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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tulipkhanna

I would like to share a real life experience.I have a relative whose
husband was divorced before and he misunderstood
her closeness with her colleague. It almost cost her marriage, she very
nearly avoided divorce. Since then she learned her husband was her
priority, not any XYZ. It took her husband more than a year to be normal
with her, Those who're thinking it will heal the pain, it's not like
that. Maybe in reel life it happens but in real life it just destroys
lives and families.



it depends on how u react to the situation...like raman when shagun left him he was shatttered but he chose too abondin his family and left for mumbai...but ishita when subbu left her she was also shattered but she never abondon her family...so may b this time raman may react in either way and try to mend their elatiin...let c whats there in the sto store
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ishrafanno1

Love your post. I am just glad that this is happening before the confession. Raman needs to be completely healed and that is exactly what this track is. I just hope the cvs handled it maturely instead of complicating and dragging it.



yeah exactly...even i dnt want them to drag it too much...hope they finish it soon...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lata_ishra



it depends on how u react to the situation...like raman when shagun left him he was shatttered but he chose too abondin his family and left for mumbai...but ishita when subbu left her she was also shattered but she never abondon her family...so may b this time raman may react in either way and try to mend their elatiin...let c whats there in the sto store


Are you seriously comparing married life with bf-gf relationship? Marriage changes everything. Subbu abandoned Ishita for her infertility. where Shagun cheated on Raman, left him over money , took his son , depicted him as a monster to his son's eyes and labelled him a failure. Raman-Shagun shared family life for 6 years where Ishita-Subbu relationship was limited to just bf-gf for 12 years. Some people seeing the duration of 12 years made it look a like big deal but they started dating at 15. But we all know about teenage dating, crush and bf-gf relationship. There aere lots of people there who experienced bf-gf relationship break up more than once but still they are okay. These same people when get divorced life becomes unbearable for them. That's why marriage is termed as a different domain altogether. So, comparing marriage with any other relationship isn't very logical. People with many bf-gf breakups get shivered down on their spines just having a mere thought of divorce. Just imagine what would be the state of a man like Raman to experience it again. In real life any person experiencing the same pain again would never believe in any kind of relationship.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tulipkhanna


Are you seriously comparing married life with bf-gf relationship? Marriage changes everything. Subbu abandoned Ishita for her infertility. where Shagun cheated on Raman, left him over money , took his son , depicted him as a monster to his son's eyes and labelled him a failure. Raman-Shagun shared family life for 6 years where Ishita-Subbu relationship was limited to just bf-gf for 12 years. Some people seeing the duration of 12 years made it look a like big deal but they started dating at 15. But we all know about teenage dating, crush and bf-gf relationship. There aere lots of people there who experienced bf-gf relationship break up more than once but still they are okay. These same people when get divorced life becomes unbearable for them. That's why marriage is termed as a different domain altogether. So, comparing marriage with any other relationship isn't very logical. People with many bf-gf breakups get shivered down on their spines just having a mere thought of divorce. Just imagine what would be the state of a man like Raman to experience it again. In real life any person experiencing the same pain again would never believe in any kind of relationship.


Hey i am not comparing any relation dear...any relation may be husband - wife or Bf-GF if anyone abandons the other partner pain is the same u cant tell that since they were unmarried they can survive any how but married couple cant...bcoz one of my relative she had a break up her BF abandoned her and after that she dint get married bcoz she is not able overcome that pain and she is of my mom's age...soit depends on a person how they take the situation and manage themselves...i never said that raman deserves this pain but if they want to see the sweetness of their life they have to face their insecurities and overcome them...

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