You Always Hurt the Ones You Love

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KhatamKahani

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Posted: 11 years ago

You always hurt the one you love,

The one you shouldn't hurt at all.

You always take the sweetest rose,

And crush it till the petals fall.

You always break the kindest heart,

With a hasty word you can't recall.

So if I broke your heart last night,

It's because I love you most of all

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/You_Always_Hurt_the_One_You_Love

Edited by KhatamKahani - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

Is this true?

I need to know really :P solo reason of log in :P

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Farhana

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Posted: 11 years ago

It's from a song so maybe it's just lyrics

I mean those words are beautifully said, but do we really hurt the ones we love most?

Awesome post :)

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KhatamKahani

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -RohitMaxwell-
Is this true?

I need to know really :P solo reason of log in :P

😆 This played in my head when I rewatched Wednesday episode. The Ryan Gosling version from Blue Valentine.

I think it's true to an extent. I think at times we lash out or hurt the ones closest to us, or our family.

It's also very true for volatile, emotionally charged relationships which more often than not are unhealthy relationships which don't have a happily ever after.

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-RohitMaxwell-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#KK i know this happens to me mostly but if we think from others point of view whom we are hurting... should they thinl they are hurt becoz they are loved? if i am on their position i would be more hurt & depressed & will never think i am actually loved 😆

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Posted: 11 years ago

#Far yes thats the real question! Do we hurt the ones we love most? this topic is interesting... at least i want to know different views... i want to read and know more on this. If anyone have external links on this... please give me :)

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KhatamKahani

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Posted: 11 years ago

Oh, I agree. That last line, which is the one line directed at/to the person on the other end, is definitely only true for unhealthy relationships. And it is a cop out and excuse instead of owning up and taking responsibility for your hurtful actions and words.

Edit, I meant the last two lines: So if I broke your heart last night / It's because I love you most of all

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Farhana

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Posted: 11 years ago

@Yaari: maybe we don't have the knowledge or the skills to communicate our feelings constructively and end up hurting our loved ones :/

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-RohitMaxwell-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#Far hmm thats true. Also there's always a question arrive.. do we really love them?

PS... i want to know more about this type of problems.. i don know much.. so continue the discussions :P