a resilient character like Ishita, she never talks about her pain, her agony or her feelings for that better. And this might be a little far fetched but i'll say it when people call her mahan and interfering, in my eyes minus the hindi soap drama her character does the things she does because she has so much love and care to give that she disperses her goodwill amongst solving other people's problems..it might not make sense because I can't find the correct words. I feel for Ishita because she is full of love and yet she remains 'barren'.

What I am trying to say is that ...Yes Raman is in pain, but Ishita has ALWAYS been in pain. Its just that she moves on. She does not drink herself into a stupor. (She does involve herself in others business without limits tho) The forum is upset when Ishita is hurt BUT NOT this upset.

Worries me.. this lack of sympathy for your own gender and this rush to wipe a mans tears. You know i was going to put this in my post but I refrained because I didn't want all preachy and feminist but I am thankful that you brought this up. It is saddening to see how young women are reacting to a woman's plight and why is is that we tend to go and wipe a man's tears in a jiffy while ignoring women. And this is such a sad reflection of the times we live in, here we are fighting for equal pay in the workplace but we forget that the battle is within us! We need to respect our mothers, sisters, our sister in laws and mother in laws before so this world can start respecting us. It is true we are own worst enemies.

And yes people, I do agree with you. It is too sad to see a broken Raman and a clueless Ishita. Just, just, just lets feel sorry for BOTH of them Heartbreaking but makes good television 😃

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Very very well written Doc

I admire your, Sia's and Gandhari's love for ISHRA

Its like no other...

I hope Ekta doesnt make Raman do something STUPID with Shagun, if she makes it back into his life. The magic will forever be lost.

Very nice indeed...

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

thank you pls call me Aani may I pls know your name if its not an issue😳

@red - yep that is the tragedy of human life...hence Fitzgerald got it right when he said show me a hero and I'll write you a tragedy

Originally posted by: anoo123

This is so beautifully written...Thank You for this...
Can I get index of your writings..would love to read more...

Originally posted by: swathibalan

Darling.. Badi jaldi jaake maine res to kar liya but dont know what to say..was speechless reading it..

Unressed it with whatever I could say, but nothing can do justice to what you wrote.. its out of this world

hope this tells how i felt ❤️

P.S. Last line ka warning zarroor padlena..

P.P.S - Pleej to send me the cough syrup details.. I need to order cartons of it. STAT..