Coercing Naren to marry Ankita

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi All,
I know there have been so many posts regarding Ankita/Naren/Pari - even I've made a post and responded to other's threads regarding the same.

What I'm more curious to understand or discuss at this juncture is Naren's POV on the situation. From the precap we can see that Archana/Manav have halted Pari and Naren's wedding most likely due to the revelation that Ankita is pregnant.

Naren has only loved Ahana from the very beginning. Be it loving Pari as Ahana in London or showering affection on Ankita believing her to be his Ahana. In such a circumstance his true love is Pari as she is his original Ahana.

Naren being coerced to re-marry Ankita as she is pregnant - while I can understand the societal/family pressures for this - I don't think this is fair to Naren or Ankita for that matter.

Naren did consummate his "marriage" with Ankita - believing her to be his Ahana. Even if he remembers his time with Ankita - I don't think it's justified to coerce him into marrying Ankita - primarily because his love is Pari.

Ankita loves Naren, wants to be with him - I get all that but that's moot point in this circumstance. How Naren reacts when he recalls his "married" time with Ankita will really drive who he chooses to be with.

I think it was unfair to both Naren and Pari to rush into matrimony without Naren having full comprehension and recollection of his marriage with Ankita.

Ankita being pregnant does raise more questions and complications - but realistically speaking - Naren shouldn't be forced into marrying Ankita just for the baby nor should he be marrying Pari without understanding what has happened while he was not fully in his senses.

Why EK is hell bent on making a mockery of relationships is yet another discussion but for the near future I hope Naren doesn't get forced into matrimony with Ankita.

I did appreciate the father/daughter scene between Soham and Ankita when she explains to him that Naren has only loved Pari and they are suited for each other - Naren never loved Ankita he's always only loved Ahana.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Excellent post. I agree with you fully.

Honesty and communication can do so many things for this show. They wouldn't even need a leap. Perhaps TRPs would rise also. People want to see logic and rishteys being treated with respect not this mockery.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ekta made a mockery of marriage, already, by making Ankita pregnant, when she already had Pari in mind to return back in his life!
Saying Ankita shouldn't unite with Naren, because Naren only loved "ahana" aka Pari.. is like saying.. "Lets eat vada pao, since there is not pau bhaji, but as we eating vada pao, pau bhaji comes, so finishing vada pao isn't necessary or needed" so what happens now? It goes to waste..

similarly.. how is this Ankita's fault.. just because she was HIS Ahana.. she isn't needed? just throw her life away, as she wasn't the real deal anyway.. who cares if she is preggo.. who cares about HER feelings.. he always wanted Ahana, Pari, so get him together with her only.

Well, whatever Naren shared with her, thinking her to be Ahana.. he STILL was in USE with her! She's a human being, for crying out loud, not a toy not a machine!

Think about her life! I'm not saying Naren should sacrifice his love for Ankita.. but honestly.. when you have a baby in line.. you got to take responsibility! especially, when it is your causing! You caused it to happen.. knowingly, or unknowingly.. STILL.. the fact cannot be denied!

Ankita should be given her rights.. but then again, she does not deserve Naren.. who treats her wrong.. but at least.. she shld get the deserved respect from both the families! That's all I am saying.. otherwise.. you guys are saying... its Okay to use a human being till they are not required anymore..

Thats the message you guys are basically bringing at. Sad.. just SAD.
Edited by rouble_lover - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rouble_lover

Ekta made a mockery of marriage, already, by making Ankita pregnant, when she already had Pari in mind to return back in his life!

Saying Ankita shouldn't unite with Naren, because Naren only loved "ahana" aka Pari.. is like saying.. "Lets eat vada pao, since there is not pau bhaji, but as we eating vada pao, pau bhaji comes, so finishing vada pao isn't necessary or needed" so what happens now? It goes to waste..

similarly.. how is this Ankita's fault.. just because she was HIS Ahana.. she isn't needed? just throw her life away, as she wasn't the real deal anyway.. who cares if she is preggo.. who cares about HER feelings.. he always wanted Ahana, Pari, so get him together with her only.

Well, whatever Naren shared with her, thinking her to be Ahana.. he STILL was in USE with her! She's a human being, for crying out loud, not a toy not a machine!

Think about her life! I'm not saying Naren should sacrifice his love for Ankita.. but honestly.. when you have a baby in line.. you got to take responsibility! especially, when it is your causing! You caused it to happen.. knowingly, or unknowingly.. STILL.. the fact cannot be denied!

Ankita should be given her rights.. but then again, she does not deserve Naren.. who treats her wrong.. but at least.. she shld get the deserved respect from both the families! That's all I am saying.. otherwise.. you guys are saying... its Okay to use a human being till they are not required anymore..

Thats the message you guys are basically bringing at. Sad.. just SAD.


no. what we are saying is how can you take responsibility for something u did when u had no mental capacity to do so. it would be like asking a 1 year old to take responsibility for his/her actions. it does not make sense, logically. Ankita on the other hand knew what she was getting into. She knew Naren loved Ahana and she in certain ways acted like Ahana, like when she dressed up as the pizza girl. And Naren is also not a toy to be used. But thats exactly what happened when Ankita married him for money by allowing him to believe he was marrying Ahana. She used him liek a toy. She decieved him into believeing he was having sex w/ Ahana. She was playing the part of Ahana.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Right. Ankita convinced Naren that she was Ahana. Poor Naren or poor Rushali had no role in this. It was Ankita who volunteered to dress as the pizza girl . Naren didnt ask her to. She was never told by the doctor or rushali that she has to take care of him only. She was told clearly that she should stay in his room, but not have sex, inspite of the fact that naren was raring to go. She was told clearly that ahana will come back one day and she should leave him. Whatever she did for naren was her fault, and sunanda, rushali etc were definitely not at fault! They have absolutely no responsibility at all. And yes Ankita used naren badly. For sex. For getting pregnant. For money.
Poor sweet naren was trapped by Ankita. So she deserves to be gossiped about. To be taunted. To be used. And Dear Naren deserves to get his love. He is mental, you see, with strictly selective memory. Anything for poor dear mental Naren!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikki1591


no. what we are saying is how can you take responsibility for something u did when u had no mental capacity to do so. it would be like asking a 1 year old to take responsibility for his/her actions. it does not make sense, logically. Ankita on the other hand knew what she was getting into. She knew Naren loved Ahana and she in certain ways acted like Ahana, like when she dressed up as the pizza girl. And Naren is also not a toy to be used. But thats exactly what happened when Ankita married him for money by allowing him to believe he was marrying Ahana. She used him liek a toy. She decieved him into believeing he was having sex w/ Ahana. She was playing the part of Ahana.



Great response guys - thanks for sharing your views. I'd like to weigh in on the points raised.

No one is saying Ankita's feelings don't matter or any of this is Ankita's fault - that is not the focus of my post. The focus of my post was about Naren - about how due to unfortunate circumstances Ankita/Naren and Pari are in this very complicated situation - NO ONE IS WRONG - and NO ONE IS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT - everyone has been acting on what they felt was correct FOR THEM based on the circumstance on hand.

No one is saying Naren should make Ankita suffer or not take responsibility for his actions - that is not the point. The point here is you can't force a person to marry someone JUST because she is pregnant - marriage is not the only way to accept responsibility.

Naren in my opinion should not be jumping into matrimony with Pari with out knowing what happened over the last 2 years - he already married Ankita when he was technically mentally disbalanced - he'd be doing the same thing right now if he marries Pari with out understanding what happened in the last 2 years since the fire accident in London.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Has Naren's family made even a small effort to reach out to Ankita or acknowledge her contribtion or her present condition? And naren himself has shown no interest in what happened with him in the time when he was "unwell"? There is no appropriate closure to Ankita's story from the Karmarkars.
The eagerness with which all of them seem to get rid of Ankita and move on speaks enough for their character. Their lack of compassion and basic decency is repelling. I dont think I will like Naren ever again.
If his love deserves completion, so does Ankita's contribution. To say that she "used" Naren is downright inhuman.
I sincerely hope that the marriage takes place. But I cant wish him happiness. Sorry.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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why does everything revolve around naren? i mean why does everything has to be "what naren wants/needs?". i have had enough of this guy and his self-centered, jerk attitude. karmakars are all characterless people who lack the basic decency of gratitude towards ankita. they have use and throw policy and that is what they applied on ankita. i dont have an ounce of sympathy left for naren. i never had any for pari coz she is a notch higher than naren when it comes being self-centered and totally disgusting. deshmukhs are hypocrites when it comes to treating their kids equally and so many other things.i m pretty sure once that idiot pari and neena tell abt that whole shashank scenario, they will be the first one to rain slaps, blame ankita and taunt her character. right now i would love to see ankita leaving this messed up family behind to raise her kid and become strong and independent. under no circumstances she should give up her kid to these characterless karmakars. although the bonus would be that this marriage getting cancelled and naren along with his loser family paying for what they did to ankita

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