Haari Main Dil Haari!!!

Originally posted by: beebutterfly

After that epi we got, I was thinking Raman would be the target so imagine my surprise to see an Ishita topic! And it's a much deserved one too because you said it, if prior to this week, we were thinking Raman was ahead in realization, Ishita just proved that she's catching up faster and in fact, might just be ahead of him there! :D

The vrat

The most clear indication of how much Raman counts for her. She could have kept this vrat, the way it was supposed to, staying hungry only till evening but she didn't, she went ahead and decided to fulfill it as they did on Karwachauth even though she knew she would have the chance to do it some other day. Not to please her mother-in-law or because she was married into a Punjabi home, but because nothing was enough done when it came to Raman. That belief that keeping this fast was would bring success and happiness to Raman's life, that it would keep trouble away from him...if keeping it till evening could prove to be favorable for him, then extending it till later could only make it better? She fasted because it was her heart telling her to, not her mind or traditions and customs but simply a wife's devotion and love for her husband.

Fighting for him

The happiness at getting back her license was completely washed away by what Raman had to give up for it. After she had cried over the loss of her job, something she had fought too much to bear losing, seeing her tears this time for Raman was enough to say how much more his reputation and honor meant to her. Time and again, Ishita has shown she couldn't take Raman's insult or anything that hurt his image, come what may. Whether it be in that accident track or now, she would never accept anyone harming Raman in any manner. She didn't think twice before trapping Suraj, didn't pay heed that it might be dangerous if she got caught, didn't even question the fact that she might be unsuccessful because in her mind, she had to do it for Raman and that was the only thing needed to boost her confidence and make sure she succeeded.

The fast breaking moment, you described it all so well that there's just nothing to add. That expression on her face was such a potent mixture of emotions, love, admiration, that silent yearning for something perhaps even she couldn't put her finger on at that instant but which had only one name: love. Her eyes spoke volumes of what she felt for Raman. She was lost in the moment, staring at the one person who meant everything to her, yearning to be everything to him. It was like she wanted to stay there forever, his eyes only on her and no one else. When Toshi asked her touch Raman's feet, she was about to do it readily but then Raman gave that victorious look and superior attitude while lifting his eyebrows which immediately caused her to rolled her eyes and look as if forced to do it, lol! It was so cute, especially when she pinched his leg, a totally wife-hubby moment there which perfectly summarizes what they feel for each other.😳 There's no pretence, with the love and care they feel comes that easiness that allows them to tease and be teased in return. Ishita doesn't only value Raman but she enjoys him.❤️

The kuch kuch hota hai moment, my favourite too! Such a beautiful scene that was, everything happened so silently and gradually that she never did ponder over her own feelings. It took someone else to make her realize that till now she had only been saying Raman was her pati but had never questioned what it all meant really. The blush, the shyness with her own thoughts and those goosebumps, the realization finally hit home Ishu! I believe that's one of the most beautiful phases, the one where you are conscious of what you feel but have no idea how to deal with it. The trying to get back to how you were before, but being unable to, because it's out and there's just no way to fight it..because you don't even want to fight it.

Now on to the BBB session, those 4 kostins are so bang on.🤣 Even I would like an answer to those. KK abhi aaya bhi nahin and goosebumps shuru? Well that's the effect of RKB, hold on tight there Ishu, you have no idea what roller coasters of emotions awaits you.☺️

The resoluteness with which Ishu took to the stage, the light shining in her eyes like a real JKR fighting for her most precious thing, it was such a striking sight. And her smile knew no bounds when they announced Raman as president again. She had accomplished what she came to do and seeing Raman back to his rightful position was a priceless moment for her. When he told how she was behind his success and thanked her, he acknowledged that place she holds in his life, not to himself because it was clear to him but to the whole world because he was proud of her and that touched Ishita to the core. His every praise warmed her and this was just one example of it.❤️

Love love all the songs you chose, fitting to every moment described and the title is the most perfect of them all!❤️

Currently listening to the song Shayarana in a loop and I can't stop thinking of Ishita on it.😳

Jheeni hai bheeni hai khusbu teri hai

Main mehak rahi hoon

Khatti hai, mithi hai, boliyan teri hain

Main chehak rahi hoon

Tu chahat purani sharaarat nayi hai

Yakeen to dila de, tu hai ya nahi hai

Aaye haye.. zubaan bhi phislne lagi

Huyi huyi main to huyi shayrana hui

Huyi huyi main to huyi shayrana hui

Gungunaane lagi aashiqana hui

Hui hui main to hui sayrana hui

Kahein jo sakhiyaan

Sune jo takiyaan

Tu hai woh kahaani

Daudi jo nas mein

Rahe na bas mein

Tu hai wo rawaani

Main jis pe fidaa hoon adaa ban gaya tu

Jo sach ho gayi wo duaa ban gaya tu

Ki haaye zubaan bhi phislne lage

Hui hui main toh hui sayarana hui

Hui hui main toh hui shayarana hui

Originally posted by: Oishi_sonu

Congratulation on the 75th YHM topic Nikki. 🥳I know the day when you will be making your 100th topic isn't far away. 😉

Now coming to your post, super duper awesome post Nikki. 👏 I loved how you covered each and every moment of Ishita's journey to phase two and expressed her thoughts in such a beautiful way.

By the way, sorry for being so late but your thread kept on distracting me.😡😆

1)KAHIN AAG LAGNE SE PEHLE
UTHTA HAI AISA DHUAN
(Song : Do Dil & Film - Pardes)

This was surely the start of Ishita's realisation track. I was so sure Raman was leading the race until cv's surprised us by the mirror scene and made Ishita win the race for now. No worries, Raman will soon be on the right track.😉

Ishita was doing everything for her pati dev, fasting for his prosperity and long life but she chose to say that she was doing this for Raman because he did so much for her. Somewhere in her, Ishita knows the importance of what Raman means to her and it scares her enough to make her keeping on giving excuses for every action related to Raman.

5)KYA KARU HAAYE
KUCH KUCH HOTA HAI
(Song : Kuch Kuch Hota Hai & Film - Kuch Kuch Hota Hai)

This is undoubtebly the most favourite moment of the whole license track.

My reaction during the whole scene was - 😲😲😳😳🤗🤗😃😃

It's amazing how you don't realise something that are staring straight at you in the face until someone points it out to you. It's not that Ishita had completely ignored the fact that Raman was her husband, she had said it from her mouth once to the police officer during Accident track. When Bala pointed Raman out to be her husband, Ishita was finally hit by the full impact of this word. Kahan se ayi hai yeh ladki? 😳😆

Itne din apne pati ke saath rehke, uske liye day before vrat rakhke, aaj realise hua?😡😆 Hain? 😳😆

Nikki, your first kostin on this had me like this 🤣🤣

Then when you talked about Hormonal locha, no comments, 🤣

"Pati word? I was feeling weird?"

Weird? 😕 Naya word hai? Pehle suna nahi? I thought tumhare shaadi ke baad log aur tum bhi Raman ko rishte me wohi bolti thi? P-A-T-I? Then why behaving like pehli baar suna? 😕😆 Ahh!! I got it. You just realised Pati word ka matlab pati hota hai aur dost word ka matlab dost hota hai. They don't match everytime. Wahh!! Ishu samajhdar bann gayi. 👏😆😆

"Kabhi iss tarah se nahi socha ki woh mere pati hai"

Alright, I felt proud of Ishu.Humari dhakkan is finally thinking. All the time before she only kept on doing thing regarding Raman, never taking the time to analyse her steps, until that moment. 🤗

Nikki, you questioned poor Ishu about what she will do when uska pati uske saath karega and then called her bacchi in the same sentence 🤣🤣

As you said, she has only started to realise her feelings for Raman but whatever it is, even if she calls it weird, she is loving it. Ishita was like a schoolgirl, falling in love for the first time. DT was super cute in that scene.😳

6)AB RAASTA MIL GAYA KHUSHI KA
(Song : Teri Ore & Film - Singh Is King)

This was a beautiful end to the whole license track. Ishu was more happy then Raman himself and as we had seen before, if possible she was also ready to sacrifice her happiness if it made Raman happy but not having any choice she had decided to fight and when she won and restored her husband's honour and Raman's happiness, there was no one who was more happy then her.

Your topics are becoming more and more emotional these days and this was a mixture of emotions and hilariousness with your epic BBB of Ishu.

PS- I love the song you chose for the topic, "Teri Deewani". It's my favourite Kailash kher song and I have always thought this would be an apt song for Ishita's realisation.

PPS- Don't think I didn't notice the numerous times you tried bringing KK in the topic, directly or indirectly. 😉 Who makes masoom posts and goes with the flow again? 😉🤣

Originally posted by: Bruce_L

Woman, again you did it 🤗
Excellent post. An apt title 😛

Same like you, am surprised. Beginning of this track, I though it would be Raman winning over the realisation game. But an unexpected move by writers.
So our Ishu baby is ahead now.
And that JK is also not that behind. Will write about his harkat in his topic.

Kya karun haaye... Kuch Kuch Hota Hain

Ishu ko KUCH KUCH HOTA dekhar, am sure viewers ko bohut KUCH HUA HOGA 😳

She was never this. Planning and plotting. All she knew is to say the truth on face, struggle honestly for justice, let whatever maybe the consequence of it. Even her mother-in-law advised her how to be cunning and bold at times to fight with Shagun like woman for her daughter.
She opted for it this time since she was left with no other option. But what the surprising part is, for whom she did it!
Master stroke by writers. Good one.

Ha! Was she blushing and getting goosebump. But why?
Finally, she understood and realised whom she is.
Where she stands as a WOMAN and to whom she belongs to.
The WIFE of a MAN and a WOMAN to a MAN.
The feeling of being a woman, which was once snatched by her first teenage love. She was left alone to feel incomplete. Her needs were hidden in her. She almost forgot whom she was and what she wants till this moment, maybe.
But calling someone her husband, didnt only gave birth to the official beginning of a New love story but also she was born again as a woman who wanted to get completed by her man.
All that said in a very subtle way. Once again, very well done by writers and the actress, ofcourse.

While KC scene, anyone could read her eyes.
The woman in her how much was yearning for her man's love.

She loves being loved though it includes his taunts.
She is changing than her usual self. She is whole heartedly ready to become HIS wife, which she conveys by acknowledging his gestures or by responding to his typical like husband taunts. She is getting little bit comfortable with his physical touches but at the same time, she is not that oblivious to the sexual tension there between them during moments like, when her man is shamelessly oogling at her 'beauty'.
There is a lot difference in her fights with him these days.
She questions him for gifting her an expensive saree but the underlying message is stopping her husband from spending a lot. But at the same time, she will accept his gift as why would any wife let go off a saree gifted by her husband out of love.
She started off again with "sirf ruhi ke liye" cos of the response from her man. She is just showing him the mirror. If he is showing interest, she is acting accordingly.
What more shocking is Traditional girl Ishu didnt like when her husband took back his so called decent gift.


Anyways, whats the use of saying all of this. SHE is back to "SIRF RUHI KE LIYE" 🤪 Curse the same writers!

Originally posted by: mnr123

Firstly I hope u r taking gud care f ur health 😡 which i highly doubt 😡

Secondly ur P.S. 😡 Hunh Ravan Kumar jab bhi aata hai toh angry/khadoos mode mein aata issliye usko Ravan ka title diya hai ishu ne. Kal bathrobe mein jo aya bhale hi who AK/KK na ho 😆 but flirty Bhalla tha 😆 It was not Ravan for me nor was it any kind of nautanki It was all deliberate 😆 😉 to get reaction from some Silk Smitha even after he had returned the eye mask u c. 😆

Thirdly what a post on ishita 🤗 N I love Teri deewani d most n also all the songs u've chosen for Ishita's different shades 😊 r really really nice. N wat beautiful caps she looks like a dream. 😊

Just wud like to dedicate a song from ishu to Raman 😆 I love this song for Gulzaar saab's lyrics 😊

Hum cheez hain bade kaam ki.. yaaram..
Hamein kaam pe rakh lo kabhi.. yaaram..
Hum cheez hain bade kaam ki.. yaaram..

Hmm.. suraj se pehle jagaayenge
Aur akhbaar ki sab surkhiyaan
Hum gungunaayenge..
Pesh karenge garm chai tumhein
Koi khabar aaye na pasand to
End badal denge.. ae...

Munh khule jamhaai par
Hum bajaayein chutkiyaan
Dhoop na tumko lage
Khol denge chhatariyaan
Peechhe peechhe din bhar
Ghar daftar mein le ke chalenge hum..

Tumhaari filein, tumhaari diary
Gaadi ki chaabhiyan, tumhaari ainakein
Tumhaara laptop, tumhaari cap
Aur apna dil, kanwaara dil
Pyaar mein haara, bechara dil
O.. apna dil, kanwaara dil
Pyaar mein haara.. bechara dil...

Tu tu ru tu..
Tu tu ru tu..

The 6 instances that u've mentioned r so wonderful. They say that god created world in 7 days so on the 7th instance i hope they show her complete acceptance n realization that Raman is her true love. Its like the writers r creating a wonderful story taking their own sweet time. 😊

I guess according to me n some literature i read on stages of falling in love ... there shud b seven steps/ Phases of falling in love 😉

I like u - Sirf Ruhi k liye i will put up with this man, Raman sirf Ruhi k pappa hai 😆, Raman is my friend 😆

Attraction - Jeeju is so Handsome, Sona Episode, Ladkiyan mujhpe marti hai during Salsa dance show

Impression - where u try to impress the other person Green Dress, Blue Dress, mihirs Sangeet 😆

Understanding- understanding each others problems and trying to sort them out Ruhi DNA, Land Deal, Adi Accident track, We r a Happy Couple (Although Ishita didn't say that but she felt it during the picnic track 😉)

Possessiveness- I will never leave Ruhi and Raman in spa, Eye daggers to Shagun when she saw Shagun n Raman together in car, Raman is not short 😆 How dare they mess up with my Husband 😆

Realization- Raman Loves Shagun (not me)😭, mujhe Ravan Kumar pasand hai, Mujhe yeh khadoos kumar hi accha lagta hai, Mera Pati, God save my Pati from all Evil and uski Tarrakki ho

Acceptance- I completely trust u n will love u till end of time ... yeh hona baki hai abhi 😆

I guess I will stop here now. I liked ur BBB of Dhakkan Kumari 😆n the way u've scored both Raman n Ishita in terms of falling in love. Ya I completely agree with u that License Track is one of the good tracks seen on YHM, it has its own problems but yet its a nice track especially in regards to Ishra n their Love progress 😉😊

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

First things first: Your posts are getting deeper. It could be because of the topics, or something else. But reading them is leaving me with a sukoon waali feeling. This is one of the finer examples. 👏

You are right in saying that the objective of the track seemed like Raman's realisation/sacrifice earlier on, but then it became Ishita's. Now that the track is over, I have a feeling that the CVs have effectively covered both their stories. Ishita's journey has reached its destination in one sense. Her mother's wish for Ishita's happiness is almost fulfilled (I am saying almost because there is the intimacy factor, but lets not bring that into my reply :) ) She was looking for a family, a child... she had everything, but this track brought about the last missing piece in her life. Her realisation that she is somebody's wife. The moment that thought comes into her mind, she makes sure that she fulfills all the obligations, fasts for him, protects his reputation, fights for him, even plays dangerous games. And she is doing them because she wants to, not because she thinks of them as obligatons!!!

With this track, I am also a bit relieved that the CVs explored Ishita's character. It was very superficially written earlier. Now, I am a bit happier :) it does really seem like Raman and Ishita are equals in this journey, as opposed to Ishita following Raman with a smile on her face!

Most of what I want to say is also in that weekly round-up post I wrote, so I am just saying the 'new things', hence my reply is not really Ramayan by my standards 😆

Here goes my song for Ishita... Its from Entertainment...


Koi jaage soye mujh mein
Meri raatein aur mere din
Saare khoye usmein

Koi itna apna laage
Mera nadaan yeh dil
Jaise dhadke usmein

Mujhe jo hua hai
Iski na dawa hai
Kisi ne chhua hai
Dil yeh kiski
nazar ka hai asar

Poochhe jo koi to
Tera naam doon
Tera naam doon


Main keh doon sabhi ka
Yeh tera hi to hai asar
Poochhe jo koi to
Tera naam doon
Tera naam doon



Koi dastak deke dil pe
Milne ko aata hai
Mujh mein reh jaata hai

Koi kismat jaisa laage
Khushiyaan in haathon pe
Likhta hi jaata hai

Yeh kaisi khata hai
Jiski na sazaa hai

Kisi ne chhuwa hai dil ye
Kiski duaa ka hai asar

Poochhe jo koi to
Tera naam doon
Tera naam doon


Zariwale kagazon mein lipta hua
Kitne haseen rangon mein ranga hua

Yeh kya tohfa khuda ne
Mujhe hai de diya

Yeh kya tohfa khuda ne
Mujhe hai de diya

Labon se raaz yeh
fisal na jaaye yun
Labon se raaz yeh
fisal na jaaye yoon

Pighalne laga hai
Kiske liye mera sabar
Poochhe jo koi to
Tera naam doon
Tera naam doon
tera naam doon

Originally posted by: PreruS

Hey stunning post niks 👏, and i finally get to post my comment here 😃

YHM has been showcasing some beautiful scenes of Ishra, I am gonna start from the Tuesday episode.. KC ke pehle wala bedroom scene.. Ishu and raman were fighting as usual but this time it was more of "I care for u but u don't care about the care I have for u" kinda of fight between the two them.. Raman notices that ishu likes the white and black saree and decides to gift it to her, ishita even though touched by his effort and endeavor does not like the fact that he spent so much money her.. Typical wife like she was behaving .. only true affection for a person which comes in from the heart can lead to that kinda mannerism.. And Raman who thought he would get to see his lovely wifes charming smile was totally disspointed and got all the more irritated on receiving a scowl from her.. he had been stressed all day.. and he just wanted his wife to endure his gesture.. is that too much ask for dammin it.. Toshiji came in to tell him about her vrath.. and Raman giving his typical one-liner "Paani nai piya, kyu society me paani nai aa raha kya" 🤣

Coming to the KC scene, some people felt it was not satisfactionary and upto the mark.. I felt it was a beautiful scene and one of fav KC scene I have watched till now.. Most of the KC sequences have scenes like the wife fainting and husband taking care of her.. But YHM proves again why its different and why v love it so much.. They showed ishita is strong enough to fight and fast for her husband and Raman usual being the concerned one trying to break her vrat so that she does not have to endure the pain.. It was a stunning scene with Toshiji teaching her madrasan bahu the ways of Punjabi KC and ishita learning them with patience and interest only for her husband.. Even Raman also gudes her through the rituals.. His attitude on telling her to touch his feet, was returned rightly with a pinch on raman calf by ishu 🤣.. Is was extremely adorable to watch.. IshRalicious for me.. The last dialog where Raman says "Shayad isseleye apna position ko khokar, iska liscence wapas dene ka gham nai hai mujhe" was enchanting with vivah type music playing in the BG setting the mood. 😳

I have quite frankly never seen ishita in such high level of anxiety mode, the level of unease and nervousness she was going through for her husband to get back wat he deserved was evident.. even neelu and mihir had to bear the vrath of her fretfulness with things not going as planned.. This women whose most important thing in her life was her job and her passion for it, seemed actually more concerned and entitled to get his husbands post back.

And even ishita knew that only the mentioning of her could get raman intimidated enough to come to a party he never wanted to be a part of in the first place... Coming to the bala and ishu scene, it was a beautiful scene again, I always loved bala and ishu scene, but this one was my fav as it had lead to stunning ishita realization scene.. Ishita seriously discussing the presidents posts matter with bala.. and bala only notices the transformation ishu has gone through on referring Raman as "Her huband" after all there should have been something to match raman's "Meri biwi ho tum" dialog, right.. so yeah coming to the scene, Bala full on teasing ishita on her reference about raman ... The mention and indication of the word blush from her jiju does make ishita wonder, even though she tells him off for the same.. Bala obviously looking victorious and the end of the scene "Dil ke baat ko zabaan par la nai rahe ho aur gussa jiju pe nikala jar aha hai".. good one bala!!

Now coming to the ultimate scene of the episode.. the recognition, insight and awareness that ishita had about her feelings towards her own husband.. Just the mention of the "Mere pati" from her lips when he was alone to accept and endure those feelings gave her goosebumps.. the way she wrapped her hands around herself to give her strength, was just amazing to watch "Ishita! Sach me blushing ho rahe hai" the self talk had cleared the remnants of doubts about what exactly she felt towards her husband. She had to literally shake herself to get out the trance she was in.. her smile in the end was so charming and full of love..It was a stunning scene, which insprired u enough to make a post on it niks ;)

So coming to Wednesday episode, my fav episode till now.. it had the right blend of Ishra nautanki, trust and also comedy.. Ishita's struggle nd tussle to get back Raman's presidentship, the proud yet worried husband.. And both ishu and raman hiding their true feelings under the cover of their taunts.. All of them lovely to watch.. Ishu throwing the bouncer and blowing ashok's cover, and proving that her varalaxmi vrat for her husband and his prosperity would not go waste, and he would get back his truly deserved.

Raman had the "Ab kya karege ye madrassan" tension on his face when ishu comes up on the stage to show the audience around the truth behind ashok getting his presidentship .. Whereas ishu in her confident mode, her thoughts only in one direction "Raman ko unka post wapas dilana hai" .. The look on her stern and sure, which was all only for her husband..

I loved mihir dialog "Bhai ko bhi samaj aa gaya ke hum sab bhabhi ke special force team me hai, jisne ye sab karvaya"

And Raman elated, joyous and overwhelmed by his wife gesture.. The smile on his face describing his heart's content.. And goes on stage thanking his wife and giving her credit for his kamiyaabi in his life.. These two can only be nice to each other in public, if they r nice to each other wen alone.. they will not able keep control on their hormones, so they channelize their adreline rush towards their taunts :D..

"Jo haarke fir se hare, ashook khanna toh keh he sakte hain usse.. chey foot do inch.. tumhara mangetar" :D

Ishu feeling all proud of her winning act, and decides to describe her excellent execution to Raman.. but worried husband takes upon raman, whose plight even mihir and romi also have to bear.. Ye dono bechare crushed between the care and concern of the husband nd wife duo :D.. as soon as raman says "Bakwaas band karo" the look on ishu, romi and mihir's face was hilarious :D

The Raman nd ishu scene later was cute, with both of trying to make the hisaab equal for EACHOTHER on the name of RUHI :P.. The expression on ishita face wen raman says "Jobhi kiya maine ruhi ke leye kiya" was funny, she did not like him saying that.. "Very nice! Bohot bure doctor hun mai, issleye jabse aapka ilaaj kiya hai tabse aap sabki kaate fikarte ho" :D.. Ishita becoming a expert on taunts.. Sangat ka asar hai :D.. and the photographer clicking them was again nice done..

Abhi coming to bathrobe wala scene, I laughed like hell watching this one.. epic one-liner.. "Samaj me nai aata, ghar mera hai, cupboard mera hai aur kapde kise madras an ke".. my fav one "Energy itne befaltoo ke hai na fuse uda hua blub jalade iske haath me dedo toh" .. "Arrey verbal diarrhoea bohot bolti ho yar" .. He teasing ishu by telling he will remove his bathrobe, that was total epic.. "Bandlo hisaab ke devi tarajoo mai de deta hun" :D..ishu saying "Aap sudhrogay nai na".. This was such an awesome scene I tell you.. I loved it to the core

Even yesterdays episode was a good one, I loved the last part.. Tune observe kiya ishita constantly trying to get closer with Raman after the goosebumps wala scene.. jake uske paas baithna, bye bolna 😉..His smile acknowledging her efforts towards his family was genuine and heart felt, and I loved it!! 😳

Nilks ye kuch gyada he lamba ho gaya :D.. so sorry yar, hope I made some sense to u.. And the songs u chose to describe ishita's realization.. simply perfect!! Loved them all!!