Please get your facts right CVs about Golu (Updt)

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Okay it feels really good to see South Indian culture and tradition without huge dark-skinned gundas screaming enna rascals but CVs need to do proper research on the tradition they show because people without knowledge about it are learning from it.
Golu:

I had previously made a topic about it for people who had no idea what that meant. Here is the link for it...

now coming back to some major errors shown in the show:

1. The steps DO NOT signify each day of navaratri. People can keep any number of steps right from 3 to any other odd number. You cannot keep even number steps it has to be ODD number! In my grandma's house we used to have almost 15 huge and long steps with various dolls and other creative things like park scene, marriage party scene, garden scene on the bottom. We cousins used to come up with a theme for the bottom and compete with other neighbors. It was almost like a competition among the colony people 😆

2. The golu bommai or dolls are NOT to be touched starting day one of navaratri. It is considered inauspicious if you change the place of the dolls or if a doll breaks. So infants and toddlers are never allowed near the steps to ensure they don't move or break the dolls by mistake 😆

3. There is nothing wrong in keeping barbie dolls. Nowadays people have started incorporating modern and other newer looking dolls to be part of the golu. Children are encouraged to come up with ideas and some want to keep their stuffed toys or dolls in the steps. The only rule is that the dolls kept in these steps should never be kept in the pooja mandap to be worshipped. The dolls are specially kept for this purpose and are not used for worshipping.

4. Ishita and family are Iyers meaning followers of Shiva and not Vishnu. Of course that doesn't mean that you are not supposed to listen or chant Vishnu's names but it's just their main deity is Shiva. And during navaratri they chant Lalita Sahasranama and not Vishnu Sahasranama. I remember in a previous episode Mrs. Iyer singing bhaja govindam. I think CVs got the most popular CD of MS. Subbalaksmi which is Vishnu Sahasranama that also contains bhaja govindam and keep playing it in case they need some South Indian BGM 😆

5. In the show, every family member shows aarti to the golu. I am not too sure about this procedure but I don't recall doing such family aartis. Usually one person who does the pooja does the aarti in the evening and at night the ladies of the house show aarti made of kumkum and turmeric water. The water is prepared on the first day and used for all nine days. Before the family sleeps they take the aarti with that water and on the last day that water is poured in front of the house and on the tulsi plant. It's supposed to remove evil eye (drishti)

6. Invited women and children sing bhajans or classical songs and chant sahasranama take prasadam and leave. The main prasadam is sundal which is made of different steamed pulses mixed with tadka and coconut. Each day there is a different pulse like channa, green gram, etc. Yes now people have started having other sweets and savories along with it but the main prasadam offered is sundal for the Goddess.

7. Not all Iyers and Iyengars keep golu. It ONLY depends on each family's tradition. Unless the tradition has been present in the house they don't need to keep it. If there is no tradition of golu in the house women are invited to take tambulam which consists of auspicious things like betal leaves, betal nuts, turmeric-kumkum packets, fruit, and other things.

I guess I have covered the major bloopers shown in the show. People are welcome to add any other things 😃

Hope this helped for those who are new to this!
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Nice job writing this up! ..Yes there were a lot of bloopers ..equating the number of steps with the number of days was the biggest let down for me! ..I expected mistakes in the portrayal of the south indian culture but seriously where did they get that info that number of steps means number of days! ...
also, I would really give anything to stop hearing that crappy tamil ... Mrs. Iyer said "bum - mai" for dolls ...it is "bo-mmai" ..There were couple other terribly butchered words too ...I really cannot tolerate her tamil ...even Ishita said some nonsense in tamil ...
I think they should really forget the idea of blurting tamil words in between ...many south indian families in Delhi speak good Hindi ..so they should stick with that ... it's a major put off to hear a word butchered! ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nowadays i dnt care yaar...
Daly soap hain...i fee bad when amy languagae ia brutally killed...😭

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Posted: 11 years ago
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thanks for ur detailed explanation.
btw i agree they were so many bloopers.
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oh my god...so many mistakes...😲😲...being a muslim,i dint get these all nd even i didnt get the concept of this occasion as mrs iyer is not understandable 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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one more funny thing i noticed - the iyers and ishita keep saying 'golu festival'. no south indian tamilian calls this as a golu festival. it is just golu or bommai golu. and yes , as earlier pointed out, aarthi is done only by one person in the family - not by all.
why cant the CVs do some research and get this right - there are so many tamilians all over the place and it is so easy to get this right.
mrs iyer was terrible today - butchered tamil like anything. why does she keep saying 'Maarumagan' - it is MARUMAGAN. !! and many other nonsensical words. oh God Save Tamil.
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Originally posted by: vandana21

Nice job writing this up! ..Yes there were a lot of bloopers ..equating the number of steps with the number of days was the biggest let down for me! ..I expected mistakes in the portrayal of the south indian culture but seriously where did they get that info that number of steps means number of days! ...

also, I would really give anything to stop hearing that crappy tamil ... Mrs. Iyer said "bum - mai" for dolls ...it is "bo-mmai" ..There were couple other terribly butchered words too ...I really cannot tolerate her tamil ...even Ishita said some nonsense in tamil ...
I think they should really forget the idea of blurting tamil words in between ...many south indian families in Delhi speak good Hindi ..so they should stick with that ... it's a major put off to hear a word butchered! ..

Thanks! 😊

I was totally put off with Mrs. Iyer's explanation of the steps. From there the episode was a total let down with so many mistakes!

Neenaji had a vast improvement with her tamil some months ago but it seems to have stalled at that point. Or any actor for that matter while pronouncing tamil diction. I still cannot digest Aiyyo murgan its only MURUGA and not MURUGAN 🥱. And the other day Ishita said "Nandri Murugan" with d pronounced like in dawat when it has to be d pronounced in damaru. CVs need to take that extra step to make sure the language is correctly pronounced.

@bold: Word! What's with the CVs thinking that Tamilians cannot speak hindi without an accent. So many thousand south indians migrated to Delhi and Mumbai and can speak perfect hindi without accent. We are seeing living examples like Shankar Mahadevan, Hariharan, Usha Utup, etc. They all speak hindi and tamil perfectly well. Most of the times tamil dialogues are blurted out in hurry and words are butchered!
Actually forget Mrs. Iyer's accented hindi, even her english seems accented. Like seriously WTH! 😡 Why is Mrs. Iyer's english so heavily accented? Tamilians cannot speak english also without accent huh?

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Originally posted by: immira

Nowadays i dnt care yaar...

Daly soap hain...i fee bad when amy languagae ia brutally killed...😭

Haha I also realize this is just a work of fiction but CVs have taken a job to showcase other cultures and traditions so they might as well do it correctly. I am sure it won't hurt if they keep it at least little close to reality and not make up stuff 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetiecuckoo

thanks for ur detailed explanation.

btw i agree they were so many bloopers.

yup way too many to ignore! 😆

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