Marriage Legality of Jagya with Anandi-Gauri-Ganga ? - Page 7

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Brushing off Gauri's faults and Sanchi's faults and their contribution in the mess that was created is not really on.

If painting Gauri or Sanchi black is unaccepatable then they should accept that painting Jagya black is also unacceptable.

Again the question - comes up - was he the only one responsible for the failure of a relationship?

Failure - both the parties responsible

The way it got terminated he was responsible.

Anandi was his parents choice so was Sanchi when people can support his decision to opt out of the marriage why not support his decision to terminate his engagement with Sanchi?

What is wrong here? Is the decision to terminate the engagement or is the way it was terminated?

Singhs always blamed women only. Yeh theek nahi hai, Woh theek hai etc. They were shameless enough to compare Anandi and Gauri and Sanchi and Ganga despite engagement with Sanchi. Nobody ever thought if Jagya was laayak or not. Nor did he try to adjust himself. Or work on sorting relationships. Basant also wanted to throw out Gehna initially. But DS retained her as she was pregnant. The boys were used to being provided toys. And new ones if old ones they didn't like. Too bad serial never addressed their attitude and instead kept pitting women.

Originally posted by: paposhon.

are u new or fairly new or very new or 2 years old to balika vadhu.

i think it must be one above of the choices

BUT U ARE DEFINATELY NOT Balika vahduite form DAY 0 OF THE SERIAL or FROM DAY 0 of gauri entrance in the truck on way to mumbai

if u were, u hadnt asked all these questions, jab sabbb kuch hazaar laakhon baar discuss ho gaya aur budddhey bhee ho gaye forumn memebers

LEGAL SHEGAL SAB HO GAYA, NAHI HUA...YE SAB MATTTA PECHI MATTA KARO JUST SAMAJH LO

Anandi(Pratyu & Toral)- Gauri(Anju & current )-Gangi( sriti & sargun)-Sanchi

J

all 7 ladies ka saath samundar milap hain- Jagdeesh, Jagya, Jagat, daktarsaa, aka Shashank

😆😆😆- lega;illegal baat karti hain - sau saal ke baad

Dude, chill & peace ! I started this thread as a query of mine as some questions arrived in my mind. I've watched Balika Vadhu first when Anjum was still around. When she left, I quit. Again started watching when Jagya-Saanchi was on. When Jagya called off his relationship with Saanchi, I quit again. I've been watching now since the re-entry of new Gauri. I guess you find my thinking or perceiveness quite unique as I'm a male.

as per as J concerns before AnSh marriage A clear said she wanted peace in life does not hold anything against anyone before moving on with Shiv. She forgive J for sake of her own peace. Shiv too appreciate her.

If she forgave him just for sake of her own peace before moving on with Shiv then why she was so upset, even angry at Shings because they did not tell her that J left the house.( after her marriage) In fact she was so angry that she did not want to do pag phere, she was so miserable that Shiv absolutely had to find him and drag him back. . If it was just for her own peace, why she continue to interfere in his life ( so many examples) till now. Did she really move on or she still must take part in all the important happenings in his life( not Singhs but HIS own life )

Originally posted by: Missesha

Aparna,

Two things:

The base on which the decision to terminate a relationship was made. And the way the decision was made.

J left A, because she was not flashy. Is that a good reason to terminate a relationship. No.

He never worked towards uplifting her. But having said that he fell out of love with her and fell for a girl that he thought would complete him.

Fair enough, one chance was honoured to him because his first wife was tied to him when he knew nothing about his marriage. But people were annoyed with him for the way he dealt with Annadi.

Then he left GAuri because of her lies and deciet. was that a good base? No. Not for a man who was equally engaged into lying and deceiving. Again the way he left her was also cruel.

Then Saanchi. He never did his bit in the relationship and terminated Sa out of his life at her first lie. Never thought of giving her a chance to improve. Not again a right reason for dumping someone.

When it comes to J giving chances to his women, who are flawed, the guy just runs away and jumps into another woman's arms.

Should J never ever be a facilitator in uplifting his relationship / women. Should that always be his women's job?

And yet the guy keeps getting endless chances to marry. On what basis?

Even in JaGan relationship J is good, because Ganga has given him everything that he desires at this point in life.

People (Singhs / Anandi) wanted Ganga over Sa because she was good for him, not because he was good for her. The latter has never been thought of by anyone.

Let Ganga fail somewhere or take a different stand for once, I would love to see how J reacts and resists at that point. It would be a true test of his love for her.

LOVE LOVE LOVE your post Missesha! I always wanted to say these points but you have done it!

👏👏👏

I would love to see Ganga failing in her duty once - will see everyone's reaction.

Just like to add my two pence - In Jagya-Saanchi relationship, Saanchi got all the blame for doing 'natak' but what was Jagat doing? At least Saanchi loved him in her own limited way but Jagat was doing 'NATAK' from the very beginning ! - he was not happy with Saanchi's behavior, has been in love with Ganga and still he feigned to be satisfied in the relationship.

And now this guilt feeling of Jagya for Gauri? First of all , if Jagya is not at fault, why is he feeling guilty?

And if he is at fault, is this the way to do his 'prayashchit' ? I don't think so.
Jagya should have told Gauri everything about himself on the very first day when he went to her for his 'maafinama'!🤢

And even if Shivani/Ganga would have told him to lie, he should not have agreed - that's the least he could have done to show respect to Gauri. Gauri was already under the impression that Jagya has moved on with Anandi - so it would not have mattered much if he would have told about Ganga. Now Gauri who has again started dreaming about new life, will get a shock of her life!




Missesha

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