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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: PhoenixRising
Interesting episode today.

What Myrah was telling Rudra today was the truth because Paro did put up alot with his "Jallad" Behavior and Myrah is making him realized he did not value her much when she was alive. Rudra didn't even said "I love you" to Paro when she was with him. Myrah is actually making Rudra appreciating Paro more in her death than when she was alive right infront of his eyes. I know what Rudra is thinking here that if he had a chance then he would get Paro back for once and apologize and start life all over again.😊

Myrah character is being used for a sensible reason here. She's actually teaching Rudra a lesson to Live life to the fullest you don't know what tomorrow holds for you. Life is unpredictable & surprising! I think she will finally make Rudra move on from his present lull.😊

Those flashbacks was heartbreaking 😭 Poor Paro she went through so much in life in the hands of Rudra and her happiness & life with him was short live. 😭 That moment made me fell more bad for Paro than Rudra to be honest. Too much Paro memories and flashback was playing in my head during that scene and I was crying for her. 😭 The flashbacks are painful and killing.😭

Myrah is a mystery right now for me but from the look of it, she seems to have a past. It was very clear from Friday's episode and the coming week should give us more clues on this aspect.

Hope it get explored soon! But I really like her as a character she was impressed me without Rudra. She's a wonderful character on her own. She is smart and refuses to bow down and is willing to look at Rudra directly in his eyes which is an area not very many people want to go.😊

Hi PR- Thank you so much for your response.😊

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Posted: 11 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: tulip21
Words from Everyone...

Todays episode stood out in certain few lines and words from everyone.

Rudra to Dhruv : Even he wishes that some magic happens and he can get back Paro in his life but it cant happen.

So today he made me feel that i'm right that Rudra in a way still wishes for Paro to be back like Dhruv.

Myrah to Rudra : Atleast i'm happy with my life unlike you who doesnt let go

So Myrah makes her life happy by what she does and is she really happy for the wedding...

Myrah to Dhruv : Like father Like Son...

Come on Myrah you told that he is so good that he should be by his mom and it changed overnight?

As Diya says i want to have a good back story to Myrah and she really has to go a good long way to make a place in the life of Rudra and Dhruv. I want all that for accepting Rudra side of accepting her too...

Even i'm so confused abt the bell sounds on the last scene ... What was it...

Finally

From the brain : I want to understand Paro is dead as it was told by everyone again and again in every episode and go ahead with the story telling with Myrah. Wishing for a proper story line between Rudra and Myrah...(anyway do we have enough time for that too? wondering about so called news and its authenticity and it being true and chances of it)

From the Heart : I want Myrah to be Paro or her twin sister...

But the heart doesnt go hand with the brain...So tough.

Note: Girls i'm running late so only a very clumsy post, will be back and go thru all your posts over the weekend. Happy Weekend and see all your posts soon :-)

Hi tulip 😃 You're echoing the confusion of everyone here ... heart vs brain. Everyone wants Myrah to be Paro ... not even her twin sister, I think ... Paro herself, complete with original heart, soul and body.

As you said, even Rudra wants a miracle, and Paro to come back. I wonder how he can even wish for this ... he is the most practical man, and he must know Paro is really dead. So seems the CVs are throwing us hints about Paro's death not being a certainty after all.

Myrah saying, at least I try to be happy, unlike you who is holding on to his grief ... so is Myrah trying to let go of some hidden grief and move on in her life?

Dhruv is a combination of Rudra and Paro ... sometimes Myrah sees the traits of Rudra and sometimes of Paro 😆

Thanks for posting, hope you had a good weekend 😃

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Posted: 11 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: psagars
Lovely post as always Diya, T, Hope and UR.

Enjoyable episode it was.
I love Myrah's feisty attitude. But yesterday she went over the top in making personal remarks about Rudra's wife. Her behavior of reacting before thinking comes out as a spoilt richy brat kind.

According to the precap, I think she will face more of Rudra's wrath for causing hurt to Dhruv while doing her work. Her intentions are good but her ways do not come out as expected.

As DD said in her post Ashish and Sanaya are giving tashan to each other in terms of their acting.
Sanaya's cute expressions bring a smile on one's face while Ashish's portrayal of Rudra's pain bring tears to one's eyes.
Ashish and Sanaya are the reason enough to watch this show for me.

Thanks for your take, psagars.

Yes, Myrah came across as a brat, who speaks without knowing the facts ... she is sorry after the event, though, so that is a saving grace. But her habit of jumping into situations that don't concern her, might be her downfall ... She saved the situation when Dhruv saw her fighting with Rudra ... CHECK ... she told Dhruv stealing is wrong - CHECK, but even after knowing his dad had forbidden him to buy the doll, she tried to help him earn the money. So where will that lead?

Sanaya and Ashish are undoubtedly the stars of the show ... and they have very good support in the rest of the cast too ... including the kids. The little girl playing Koel is very good. Geetanjali as Maithili has always been good, and SuSha bring some much needed humour into the show.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: mpat
Hello Diya, Shweta, Tennessean and others.
I know I don't comment often, but today I am not doing much and catching up on reading stuff on the forum so I am going to jump in here.

Diya,
You said..
"I seem to be the only one standing up for Myrah ... because we don't know anything about her yet. And today the cv's gave us a couple of clues that Myrah is not all that she seems ... there is something more to her. We sympathise with Rudra because we know his history ... but Myrah does not. We don't sympathise with Myrah because we don't know her history ... if she has one, that is. "

I agree...What exactly has Myrah done that is that bad. Nobody has told her anything. In fact I don't remember anybody telling her that Dhruv was Rudra's son. I think she learnt that in this episode. Also how did she know that Koel was Shatabdi's daughter in an earlier episode?

Myrah's harsh words to Rudra...again she didn't know...and in fact shouldn't family members be helping Rudra with his pain. He is like the walking dead without his Paro. Danveer and Maithili are enablers of his pain. Paro is the only one that helped him with his "mommy" issues. At least now he is thinking about Paro and how "good" she was to have loved him inspite of his harsh behavior with her. Also, he did share a painful moment with Myrah, just like he did with Paro.
Neither Maithili nor Rudra saw the pain on Myrah's face. Rudra had never questioned Paro about her pain. Paro had never discussed any of her "pain" with Maithili. Paro and Rudra always talked, fought, growled and made up. For them only they mattered to and for each other.

"Myrah lost a supporter in Maithili tonight for sure ... but there were two times when Maithili misunderstood Paro too..."

Maithili is very sweet, caring and loving, but she is always there after the fact. She is like an assistant who will never become a Team Lead or Boss. She doesn't take a stand...she remains neutral and agreeable and shifts with the "mausam" in family. Paro did more for Maithili...adoption issue push, saved from kidnapping twice her and Samrat and also gave her the status of Masi for Dhruv. Also, Maithili had walked away and didn't want anything to do with the "ladoo poisoning" after KCM's loud denial rant when Rudra told Paro and her that they should have had proof like the report he showed her.

People didn't like the"gawar" Paro, she was pushy as well..don't forget she went to the award ceremony and proposed to Rudra in front of all the people. I think Myrah would propose to a man but she would do it in a "personal" space.
Myrah is rich, gets what she wants, is vocal and bubbly to all . She is very gentle where children are concerned. She scolded Dhruv for stealing, but cleverly let Rudra know about it without being direct thus keeping Dhruv's promise as well.
Paro was "poor", got what she wanted (Rudra and family), was vocal when needed and was reserved.
Rudra brought Paro in his house when he needed her to protect his witness and kicked her out several times...she kept coming back...nobody wanted her in the house...some kept quiet..some tried to physically harm her.
She has money now...everybody except Rudra wants her in the house...some are keeping quiet and some are kissing her ass.

I love Myrah just as much as I love Paro. Men with her characteristics are "bad boys" that are wow, but women are "brats".
It is about the content of the book and not the cover.

I'm going to play devil's advocate here ... 😛 Myrah HAS done some bad things ... pushing her way into the Ranawat haveli through her influence is the major one ... being rude to Rudra about his wife was another, that was quite an uncalled for remark ... without knowing the circumstances, that was height of rudeness, especially to her host (however unwilling the host is)

Both however were precipitated by Rudra's rudeness, and MAYBE by the unexplained pull she seems to have towards Dhruv, and towards the haveli and its inhabitants. Myrah= Paro H&F 😛

And the latter can be excused by ignorance ... she did not know Rudra's wife was dead and that her words would hurt him so much. If Paro was alive, she would probably have defended Rudra to Myrah, and laughed with Rudra that another woman found him as much a Jallad as she first did.

Rudra did a lot to Paro because she was poor and unprotected and very vulnerable ... Myrah is none of those things, and can not only stand up for herself, but also use her influence n her favour. Usually we see angry young men of TV abusing vulnerable middle class girls ... here we have the opposite. 😆 Except that Myrah is not an angry young woman ... she is chirpy and bright. I do hope though, that she has a 'past' ... one that is equally tragic as Rudra's ... and her cheerfulness is her way of dealing with it. The same way that Paro's placid exterior and quiet smiles were her way of dealing with her past ... which was every bit as tragic as Rudra's, if not more.

Regarding Maithili, I agree ... that's why Maithili was always Holmes to Paro's Sherlock ... Maithili is not a leader. She cannot take the bull by the horns, snap her fingers at Rudra, tell him sharply 'look, it's been seven years, get out of your grief and try to move on ... it's not good for either you or Dhruv to be so obsessed with Paro's memory.' Maithili cannot do that ... she will be there for Rudra, will do her best to help him and his son, but she sees what Rudra WANTS, not what he NEEDS. He needs paro back, if that is possible ... and I'm fervently hoping it is ... or else he needs to get out of his guilt and his memories and try to move on. But I do not think he can ever move on with a lookalike of Paro ... because her face will never allow him to. Hence again Myrah=Paro. 😛

Edited by DiyaS - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: mpat

Love the FAITH...Myrah is Paro

Random thought - I think "Myrah" lost a "significant other" and her family is pushing her to move on. She has agreed to forge a liaison with Rohit even though she does not love him. She may have come to Udaipur as a possible wedding venue because of her "dream" wedding.

Also, did anyone notice...a 13 year old Rudra never saw his parents fighting, but a 7 year old Dhruv walked into Rudra's room and saw "Myrah" and Rudra "fighting".

Have a good evening.

Madilyn

Agree with both your random thoughts. If Myrah is NOT Paro, then the only way she can ever strike a bond with Rudra is if she shares an equally tragic loss in her life ... I cannot imagine Rudra even going close to her otherwise. But even if that happens, I still don't see how a girl like Myrah could fall in love with a guy like Rudra ... they are polar opposites in every way. She is rich, young, educated, Westernised and single ... he is much older, a crusty widower with a child, with a small home based business ... so far he seems to be the sole owner and sole employee of his security firm. 😛 And why would she want to marry a guy who every time he looks at her, would remember his first wife? That would be really creepy ... the way they have painted Rudra, there is no way he can forget Paro, and even less if he has her lookalike staring at him in the face every day.

So in that case, I hope Myrah's sole purpose is to allow Rudra to move on ... no Myrah-Rudra romance please. Let Myrah marry her Rohit and go away ... unless of course Rohit is another Varun ... in which case the cvs are seriously bereft of imagination! 😆

Second thought ... Rudra probably suppressed all his memories of his parents' fights in his subconscious need to project his mother as villain ... otherwise I can't imagine a 13 year old boy not picking up tension between his parents. Or did Mala cover the fights as well as Myrah did to Dhruv?

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