Originally posted by: daisyfields
Truth is definitely unpalatable but the question here is not about the truth of their love. It is the truth interpreted in different ways by different people who are all right in their own ways...
The truth for Kamla and Vithal is that Ragzs chose to ditch Kalpi and her love in a humiliating manner and CHOSE to marry Paakhi. He was not forced to do so no matter what his reasons, he left Kalpi for Paakhi and betrayed her. So that's their truth. The second truth for them is that Paakhi is Raghav's legal wife accepted by all and acknowledged by Raghav himself. As Kamla rightfully said Raghav may have put sindoor and married her but she can never publicly claim to be his wife nor will he acknowledge it coz they both know its not the right way. So as parents they are right to try to make their daughter forget a man who though claims to love her and consider her his wife, cannot say so with dignity and respect and in the eyes of society. He will also not leave his present legal wife for her and is still chasing their daughter and making false promises which he may or may not keep. They don't trust him given his past behavior and want her to move on and there's nothing wrong in their thinking. They are right as parents.
Kamla is also right in a way in that Paakhi married Raghav out of love and not knowing that Raghav is marrying her for reveng. (We all know thats not true but Kamla as yet doesn't). Also Raghav chose to marry her and made her his wife ditching Kalpi and Kalpi's love. She was right when she said to Raghav that he never cared for her daughter's future, dignity and her love, all he cared about was his own revenge. Since Paakhi is also in love with Raghav and he married her out of his own free will , she has every right on him as his wife which is true. Raghav made his choice and gave those rights to Pakhi . And just as Kalpi has the right to fight for her love so does Paakhi. So in Kamla's eyes if Paakhi is trying to save her legal marriage she is right and she wishes her success which any mother would want for her child. Kamla believes that Raghav does not really love Kalpi coz if he did he would not have ditched her and could have convinced his mother that he can still seek revenge but cannot live witout kalpi.
Also Kamla is equally right when she says that he could do so only because Kalpi comes from a poor background coz if Vitthal was some powerful businessman Ragzs would have def thought twice before ditching Kalpi. Its because he knows that they cannot do much other than rant and rave he did that to Kalpi.
As for Paakhi, the only truth for her is that she is Raghav's legal wife and so she has more rights on Raghav 's love and has every right to fight for her marriage. Here she fails to understand that love cannot be forced it has to happen. So she can never force Raghav to love her. All she can do is be a good friend and help him achieve his goals and give him a chance to know her better , but she's taken the wrong course of action as she only knows to snatch and win , not win with love. That is what Kamla tried to explain to her but she could not understand and she never will. she rightly said it herslef, now its not about love its about her ego.
As for Raghav the BIGGEST TRUTH is he still does not understand Kalpi's love. He's always taken her for granted and taken advantage of her good and tolerant nature. He has never valued her in a true sense. And that is what is needed for him to realize her true value.