How many meetings needed?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Many times when we are to choose who we marry we either meet them a lot or just once and it's decided that we'll spend our life with them. I guess something similar to love and arranged marriages.

In love marriages you obviously fall in love with the person and you probably meet them many times, whears in an arranged marriage..most of the time you only meet that person once or twice and that's it.

Do you agree that meeting the person who you'll spend your entire life with should be done with just onee meeting or do you think that many meetings are needed to finally understand the person so you can decide then if you'll want to spend ur life with that person.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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As mentioned yes it similar to arranged and love marriages discussed here, would understand the topic is spending too much time spend before commitment is good or bad.

Commitment is not about spending time and knowing persons compatibility over a long period. It's about personal preferences on making this decision, spending more time together is no good criteria, as people keep changing and evolving. Personal decision can be based on various factors personal as well as practical.

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