Amrita hurt because of kabir

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Amrita hurt because of kabir

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Vaise, both seem to be right in their own places..
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What does she expect from him. He isn't a marriage counsellor to discuss her husband with, esp such an issue.
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i kind of agree with her.. she consderd kabir as her friend so its obvious na that she will get hurt
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How could he cheat me. How could he cheat me, how could Kabir cheat me 🤣🤣. Should Amrita not be asking the most important question " how could my husband and father of my kids cheat me and move in with his mistress?" . She more concerned over Kabir. Then when she finds out he in love with her, it be...Why does he love me, why does he love me, who said he could love me, I am married. Poor Kabir...damned if he does, damned if he don.
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Originally posted by: sweetsana1

How could he cheat me. How could he cheat me, how could Kabir cheat me 🤣🤣. Should Amrita not be asking the most important question " how could my husband and father of my kids cheat me and move in with his mistress?" . She more concerned over Kabir. Then when she finds out he in love with her, it be...Why does he love me, why does he love me, who said he could love me, I am married. Poor Kabir...damned if he does, damned if he don.


well said
I find it odd that she is more upset over Kabir not telling her the truth than her husband cheating on her.
Its obvious that she never really loved Prateek. She doesn't seem happy in his presence even prior finding out the truth about him..it would be ridiculous if she denies it, because nothing in her behavior led me to believe that she truly loved and cherished Prateek as a husband, (which is understandable). Yes she cared for him, but love? Something went amiss in their relationship even when they had two daughters. I just think its a case where neither is happy with the other, Prateek went too far by having affair whilst as usual Amrita repressed any feelings that would cause conflict.
But Amrita needs to stop the pretense and confront her true feelings, as I feel through her body language and expressions it was clear that she is more intimate and content within Kabirs presence than Prateek.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: taliya


well said
I find it odd that she is more upset over Kabir not telling her the truth than her husband cheating on her.
Its obvious that she never really loved Prateek. She doesn't seem happy in his presence even prior finding out the truth about him..it would be ridiculous if she denies it, because nothing in her behavior led me to believe that she truly loved and cherished Prateek as a husband, (which is understandable). Yes she cared for him, but love? Something went amiss in their relationship even when they had two daughters. I just think its a case where neither is happy with the other, Prateek went too far by having affair whilst as usual Amrita repressed any feelings that would cause conflict.
But Amrita needs to stop the pretense and confront her true feelings, as I feel through her body language and expressions it was clear that she is more intimate and content within Kabirs presence than Prateek.


I have never saw anything to suggest her and Prateek are madly in love. I think the love fizzled out long ago, could be the reason why Prateek had the affai, to bring some excitement to his life, doesn't mean it is right but some people do that . Out of Amrita, Sonali and Lavanya, Amrita is the one who looks like a boring wife. We have saw Sonali and Gaurav show some intimate moments between them, even Lavanya and Khushan but never Amrita and Prateek. Ok intimacy isn't all required in a marriage but it goes a long way to helping the marriage survive. Prateek craved intimacy and found it with Neha and now it is getting clearer why...Amrita jus don give him the moments he craves because the love isn't there
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetsana1

What does she expect from him. He isn't a marriage counsellor to discuss her husband with, esp such an issue.


No, he didnt have to discuss her husband's affair with her, but he had NO right to cover up for Prateek and Neha, he had no right to block her from finding out abt the affair at the Hotel.
Yes, she would get hurt but its HER life and HER marriage and he had no right to make that decision on her behalf!!
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Originally posted by: sweetsana1


I have never saw anything to suggest her and Prateek are madly in love. I think the love fizzled out long ago, could be the reason why Prateek had the affai, to bring some excitement to his life, doesn't mean it is right but some people do that . Out of Amrita, Sonali and Lavanya, Amrita is the one who looks like a boring wife. We have saw Sonali and Gaurav show some intimate moments between them, even Lavanya and Khushan but never Amrita and Prateek. Ok intimacy isn't all required in a marriage but it goes a long way to helping the marriage survive. Prateek craved intimacy and found it with Neha and now it is getting clearer why...Amrita jus don give him the moments he craves because the love isn't there


This is nice! Blame the wife for her husband cheating on her! 👏

WHY is it only Amrita's duty to bring intimacy and romance in their marriage?

Prateek is not the type to be lover-like or romantic with his wife.
To him, wifey is there to manage household and kids! Hes a horribly egoist, chauvistic male!

He expects wife to stay home and not talk to any other outside man but he can go and sleep with women who are subservient to him. 🤢
Sonali and Lavanya have been lucky to have caring, considerate husbands. Prateek is not at all like them so the situations cannot be compared.

Prateek wasnt even there for her when she needed him for emotional support. He was either busy at work or busy getting "massages" from his cheap secretary!

When Amrita was craving his company and his empathy at home after Trisha's disappearance, he was busy taking Neha's phone calls and going to hotels to sleep with Neha! 🤢

Theres a particular psychology at work here with rich, egoistic males like Prateek. These powerful, famous men often find perverted thrill in the slavish attention of a younger woman who is working under them, inspite of having a beautiful, loyal wife at home.

Its part of pampering their ego, and women like Neha know exactly how to cater to the perverted tastes of such men! 🤢

I hope Prateek gets killed or at least loses his company and all his money. Want to see him brought down to his knees!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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relax yaar am not jus blaming Amrita. Even I am a wife and a mother of 5. Prateek is very much to blame, infact both of them are to blame for the way their marriage is. Prateek for jus being the type pf guy that he is and Amrita for allowing herself to be treated that way and accepting her husband
Even I have male friends and I am allowed to meet them and chat with them. My husband doesn't get jealous.

Maybe Prateek is dead. I mean Neha always takes his calls but never when Kabir phoned. Hmmm

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