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http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/1232187.cms

man was arrested in the Ahmednagar district of central Maharashtra on Thursday for allegedly selling his daughter to a Mumbai dance bar.

Badshah Mohan Singh Matekar was arrested for selling his 15-year-old daughter for Rs 200,000 on August 31. Badshah sold his daughter to pay off his debts, police said.

A case was registered against four other people, including the girl's mother Salma Badshah Matekar and brother Satish Badshah Matekar, police said.

http://www.tribuneindia.com/2004/20040125/world.htm

MAN HELD FOR SELLING DAUGHTER
KATHMANDU:
A father, who sold his daughter to a brothel in Kolkata, has been arrested in Palpa district in western Nepal, media report here on Saturday said. Indra Bahadur Darlami (45) of Bhuban Pokhari village was arrested this week after his 17-year-old daughter Amrita filed a case with the Palpa district police, Nepali language daily The Kantipur reported. Amrita, said she was rescued by Bidur Joshi, a Nepali serving in the Indian Army. ''My father, who was working in Kolkata, had taken me along to enrol me in a school. Instead he sold me to a brothel for Rs 30,000,'' she told the police. — UNI

in todays world of women = men .. these things are still happening.. whats wrong wid the pple... its really really bad..

there cant be any reason good to do this

so for the debate .. how can this problem be solved...or at least reducde ? why is this things happening? shouldnt there be a very strict punishment?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i am glad that this came out and the girl had guts to complain, such people dont deserve to have kids. when you cannot take care of kids, then dont try to even bring the kids in the world, period. these kind of issues irritates me to heights 😡 😡 😡
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^^ you know what i think exactly the same! why does God give ppl like this children? they do not deserve children! how can u sell off ur own blood to ppl who u cant trust, who will ruin the life of ur child?! its awful n disgusting!

If u cant afford living, get a job!! y take out such big loans that u know u cant pay off!

If u r poor, ok i understand u cant afford living especially if u have a lot of children, butt why have so many children? u can not expect them to repay ur upbringing etc ..

u dont sell children for money!!! there has to be a strict punishment for both the seller n buyer!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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^^^exact thoughts duha, i would love to have this guy infront of me 😡 so that i can ask the same questions that you did 🤢 🤢 🤢 by the way welcome to DM 😛
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Posted: 18 years ago
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(🤢Eww🤢Eww🤢Eww) ^ 100

Disguting disgusting people 😡.

I really don't understand how someone can be so heartless 😔. How can one possible sell off someone who is a part of you, someone you gave birth to? One probably has to be really stone-hearted. The mothers have nothing to say in such scenarios or they help their husbands? Haven't really heard about a mother's involvement in such cases..

But as raunaq and Duha said, why give birth if you can not possibly afford their upbringing? Shayad galti ho gayi hogi 😡 aur janm de diya... but at least put the poor girl in some decent orphanage from where she might find a family.. orphanage is not a great thing either but better then getting sold .

Again, disgusting people 😡. These people should die in the worst possible way...

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I understand that poverty and misery makes people take such hate-worthy actions, yet when it comes to planning a family and not having children, they are all "Godly" and want to accept children as gift of God year after another? For what? To sell gifts of God to dance underclad to entertain some cheap humans?

Hypocrites! 😡 😡 .. should be punished so severely that others will feel scrae before committing such acts.

Isn't dad suposed to be a girl's best friend in the whole world? Such news make me sad..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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^^Agreeed QT

Yes this is Just Wrong. Wrong wrong wrong.

How on earth can anyone debate this fact that its just NOT Done, no matter how poor you are or whatever, you dont Sell your children. Makes me sad and Angry.

With most Girls in the family, you try and protect their Izzat and blah blah blah as a man, and then you just have this.....to sell ur own girl. Just wrong. Shame on these people, should get Punished severly.
Its as bad as Honour killing, you are killing your own child.

Why have children, if u r just going to kill them

Why does God make such people. If you do not respect your own child, no one else is going to.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: rutumodi915

Shayad galti ho gayi hogi 😡aur janm de diya... but at least put the poor girl in some decent orphanage from where she might find a family.. orphanage is not a great thing either but better then getting sold .

Again, disgusting people 😡. These people should die in the worst possible way...



galti, you call this a galti 😡 😡 😡 everytime i hear such news i wished they were infront of me to smack them umpteen times, you cannot call this a mistake, people should use their common sense, no real parents would ever do this, and dont give the poverty as an excuse, make your coat within the given cloth 😡 😡 😡
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yes Raunaq agreed. Not a galti. Man MAKES THIS CHOICE.

You are given free will to some extent, don't mis use this.

No matter how poor there are always OPTIONS and other ways.....however selling ur child? No, not done .

If you believe in Kismat and this stuff.....then yes....you choose what to do with ur destiny, but do not mis-use this free will. God gave adam and eve free will, they mis used this, hence the concequences, being kicked out fromt he garden.

So always Concequences for your actions.

So in this life you are not punished, be sure agli life mein you will be punished. 😊



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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sangeetarangdal

in todays world of women = men .. these things are still happening.. whats wrong wid the pple... its really really bad..

there cant be any reason good to do this

so for the debate .. how can this problem be solved...or at least reducde ? why is this things happening? shouldnt there be a very strict punishment?

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most ppl wud say there is no gd reason for doing this, its disgusting how can parents sell their own children. some parents sell their children cos they no they cannot afford to look after them themsleves. the story u gave as an example may not be cos of financial problems. in england there is loadsa support to look after yr children and yrself, so these things dont happen much although there are many foster homes, orphanges etc.

maybe is there were sum support systems in the areas where this stuff mainly happens that cud help, i gess.

take care
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