Originally posted by: krystal_watz
Agreed with the last post Aparna. However, I do think he's found love at last with Ganga. Jagya is the kind of man who looks for self-validation in a relationship, along with certain admirable qualities in his woman. Ganga continuously worships him as a saviour, while being intelligent, fiery and sharing a great camaraderie with him. In short, he feels superior while not having to consider Ganga overly inferior (as in the case of Anandi). This made him slowly fall for her.
We must remember that love is not unconditional. We fall in love when some quality/ies in the other person attract us and their company and interaction make us feel good about ourselves and life.
Anandi never worshipped him like Ganga did she certainly loved him and she was aware of his flaws and used to point out where he has gone wrong.Infact he really used to look upto Anandi till he met Gauri.
Gauri did make him feel superior in some ways.
He always felt small next to Anandi because he knew he could not match upto her and his family will always compare him with Anandi.
If Gauri made him feel claustrophobic because of her constant feelings of insecurirty being clingy possessive Anandi made him claustrophobic by simply being her loving nurturing self who pulled him out of every trouble he would get into making sure that he got all that he wanted in life she made him feel inferior with her magnanimity.The day their divorce came through in his drunk state he said what he hated about her pyar and parwah and of course the name Anandi.😛😆
Both Gauri and Anandi overpowered him with their ways and made him feel inferior and Ganga is different in that way because of the circumstances in which they met and in their relationship he was the nurturer.
I know that Ganga is very important to him will not leave her but will wait to see him show his love for Ganga