Nobody is perfect...

I'm warning you, it will be a long post and

all thing that I will said will be from my opinion!!!😆

"He's not perfect. You aren't either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn't going to quote poetry, he's not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don't hurt him, don't change him, and don't expect for more than he can give. Don't analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he's not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don't exist, but there's always one guy that is perfect for you."
# Bob Marley

When I heard this it connects me to one remark that I had read on other forum about the fact that How can Sanam be able to fall in love with a caractere like Aahil ? and I found this quote of BOB MARLEY, the perfect answer...

I will add some comments :

# Being a woman😛 I understand that Aahil being a womanizer and having make s** in haysack are not goods points in his favore😡...BUT what I like about Aahil that he is a HONEST PERSON👏...Yes he dates many girls but he never gives wrong hopes to those women...and ONE THING that if during that sequence in the haysack if THAT WOMAN have said NO...I'm sure that Aahil will have respect her choice and he wouldn't impose himself on her...We can say all what we want but AAHIL goes only to whose WHO WANTS HIM...

#So came back to the question...for me SANAM isnot in love with AAHIL yet...I mean yes she is attractive to him and has some feelings for him but LOVE it's far...but she is falling with him and this is different...

And I want to see her transformation (we have seen a glimps of that) and how she will express her feelings...about AAHIL I will not say anything about him because we all have seeing his wonderful transformation from being a womanizer to a perfect lover😳...

#In fact the meaning if this post is just sometimes I found us(woman) a little contradictory/conflicting😕... I mean with us being woman in general...we are never happy with what we have...I don't target anybody I speak in general😆...

# I just want to say that if SANAM had started to see AAHIL from different angle (without his past ) so WHY US ALWAYS WANT TO REMEMBER ONLY THE BAD MEMORIES/ENCOUNTER ABOUT SOMEONE ?😭 I mean yes AAHIL had a BAD PAST but can't we give him some credit about the PRESENT and FUTUR ?...It's what SANAM is doing now in the show (from my perspertive) and it's what I love about her : she is someone who if you do something bad to her, she will remember that about you BUT if you do something good to her, she will remove the bad thing and will see only the good thing😃.

# SO if SANAM doesn't accept or doesn't want to be with AAHIL for being himself (his bad past/qualities...) only because he had many girl THEN sorry but she doesn't DESERVE HIM ( it how I think )...yes because AAHIL had accept SANAM for being herself (traditional girl/not speaking english/ town's girl)😊...for me it's what is important about loving someone...you have to accept him for himself and not for what you want him to be...if you don't accept him for himself then you don't really love this person...you only love a perseption of someone that you have create from you imagination (yes I am being a little philosofic lol)😆...but for me AAHIL is someone who are really in love because he had never wanted to change SANAM to someone else...I mean since the marriage he never order her to wear modern clothes like his past girlfriends...quite the opposite he GIVES her the kind of clothes that SHE loves...

# Now about the quote that I had post in the begging of this post is a perfect descriptions of the relationship that have SANAM/AAHIL (it again from my perseption of the show ) : "He's not perfect (Aahil). You aren't either (SANAM), and the two of you will never be perfect (perfection is not a humain quality, only GOD is perfect). But if he can make you laugh at least once (Aahil doesn't make SANAM laugh litteraly but he gives her some smiles), causes you to think twice (I don't have yet an example from the show), and if he admits to being human and making mistakes ( yes sometimes Aahil thinks that he is GOD I mean he is an arrogant brat😆 BUT he admits his mistakes when he was saving SANAM from the grave, I don't remenber exaclty what he said at the moment but he told her that he will not bother/bully her if she open her eyes), hold onto him and give him the most you can (it's what is SANAM is doing now, she forced him to wear/eat despite his groumy mood lol). He isn't going to quote poetry (that is a sure thing about Aahil, he isn't someone who will waste his time on poetry but we can always dream no😉), he's not thinking about you every moment (Aahil thinks about SANAM almost all time but not every moment I mean it impossible for someone to think about a thing 24/24 hours), but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break (Yes Aahil gives HIS HEART to SANAM a part that he never thought he had ). Don't hurt him (it's already too late because SANAM has hurt him without knowing😕), don't change him (yes SANAM doesn't need to change him he has already accept the fact that he is in love and commitement matters to him), and don't expect for more than he can give ( Aahil already gives more than he can gives HIS HEART). Don't analyze (this is the biggest flaw of SANAM, she analyse anything and in the wrong way ). Smile when he makes you happy (SANAM smiles when Aahil stops to drink and when he gives her the clothes), yell when he makes you mad ( We have already see this many times Aahil/SANAm fighting), and miss him when he's not there (It's something that I hope I can see in the next episodes). Love hard when there is love to be had ( Aahil loves SANAM in his manners because he know that he doesn't a lot of time I mean the period marriage). Because perfect guys don't exist (it's reality and SANAM has to accept Aahil for himself, and even REHAN isn't perfect), but there's always one guy that is perfect for you ( YES Aahil with all his flaws is the perfect guy for SANAM I mean yes REHAN is also a perfect guy in his manners for a girl but this girl isn't SANAM)."
# Bob Marley

PS : I know it's a long post and it's not my style to make a post usually I'm a silent reader lol😆 but I wanted to make a post on this because I found this unfair for Aahil to be blash because of his pats and sorry if someone isn't agree with me and I'm someone with an openmind I accept all oppinions AND sorry if you don't understand something because I don't maitrise well the english language I mean the construstion of sentence are generally french...so sorry in advance

Take care !

Rajae

Aahil being a player doesn't make him bad. He never gave false hopes. Though the haystack thing is in bad or poor taste, I would agree with that. If someone is single and has their share of flings doesn't make them a bad person.

Great post. Agreed. It's about accepting the other, and both Aahil and Sanam have done that and are continuing to do so.

It's a beautifully written post.

I agree with every word and what to say about Bob Marley, he described perfectly the human being

Magnifique vraiment, j'ai ador

rien rajouter (french part) 😉

That Bob Marley quote feels as though it was made for SaHil !

Superb analysis !

We might nag Gul, but one things for sure, she's writing a beautiful lovestory.

Sanam and Aahil arnt perfect, and because of that ;

-We can relate to them

-Cheer for them

-Feel their pain as it were our own

-Overlook their shortcomings

-Basically its because they're so flawed that even we as audience can connect with them and most of all love them !!