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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankitasen


@ Bold: Really? She called Mani from his office, who was in other side of Delhi, just to give a trial for a bracelet. Who does that? She could've asked Appa, Mr. Bhalla or Romi for that matter. Then it would've been convenient and realistic. And, bracelets are easy to get resized if not fitted well at first instance. So, callig Mani for help had gone overboard. It's because nowadays Ishita's every action starts with Mani and ends with Mani.

They are different ways to see things... If u find someone annoying then whatever they do it u will find faults...

So if she takes help from her someone other than Mani its fine but if its Mani then its a issue ...why ?

If she really wanted to spend time with Mani then she had 101 reasons ..she didn't have to invite him home to select a gift for her husband... Her intentions was pure and all she wanted was a perfect gift for her husband ..

Did people forget what Raman has done to Ishita ..where was this sensitive Raman when he danced with his ex wife ...when he was having fun with his ex wife n his kids in a resort in the name of picnic...this is nothing compared to what Raman has dine to Iahita...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

They are different ways to see things... If u find someone annoying then whatever they do it u will find faults...
Check your last paragraph, you'll see who's finding faults assuming someone annoying...

So if she takes help from her someone other than Mani its fine but if its Mani then its a issue ...why ?

If she really wanted to spend time with Mani then she had 101 reasons ..she didn't have to invite him home to select a gift for her husband... Her intentions was pure and all she wanted was a perfect gift for her husband ..
You again got it all wrong. If there are enough men present in your home with better knowledge of your husband's liking, will you invite someone from far apart who knows nothing about him? Her action there simply didn't make any sense.It appeared like she was calling for his help for nothing.

Did people forget what Raman has done to Ishita ..where was this sensitive Raman when he danced with his ex wife ...when he was having fun with his ex wife n his kids in a resort in the name of picnic...this is nothing compared to what Raman has dine to Iahita...
Why It always has to be Raman vs Ishita? One wrong action doesn't justify another wrong one. I criticized Raman at that time and now I criticize Ishita for her action. Ishita and Raman both have their fare share of dumb actions. But some people are so hung up on either Ishita or Raman that they overlook their unjustified actions too.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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exactly... agree with you..
peolple dont even think for a second when they bash RAMAN...
but when someone bash Ishita, then they are upset..
people are bashing a person according to the behaviour, not intention..
raman is rude.. but his intentions are not bad..
but still everyone bashes him..
so sad...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The reason I bring up Raman's past is because people crticise Ishita without considering what she had to go through and what made her react like this...Raman is not an innocent soul ..he is facing all this today because of his previous act ...if someone brings up Raman's past it doesn't mean it's Ishita vs Raman...

If she had taken help from her female friend then reaction would be different.. The problem here is not taking help from a friend but taking help from a male friend...



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy



If she had taken help from her female friend then reaction would be different.. The problem here is not taking help from a friend but taking help from a male friend...




exactly...the issue is, that she is taking help from a male friend...who she knows that her husband is jealous of...whose name she is jaapping 24/7 from last one week, just to rile up her husband...so she is also at fault here...

noone is and can justify Raman's jealousy...but the onus lies with both of them...hence when she cried..someone was needed to tell her that...

Mani told Raman how bad he was again n made him guilty, which was good...same way, someone shud have put some sense in Ishita's mind as well, that dear, if u know ur husband is short-tempered n super jealous of Mani, then why goad him further by getting Mani everywhere...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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exactly...the issue is, that she is taking help from a male friend...who she knows that her husband is jealous of...whose name she is jaapping 24/7 from last one week, just to rile up her husband...so she is also at fault here...

noone is and can justify Raman's jealousy...but the onus lies with both of them...hence when she cried..someone was needed to tell her that...

Mani told Raman how bad he was again n made him guilty, which was good...same way, someone shud have put some sense in Ishita's mind as well, that dear, if u know ur husband is short-tempered n super jealous of Mani, then why goad him further by getting Mani everywhere...


She is craving for her husband's love...it was evident in today's episode and somewhere she is trying to gauge Raman's reaction.by making him jealous...it might not be the right approach but her intention behind this act is to understand Raman's feelings ...a right approach would be to confront him directly but unfortunately Raman being Raman can't stop being rude to her...if he was sensitive to his wife's feelings he would not have faced this situation today.

The problem is with Raman's attitude... He is being unreasonable ..there is nothing wrong if your wife has a male friend...yes she is over excited seeing him but at the same time she has not given any reason for him to doubt her... She meets her friend openly and have also tried to invite Raman to be part of their dinner plans...again due to his ego he refused to know about her friends

When Raman thought Murali was Mani he had no issues and was quite confident but when Mani turned out to be someone who is handsome, smart and successful businessman he started feeling insecure... Raman is insecure about himself...if Mani was Murali types he would roam around taunting Mani and Ishita ...the problem lies with Raman ...its his insecurity which makes him to react like that...He has problems moving on in his life...he is somewhere stuck in his past
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes for me nobody was at fault. But asusual forum reactions are more even than the leads in the show. I would like to ask when we can love flawed Raman character then why can't we even accept flawed Ishita? We blame CVs for making a mahaan female lead but we are not able to accept when she does mistakes. Why so much negativity towards Ishita. Since the beginning of getting Param home track she has been criticised left and right whether she is right or wrong. I am not saying criticizing is bad but why be biased? Why bring their past? There is a hell lot of difference between what they were earlier and what they are now. Some comments are too harsh as if both have not done anything to each other!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Ranju.

Yes for me nobody was at fault. But asusual forum reactions are more even than the leads in the show. I would like to ask when we can love flawed Raman character then why can't we even accept flawed Ishita? We blame CVs for making a mahaan female lead but we are not able to accept when she does mistakes. Why so much negativity towards Ishita. Since the beginning of getting Param home track she has been criticised left and right whether she is right or wrong. I am not saying criticizing is bad but why be biased? Why bring their past? There is a hell lot of difference between what they were earlier and what they are now. Some comments are too harsh as if both have not done anything to each other!!


yes u are right...both of them has flaws, and thats what make them more real...

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