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Posted: 11 years ago
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And it looked like Umesh's dad doesn't even want to try to be together. On the other day..Mohan did the same with Dadi telling he doesn't want to interfere in others problems but he was the one who created the problem in the first place..
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He may be dragged in is one or probably his work of hiding that receipt would be out too..a reason he doesn't want to get involved. In a way Mohan is more unsecured. He was the first one to say Ramesh didn't give shagun money. He tries to mediate but to his advantage. There is love among them but somewhere it is lost of hidden...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It's hard. I could say they all need to work together. They need to look at themselves, realise where they have gone wrong and work on making it better. But it's not possible to have a perfect or even near to perfect family.
If one realises their mistakes the others may not. I feel there is always going to be an imbalance which is why I think it's better that they separate. Like someone said the older brother isn't even willing to try and dadji doesn't want to undertsand anyone. For him, only his principles matter. So how are they ever going to get together. It's not like Ramesh hasn't done anything good. He has helped his brothers and gave so much love to his family but still if all this goes unnoticed then is there really any hope? What sort of situation is needed for family to realise?
I agree even ramesh has to move forward. People fail and try again. It's part and parcel of life. Giving so much importance to his failure is not doing him or his family any favours.



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Originally posted by: *KT*~Lakshya*

It's hard. I could say they all need to work together. They need to look at themselves, realise where they have gone wrong and work on making it better. But it's not possible to have a perfect or even near to perfect family.
If one realises their mistakes the others may not. I feel there is always going to be an imbalance which is why I think it's better that they separate. Like someone said the older brother isn't even willing to try and dadji doesn't want to undertsand anyone. For him, only his principles matter. So how are they ever going to get together. It's not like Ramesh hasn't done anything good. He has helped his brothers and gave so much love to his family but still if all this goes unnoticed then is there really any hope? What sort of situation is needed for family to realise?
I agree even ramesh has to move forward. People fail and try again. It's part and parcel of life. Giving so much importance to his failure is not doing him or his family any favours.





I think if the elder one Viren, stands up and takes responsibility, things can become better. He just wants to be Dadaji's shadow which is the problem because Dadaji himself is wrong most of the times. He hasn't changed according to time.

Mohan is someone who just goes along with the situation according to his advantage. If it had not been for the 5 lakhs which Rupan had demanded, I am sure he wouldn't have put Ramesh into the trap.

All this gets down to the point, fear of Dadaji. And to be in his good books.

Dadaji has to realise that apart from fulfilling responsibilities, there are other happiness in life. Even small mischief or leg pulling could add so much bonding to the family.

If Ramesh hadn't been there, Viren and Mohan's truths would be out and the family wouldn't have existed. They should thank Ramesh for his help instead of landing him into more trouble because Ramesh's image in front of everyone especially his kids and himself is so low.

I think Dadaji should realise, the family he seems so proud of having built is actually not a family. They are just people who are living under the same roof.

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