Office written updates, Wednesday 6 august,2014 - discussions - Page 3

Thanks for the Updates Ramya..

Originally posted by: sathya87

Thanks for the Updates Ramya..

Totally disappointed...till the last minute I was expecting Vishnu to tell something else... some twist in the convo..😔

Expect the unexpected 🤣

Thanks for the updates!!

Well, just a little thing that bothered me and thought of sharing it here. Am I the only one feeling odd about Raji removing her thaali everyday and wearing it the next day morn? I would have been ok had It been someone who did not believe in any of the traditions or customs or is not superstitious; but with Raji coming from a very traditional family and having been brought up in a village and also believing in such customs, it seems a little odd that she does it. She wears it when it is convenient, removes it when not needed and even misplaces it like her everyday accessory. The dir need not show the typical thaali sentiments or such shown in movies or serials but this one is also not needed. Just because someone is in IT (or even in USA) doesn't mean that the womenfolk would start behaving in a very different way. I have seen even westerners always wearing their engagement or marriage ring and although they don't respect or worship, it is considered the most important accessory or jewelry for a married woman and is given its due importance! Raji is not someone who has been married for many years and usually newly married women give more importance to such things. I wish the dir doesn't show such things in the name of modern thinking or fashion.

Originally posted by: Thendral_USA

Well, just a little thing that bothered me and thought of sharing it here. Am I the only one feeling odd about Raji removing her thaali everyday and wearing it the next day morn? I would have been ok had It been someone who did not believe in any of the traditions or customs or is not superstitious; but with Raji coming from a very traditional family and having been brought up in a village and also believing in such customs, it seems a little odd that she does it. She wears it when it is convenient, removes it when not needed and even misplaces it like her everyday accessory. The dir need not show the typical thaali sentiments or such shown in movies or serials but this one is also not needed. Just because someone is in IT (or even in USA) doesn't mean that the womenfolk would start behaving in a very different way. I have seen even westerners always wearing their engagement or marriage ring and although they don't respect or worship, it is considered the most important accessory or jewelry for a married woman and is given its due importance! Raji is not someone who has been married for many years and usually newly married women give more importance to such things. I wish the dir doesn't show such things in the name of modern thinking or fashion.

Tendral - i brought this up the last time thali went missing and raji seeking karthik's help to search. was not happy either and was questioning the same as Raji came from village where they respect all this traditions or customs. Generally i hate women's who remove thali and put it for their convenient. I do have friends who is living abroad and they even stop wearing pottu. When i ask why - the reason they gave was very lame. They are disturbed every time some whites ask them what is on their forehead 😕

Karthik should not have slapped Vishnu, whatever the reason might be