Teen Devia ...with three different perspectives !

For Anandi ... Everything seems to be going well for the most part. She had her good times and naturally she had her rough moments too !

Then one day she find out that her partner has cheated on her . Maybe there were clues that led up to the official finding. Maybe she had a hunch but just wasn't sure. Or maybe she never even saw it coming. Either way the fact remains that Jaggiya has been unfaithful and she was devastated. The person she trusted to honor her in this relationship has betrayed her. He let her down, embarrassed her , and hurt her to her core!!

How can you recover from the fact that he cheated on you? Can you really get back into a relationship with him and expect that it can be a good, healthy, and successful relationship ? Is forgiving him possible when you have to live with something as bad as being cheated on?!!!

YES!...That is correct...yes all of these things are impossible, but you have to understand what you are dealing with. First let's start with forgiving him . she gave forgiveness because it is best for both of them . Holding on to the pain of what has occurred ,does nothing but create more pain and disappointment moving forward. This isn't to minimize the seriousness of being cheated on ! Forgiveness is freedom and many people are living in shackles wondering why things don't get better in their life. The power is in your hands to forgive and let it go! The quicker you do that, the quicker you can move in a better direction with or without that person ! Anandi has forgiven Jaggiya and moved forward in her life with Shiv ...that was the best solution !

So just because you forgive a person that cheated on you, that doesn't mean you need to still be with that person. The reality is that if you've been cheated on, then there is an issue in the relationship or with that person. Either way there is an issue that needs to be addressed. Forgiveness is just the first step!

For Gowri...Many people get cheated on, here ,they cheated eachother many times ...in a way continuously ,but lack of proper communication ,and at times exodus of emotions contributed by negative attitude ,prevented them to continue their relationship !

Gowri ... the things that fed into cheating , may not be something you can fix or are prepared to fix. If not, taking him back is pointless. Again, should you forgive him ? Absolutely not , but do not overlook the fact that some situations can be fixed with proper communication while others need to be recognized as a relationship that needs to end.

Maybe both of you aren't truly ready or serious about the relationship. Maybe there is something that he need from you that has not been provided. Maybe he was still in love with his ex, ran into her , and obviously you know what happened next. No matter what it is, you have to try to talk about it in a calm and receptive manner. Attacking them out of anger (that is why forgiveness is the first step) will only create a situation where an honest and open discussion will be difficult to have. So truly address the issue, then based on that conversation determine if being together is possible for you ??!! Ending a relation with haste and after a long time ,came back...may be because of circumstances ..and want to get back what you lost long back ...is not convincingly correct !

For Jagdish...Nobody likes the idea of being cheated on. It sucks and having to face that situation will always be difficult. Do not allow the pain of cheating to cloud your judgment. Always take a step back, remember to forgive, and then properly address/discuss the situation. Proper communication is always a good thing so embrace it even in moments like this. How others view you and your situation should not matter. This is between you and your ex or your present partner, but do not be foolish to think that blowing up on them and walking away is going to solve anything. Take a more positive and open-minded approach, you will get the results that are best for you...even if they aren't what you had once hoped for them to be!

For Ganga ...cheated by her husband Rat ...then never forget it and never forgiven him ...distanced herself from him ...married DrSa ...then Rat redeemed ..but treated him as a savior at Mannu's cancer time , but never had any soft corner towards him ..because of the trust she has on Dr Sa and maintained distance from her ex ! There is no confusion from anyone , only conclusion ,that is ...The End !

Gowri is a self made woman , career oriented person , highly ambitious , but at the same time very selfish ! Both loved each other, no confusion there ,both did mistakes in the past ,but now without knowing his mind , without having knowledge about his life changes ...why she is longing for him at this stage ??!!

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In a way a woman's perspective , her love , longing , fear of losing again , a strong desire to regaining ,that is Gowri ! She is the loser and making herself a fool in this situation !

On another side , understanding , doing justice to her profession , thinking from other side's point of view , try to repay for a mistake done by one who is nearer to her heart [J], in a way to give relief to him from guilty feeling ,bearing the brunt of the situation ...that is Ganga ..

The person who has the capability of solving any problem for Jaggiya ,always a solution provider ,Is in pain of looking Ganga suffering ,and escaping from the troubled waters and went back to her cocoon ...is a little bit surprising ,no significant impact of her visit !!!

D'sa has given up ,Anandi has ,given up , Taisa is a silent spectator ...so now the involved parties have to solve this problem !

May be a flare up and victim blaming galore...then explanations and finally the violent exit !