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Posted: 10 years ago
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Raman was singing "aata maajhi satakali mala raag yeto" šŸ˜‰
From the day mani name was introduced he was ok because he thought he is lady but the day he came to know he is guy he tried to find out about him he was ok. When he saw wrong man as a mani he was jealous but still he was ok. When he knew who is actually mani tall dark and handsome and he was jealous and insecure and moreover his wife was chanting mani jhap from day one but still he was ok.
His wife was in hospital and he was stress out has fight with union leader and cry his heart out.
It was last hammer from mani when he interfere in husband wife moment and he brought ruhi to hospital and told her about ishita condition and gave lecture to raman how to handle wife and family and finally that moment come where rkb sing a song aata maajhi satakali

Mani is positive or negative but he is indeed interfering too much on his assumption and I am happy raman told him his mistake. As a friend he is concerned I am agreed but thinking his way is right is not good. You are a good person that doesnt mean you are always right.

Raman question was apt and that's good instead of crying in corner and made urself abla nar and think why did this happend to me only. He react to situation and stand up for himself and his relationship and he asked those question which was raised by many fans here. He knew little little thing about ishita but he was not there when she was going through wrong phase of life and now he thinks he doesnt deserve ishita and raman told whatever he did for iyers it looked out of place but mani got to know that he is also part of Iyer's and don't try to point out finger at their relationship šŸ‘šŸ¼

One best thing is that he did questioned mani but he didn't doubt on ishita and he relationship with mani for a second 😳

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Posted: 10 years ago
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First of all Loved ur Post. šŸ‘

I am not bashing Ishita (this is what was shown on the show ). Ishita did not take even 2 secs in believing Sanjana that Raman had an affair with her and dumped her n is the reason for all her woes in life. Whereas even after Raman saw Ishita with another man n that too somebody who openly flirts with her n she also does Mani jaap whole day he was jealous, but he never Doubted ishita. šŸ‘ It speaks volumes about this character.

He is not the narrow minded person who just thinks from his ego, he too is understanding and understands Ishita. Yes he is insensitive in his taunts n anger which is absolutely not justified but that is the way his character has been from day 1. We cannot expect him to shed his character completely n reform into a Better person.

When u r in love u need to accept the person with all their flaws (which both Ishra do by the way). Ishita doesn't mind much about Raman's taunts she takes it in her stride and Raman doesn't mind so much about Ishita's meddling ways. Yes he gets angry on her when she meddles and she also taunts him back saying ravan kumar or showing her JKR mode when he is rude and arrogant RKB, but these two have subconsciously accepted each other which is the beauty of this show. Hence I feel we don't need an external catalyst for getting them together. Ishra both are quite well sufficient.

Ultimately Love is not about making u the perfect Human being.


Edited by mnr123 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes Raman doubting Mani-Ishita relationship would have meant Raman not trusting Ishita and I am glad that did not happen. He trusts Ishita but I dont think he trusts Mani šŸ˜†. And getting Ruhi to the hospital was really taking things too far! Who is he to decide? Ruhi is Raman and Ishita's daughter and she is a child. Yes she is emotionally far stronger than a normal 7 yr old but Mani couldnt have possibly known that. And the poor kid was scared seeing her Ishima so weak and frail. Based on a couple of meetings and what few people said he started deciding what is good for Ishita and what is not. Its not his place to decide however noble his intentions may be. Agreed Raman started that conversation but Raman would not have started that conversation had Mani not ticked him off for shouting at Ishita. He has no idea about the dynamics of Ishra relationship. I really thought he would talk to Ishita before jumping to a conclusion.
Edited by yhm_craze - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Excellent post.šŸ‘šŸ¼

Happy that They did not show Raman has a typical husband who first ask his wife to tell her frined not to interfere in their lives. Raman directly had a conversation with Mani. Mani i do not on what basis he is judging Raman. Believing Ashok words then one for sure he is going lose Ishita friendship.

As a friend you are worried about Ishita its okay but you do not have any right on Ruhi and without asking anybody he should not bringing a 6 years child who is quite attached to her mom and have always of fear of losing her to the hospital. It will for sure effect Ruhi a lot.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123

First of all Loved ur Post. šŸ‘


I am not bashing Ishita (this is what was shown on the show ) but Ishita did not take even 2 secs in believing Sanjana that Raman had an affair with her and dumped her n is the reason for all her woes in life. Whereas even after Raman saw Ishita with another man n that too somebody who openly flirts with her n she also does Mani jaap whole day he was jealous, but he never Doubted ishita. šŸ‘ It speaks volumes about this character.

He is not the narrow minded person who just thinks from his ego, he too is understanding and understands Ishita. Yes he is insensitive in his taunts n anger which is absolutely not justified but that is the way his character has been from day 1. We cannot expect his to shed his character completely n reform into a Better person.

When u r in love u need to accept the person with all their flaws (which both Ishra do by the way). Ishita doesn't mind much about Raman's taunts she takes it in her stride and Raman doesn't mind so much about Ishita's meddling ways. Yes he gets angry on her when she meddles and she also taunts him back saying ravan kumar or showing her JKR mode when he is rude and arrogant RKB, but these two have subconsciously accepted each other which is the beauty of this show. Hence I feel we don't need an external catalyst for getting them together. Ishra both are quite well sufficient.

Ultimately Love is not about making u the perfect Human being.



Megha very well said šŸ‘
Ishita she trusted raman blindly on shagun matter and same ishita doubted raman on basis of unknown girl.
Ishra accepted eachother the way they are. Sometimes they taunt eachother for the way they are but they know they love their basic trait. Ishita likes angry raman and raman loved her lecture.
It is not trust anyone the way mani ishita behaved specially mani is still behaving but raman trust her blindly and ishita also has made that image in raman eyes 😊
We saw raman side feeling now waiting for ishita side
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Posted: 10 years ago
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What an apt post! I think the best part of the scene was that they didn't take the cliched route (Raman realizing that he's a horrible husband, he hasn't done anything for Ishita and her family, he doesn't deserve her, and she's definitely better off with Mani). I loved that he made a stand in front of Mani today that he is Ishita's husband and he's proved it to her, her family, and everyone else that he is capable of fulfilling his responsibilities towards her. His outburst made it clear that he will not let her go regardless of any third person's perception of his qualities as a husband.

But I feel that Mani was right in his stand too. I mean all he's seen is Raman lashing out on Ishita and others around him. I think as a friend he is concerned for Ishita's emotional state which he made clear to Raman. It'll probably be up to Ishita to make Mani understand that she's in good hands with Raman being her husband.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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...and all the while I was imagining Raman Kumar Bhalla singing... "Aata Majhi Satakli"🤣... and trust me it was hilarious!🤪
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jaya gr8 post.. Mani vrat is not gonna work i tell u šŸ˜†
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123

First of all Loved ur Post.šŸ‘


I am not bashing Ishita (this is what was shown on the show ). Ishita did not take even 2 secs in believing Sanjana that Raman had an affair with her and dumped her n is the reason for all her woes in life. Whereas even after Raman saw Ishita with another man n that too somebody who openly flirts with her n she also does Mani jaap whole day he was jealous, but he never Doubted ishita.šŸ‘It speaks volumes about this character.

He is not the narrow minded person who just thinks from his ego, he too is understanding and understands Ishita. Yes he is insensitive in his taunts n anger which is absolutely not justified but that is the way his character has been from day 1. We cannot expect him to shed his character completely n reform into a Better person.

When u r in love u need to accept the person with all their flaws (which both Ishra do by the way). Ishita doesn't mind much about Raman's taunts she takes it in her stride and Raman doesn't mind so much about Ishita's meddling ways. Yes he gets angry on her when she meddles and she also taunts him back saying ravan kumar or showing her JKR mode when he is rude and arrogant RKB, but these two have subconsciously accepted each other which is the beauty of this show. Hence I feel we don't need an external catalyst for getting them together. Ishra both are quite well sufficient.

Ultimately Love is not about making u the perfect Human being.





Bang on Megz !! šŸ‘šŸ¼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aisha15

What an apt post! I think the best part of the scene was that they didn't take the cliched route (Raman realizing that he's a horrible husband, he hasn't done anything for Ishita and her family, he doesn't deserve her, and she's definitely better off with Mani). I loved that he made a stand in front of Mani today that he is Ishita's husband and he's proved it to her, her family, and everyone else that he is capable of fulfilling his responsibilities towards her. His outburst made it clear that he will not let her go regardless of any third person's perception of his qualities as a husband.

But I feel that Mani was right in his stand too. I mean all he's seen is Raman lashing out on Ishita and others around him. I think as a friend he is concerned for Ishita's emotional state which he made clear to Raman. It'll probably be up to Ishita to make Mani understand that she's in good hands with Raman being her husband.



@Bold I Disagree!

How can you say that? When only time Raman had started shouting was after Ishita had fainted, and it proves his worry and care and love for Ishita... Mani is absolutely wrong in claiming to know Raman as a selfish and disdainful man,just because he hadsome rendezvouses with Ashok? And above all he trusted him when on the other day, in his house warming party Ishita had told that Ashok is not a nice guy and to stay away from him, but he goes and trust him and builds his imaginary understanding of RKB's character and lashes out at him, all when he has never even seen IshRa Rapport!
Edited by OfTheHeart - 10 years ago

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