I completely agree with all of your points. I am among those who believed Ishita was just being human and did what she did her whole life.
1. She protected Ruhi from the accident , putting her life in danger. That time she didn't know her either.
2. She saved Ruhi's life and took her to hospital, resulting face criminal charges against her break of her engagement and keeping her parents behind bars in worst possible condition.
3. Married to Raman just to protect Ruhi even though during her marriage she came to know about a brutal reality of Raman( which was wrong) that he was a abusive father. Stepped in a marriage for Ruhi only.
4. Took the whole blame to protect Simmi n Param .
5. Tried to give punishment to Param with the help of Sarika as she want her also to get justice and end up in a lockup n a case of harassment .
6. She took Param to the house when Simmi was ready to go to any extent to be with her husband and end up being trapped again by Param and still living with that rapist in the same house and still maintain her dignity n took all the shit from Simmi too.
Now how come she is wrong at this point , she is wrong only for one thing that she took her to her room that's also not her problem entirely , Toshi ji being the female of the house should provide a room for Shagun , Ishita can't leave her on Living room, she could have taken her to the Ruhi's room but she can't as for that she has to left Shagun in the living room shift Ruhi from her room but Shagun was very wild and no one helping her , she needs family support that time but everyone was just pointing out there fingers and making her realize she is wrong, Even if Raman would be there instead of Ishita he did the same.
Only thing which I expect from Ishita was
1. Apology to Raman as unknowingly she hurt him to bring his first wife in that condition to her house and made him realize she is regretting her decision.
2. Should lay her down to Ruhi's room.
3. Message Ashok to know where her fianc is.
Raman was good as he was angry but don't want to say bad to Ishita in that condition. He was holding himself That was a very difficult task for Raman's character. But he convoyed her very clearly where he is standing today. Somehow I feels first time he feels afraid of loosing Ishita because of her goodness. I feels fear more then anger on his face.
Sorry for long rumbling ... But wants to went out.
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