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Juhi

@JUHI.HI

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Posted: 11 years ago

as we all know that ishra relatnship hasnt gone to the zenith of "love"...all that we can see between them is respect fr each other...Ya considering raman's point of view esp aftr dat parmeet scene...raman's emotions are merely not respect bt somethin more than dis...raman has accept ishita as his wife n nt oly accepted, he has also given right to her...hmmm actually right ovr his life (m i making any sense???😕) okay coming back to my point...according to raman's behaviour on thursdy epi (dat is when he accuses hr of "chori")n ishita cries her heart out...raman ws so not bothered when ishu was telling that he still loves raman, he dint pay any heeds to it!!!, nor did he try to undrstnd her pain...he was oly worried abt d pics, so he blasted ishu n left the room!!! well this can oly happen if u love someone n u dont bother wat the society has to say abt it...raman dint bother abt ishu's words bcz he knows that he doesnt love shagun...he doesnt evn bother wat ishu feels abt it cz he knows the truth (dat he doesnt love shagun)...this behaviour of his symbolises dat raman has actually given rights to ishu...he has actually fallen in love...n this relatnship is more than "ruhi ke liye"..well i do agree dat this emotion hasnt reached to its zenith...ya realisatn will happen when it reaches the zenith bt as of nw raman has strted to accept hr in his life...

but ishu's state of mind is completely different...she was jus abt of strt feeling sumthin (dint strt bt) bt raman's lies have put a barrier to the tsunami of emotions...for ishita, her relatn wid raman is of "respect"...she hasnt given any right to raman yet (thanks to "adi ke liye" track!!!)..ishita regards raman as "ruhi ke papa" n so cares fr him so much!!!..evn in the parmeet incident...when raman held ishu's hand, ishu kept on telling "leave me raman"..its bcz she thinks dat watevr raman did ws on humanitarian grounds n nt bcz she is his wife..oly aftr raman says "nhi chodunga, biwi ho tum meri", she goes silent...cz she somewhr realises dat raman has done it bcz its "ishita-raman's jhasi ki rani" n nt on humanitarian grounds!!! so, the car scene...she feels raman's pain, she trusts raman, she supports him- all dis oly bcz of hr relatnshp nt bcz he has a positn in her life... okay i do agree ishu did feel the pain when raman lied to her (abt shagun) bt dat was bcz she was jus developing those emotions fr raman...bt unforyunately before she cud built up those emotions, it got destroyed!!!! yesterdy's epi, when ishu cums to noe the truth, she easily sympethises wid raman, dis is bcz she doesnt expect anythin frm raman fr her...she thinks that raman regards her as ruhi's mum n so its okay if he hides the truth frm her... n so she was seeing the whole stuffs frm father's point of view... she dint feel bad dat raman has hidden truth frm her bcz according to her they are "husband-wife" fr the society n fr ruhi, othr than dat they hav no relatnship... she has still nt accepted raman as her hubby...bcz if if she had accepted him as hr hubby den she wud do the same thing which raman had done fr hr...she wud fight against shagun n questn raman... bt instead she doesnt evn think of questionning him evn aftr knowing the truth!!!she tells raman dat "its okay u love shagun, i m cool wid it" , its bcs she doesnt feel dat "connect" or "right" ovr raman... guys as we all know that anger is an emotion an there is no much difference between love n anger...u get angry on a person whom u love or feel that u hav "right" ovr the person..bt ishu has no anger fr raman...this symbolises that she still hasnt given the "right" n the "position" that raman has given to her!!!

guys as of i can see, there is a story blooming..probably a love story in ISHRA but dat is oly frm raman's point of view!!!!...ishu has to still walk a distance to reach raman!!!😉

am i making any sense to u al??? who all agrees wid me??

PS: guys i m done wid my analysis...i jus wanted to share my thoughts...do correct me if i m wrng...i noe i m vry bad in writtin!!! thank you fr bearing wid me!!!😳

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yhmlover

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Posted: 11 years ago

I dont know why...But i agree with u ...i thin k u r right,...

But my one and only concern is that...he should apologizes to her...She very well deserve it...he gave her so much pain...And for Raman, Adi is most important part...He even forgets his family infront of Adi...that has to be changed...he has to give importance to everybody...especially Ruhi and Ishita...

I understud ur point in Ishita forgiving him...bcoz she is not expecting anything from him when it comes to Adi... yes, she had started feeling something towards him...but thats only bcoz Raman took care of her mother and family very well... For any girl that's a big deal...If ur husband is loving ur family as his own, then he is definitely a gentleman for her and the girl will start respecting him and giving importance to him...

And here Ishita is forgiving Raman, bcoz she knows Adi is everything for him...and she is not expecting the husband part in Raman...she just Respect their Relationship...But she never felt that she has right on him as a wife and also she has not seen him as husband ...for her Raman is Ruhi's father and respect him as a perfect human being(not as husband)...

But Raman should understand this respect...and the pain he has given to her...be it as Ruhi's mother or his wife or just as a human being...I really need CV's to show Raman realizing and remembering how much pain he has given to her(I mean Ishita ,the person)...there was no guilt on his face...and that was really bad...

And most importantly ...if he really started accepting her as his wife (not just a good human being or Ruhi's mother) , then he should apologize to her no matter what...

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Sunita

@avni_19

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Posted: 11 years ago

agreedd!! i can make sense to what u say! its truee also... and she as forgiven him on "fatherly grounds" and as husband, as u said.. she has not considered much except ruhi ke liye contract!

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sophee

@sophee

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Posted: 11 years ago

Nice post.

In my opinion, both of them are more or less at the same stage of acknowledging their feelings for each other. That they are husband and wife and Ruhi is not their only connection, with some expectations and responsibilities towards each other, was accepted by them during Param's track. The fact that Ishita refused to come back home unless Raman went to get her back was a statement that despite Ruhi's strong bond, there has to be a basic level of respect and trust on each other to take this relationship forward. And Raman's lament that Ishita had to go through it all alone and the fact that he was unable to protect her would always bother him, was his commitment to honour his vows.

Then came the accident track which actually accelerated their emotional connect, especially for Ishita who was affected more than Raman. Because here, for the first time in her life was someone who not only shared her problems with her but actually was the main person taking care of everything. They both began to depend on each other and look forward to having each other around. Raman's trust in her in discussing everything related to finding the culprit, promising to include her in anything involving Adi and Ruhi to a small gesture of taking her along for his blood tests! All was cementing their bond where love had already crept in. And that is what made Ishita place Raman on a pedestal, where she thought that he could do no wrong. She almost acknowledged her feelings to Bala when she told him about Raman's meetings with Shagun and him lying to her about it.

This whole Adi track has brought them back to square one where both have to finally look deep within themselves and acknowledge what is apparent to everyone. Where Raman failed to trust Ishita as a wife and did things which only led to more heartache and Ishita was forced to question his feelings for Shagun given the circumstances. Raman beating up Parmeet was a tacit realisation by both that despite their differences they'll always be there for each other and was also a release of Raman's own pent up emotions and frustrations of the last few days. And now Ishita finally understanding Raman's strange behaviour and empathising with him is the next step. I have enjoyed their journey with all its highs and lows and thanks to Karan and Divyanka, they've made the journey worth it. But my only contention is the treatment of Raman is this track. He has disappointed me on quite a few accounts during this track but that's my personal view. I was really disappointed in his demeanour and attitude in last night's episode. There was no remorse or guilt on charging Ishita with something as serious as tampering of evidence. In fact he came across as arrogant and behaved like a jerk. So just want this track to end today and look forward to the new track as per the promo and the spoilers.

Apologies for such a long post!

Cheers

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afsanaanjum

@afsanaanjum

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Posted: 11 years ago

Wow Juhi! That is a different point of view and something new in this forum!

After reading your entire post i do feel you maybe right.

Ishita is not angry on him for hiding the truth. She did take on ONLY a father's point of view.
Good observation buddy.👏

Now, i'm starting to think in your way and i couldn't agree any less!

Thank you for such a post.🤗

Need to wait for the outcome from the CVs now.

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naima.a

@naima.a

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yup!!! I kinda like ur point of view... everyone was saying that we will get a one side love track from Ishita but I always had a feeling that it will b from Raman.. Your analysis is soo true all this time Ishita was jus fighting for her mother n what hurted her the most was that the one that was suppose to support them through thick n thin n was supporting his ex hu she thought had done the accident..

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

Nice analysis. Loved your capability of thinking differently.

It would be more reasonable if Raman confesses first considering the amount of pain he has given to Ishu.
But, I thought that both are in the same stage of love story. Reading your post..seems like Raman is one step ahead.

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Juhi

@JUHI.HI

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: yhmlover
I dont know why...But i agree with u ...i thin k u r right,...
But my one and only concern is that...he should apologizes to her...She very well deserve it...he gave her so much pain...And for Raman, Adi is most important part...He even forgets his family infront of Adi...that has to be changed...he has to give importance to everybody...especially Ruhi and Ishita...

I understud ur point in Ishita forgiving him...bcoz she is not expecting anything from him when it comes to Adi... yes, she had started feeling something towards him...but thats only bcoz Raman took care of her mother and family very well... For any girl that's a big deal...If ur husband is loving ur family as his own, then he is definitely a gentleman for her and the girl will start respecting him and giving importance to him...
And here Ishita is forgiving Raman, bcoz she knows Adi is everything for him...and she is not expecting the husband part in Raman...she just Respect their Relationship...But she never felt that she has right on him as a wife and also she has not seen him as husband ...for her Raman is Ruhi's father and respect him as a perfect human being(not as husband)...

But Raman should understand this respect...and the pain he has given to her...be it as Ruhi's mother or his wife or just as a human being...I really need CV's to show Raman realizing and remembering how much pain he has given to her(I mean Ishita ,the person)...there was no guilt on his face...and that was really bad...

And most importantly ...if he really started accepting her as his wife (not just a good human being or Ruhi's mother) , then he should apologize to her no matter what...

i get ur point buddy...i think we will get that scene soon n also raman takin ishu out fr picnic (spoilers) also a way of expressing his gratitude twrds hr n may be a kind of apology too!!!...as of i undrstnd raman will apologise ishu..nt directly , may be indirectly in RKB style or sumthin...lets wait n watch!!!😊

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Juhi

@JUHI.HI

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: sophee72
Nice post.
In my opinion, both of them are more or less at the same stage of acknowledging their feelings for each other. That they are husband and wife and Ruhi is not their only connection, with some expectations and responsibilities towards each other, was accepted by them during Param's track. The fact that Ishita refused to come back home unless Raman went to get her back was a statement that despite Ruhi's strong bond, there has to be a basic level of respect and trust on each other to take this relationship forward. And Raman's lament that Ishita had to go through it all alone and the fact that he was unable to protect her would always bother him, was his commitment to honour his vows.

Then came the accident track which actually accelerated their emotional connect, especially for Ishita who was affected more than Raman. Because here, for the first time in her life was someone who not only shared her problems with her but actually was the main person taking care of everything. They both began to depend on each other and look forward to having each other around. Raman's trust in her in discussing everything related to finding the culprit, promising to include her in anything involving Adi and Ruhi to a small gesture of taking her along for his blood tests! All was cementing their bond where love had already crept in. And that is what made Ishita place Raman on a pedestal, where she thought that he could do no wrong. She almost acknowledged her feelings to Bala when she told him about Raman's meetings with Shagun and him lying to her about it.

This whole Adi track has brought them back to square one where both have to finally look deep within themselves and acknowledge what is apparent to everyone. Where Raman failed to trust Ishita as a wife and did things which only led to more heartache and Ishita was forced to question his feelings for Shagun given the circumstances. Raman beating up Parmeet was a tacit realisation by both that despite their differences they'll always be there for each other and was also a release of Raman's own pent up emotions and frustrations of the last few days. And now Ishita finally understanding Raman's strange behaviour and empathising with him is the next step. I have enjoyed their journey with all its highs and lows and thanks to Karan and Divyanka, they've made the journey worth it. But my only contention is the treatment of Raman is this track. He has disappointed me on quite a few accounts during this track but that's my personal view. I was really disappointed in his demeanour and attitude in last night's episode. There was no remorse or guilt on charging Ishita with something as serious as tampering of evidence. In fact he came across as arrogant and behaved like a jerk. So just want this track to end today and look forward to the new track as per the promo and the spoilers.

Apologies for such a long post!
Cheers

hmm u r ryt dear!!!! raman needs to appologise ..well wat i meant in dis post was oly ISHRA's behaviour..actually i was really vry disturbed on hw ishu can let go raman n all...n more ovr raman's behaviour while ishu confessed hr feelings... aftr thinking a while i jus came to dis conclusn(my post above)...its nthin to do wid whether raman was ryt or wrng its jus abt ISHRA emotions...😊

okay coming back to ur post...hmm ya i believe raman must n shud apologise...CVs hav let down his charactr so low...i feel raman will surely do sumthin to make up fr his wrng may b nt directly bt indirectly in RKB style!!!... lets wait n watch!!! i hope the upcoming epis undo the wrng commited so far (frm raman's pov)😊

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yhmlover

@yhmlover

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: JUHI.HI

i get ur point buddy...i think we will get that scene soon n also raman takin ishu out fr picnic (spoilers) also a way of expressing his gratitude twrds hr n may be a kind of apology too!!!...as of i undrstnd raman will apologise ishu..nt directly , may be indirectly in RKB style or sumthin...lets wait n watch!!!😊

Yes,...we waited and he is going to apologize as per new SBS video...So lets enjoy it...and trust both Ishita and Raman...

I think Raman will be confessing his feeling , once he change Adi to a better kid with the help of Ishita...by thn he will fall for her... or may be in the process of Adi's betterment...

I guess that is what CV's wanted to show,,,that Raman will fall for Ishita seeing how she takes care of his children with out expecting any thing in return...

As he is afraid of falling in love again(all thanks to Shagun) with a normal girl , may CV's wants to show us Ishita's support to Raman in case of Adi and Ruhi...and thus he realizing his love for her...

Or else the whole accident drama was meaning less...

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