Okay as far as an apology... I wasn't expecting on from him on the way he behaved with Sanam the night he was with his friends. But I saw him as acting immature, more than vindictive with Sanam. This scene is done in many variations of most Mills and Boons novels. It is usually viewed as a way to show the guy is jealous and the girl is starting to pick up on his unconfessed feelings. I feel like Aahil owed Rehan a bigger apology. I also think he owes Sanam an apology for the dabba.
As far as the various scenarios of man handling by Aahil. It is a matter of opinion. I think as a person and as a couple you draw lines. Sanam has only said on the evening of the dinner with his friends, you are hurting me. He says ...Waaah but you never say anything to Rehan. He then lets go. He was immature. If she felt man handled she should say so.
The bedroom, I think Aahil is far worse. But Sanam's non verbal cues do not indicate she had any problem. She does not turn away, make an excuse or cover her eyes. She was clearly fan girling. Hopefully, Aahil picked up on that.
He is always in her space, she has never stepped back. Even the first night they are together, he literally is on top of her and Sanam stares. I thought that was a definite--no.
As a couple or as woman, you decide, how to fight and how to move in each other's spaces. If it is not okay Sanam clearly has to say so. I just think she has to draw lines, which she does not do. Then you can say manhandling or not.
Edited by jasmine_anih - 11 years ago