ZGH episode 13 - samjhauta

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful wonderful wonderful
The episode explored yet another dimension of relationships

That of adjustment and compromise

That of one partner wanting to have it all his or her way

And expecting the other to comply !

It was Murtaza, who now sees what he has lost, albeit too late

It is Sara, who is adamant about having it entirely her way!

Aur her mother, who is yet to acknowledge that her lifestyle has impacted her children's lives

And not entirely positively.


Is Asmara wrong? I don't think so

Is Zaroon wrong then? I don't think so either

The problem is that their concepts of what and how much to give to each other is different

Is Zaroon confused? I think Zaroon is more clear than anyone else about what he wants

And he is not ready to settle for anything lesser



Usama, of course, is the wisest and sweetest person of them all,

he holds up a mirror to zaroon and lo and behold!

Zaroon sees the image of Kashaf, as the ideal woman

He has been comparing every other woman in his life to.


Kashaf is not ready to let go of her anger against her father

I loved what she said, once you learn to fly, you need to hold someone's finger and walk

And there is a right time for every relationship, after which it's just too late

And wrongs cannot be righted

The time is gone for Murtaza

It's about to slip away for Sara and Frahan and she is not able to see that

It was never right for Asmara and Zaroon, and so they are not going to hold on to it


Another profound statement from kashaf today - it's not our circumstances that are responsible for our problems, it's our father

But that seems to be true of all the characters in this story and many times for us in our real lives too

It's how people close to us, act and react, that are responsible for the directions our lives take !



Rafia - when our station in life changes, people change towards us, that's why we aspire for changing our life for the better! - sad, but true Rafia!


Free off all encumbrances, Zaroon( from Asmara presumably), and kashaf ( from her family responsibilities) meet again. Zaroon seems to have acknowledged his feelings for kashaf, but will kashaf change her mind? She seems just as anti-Zaroon as she was.

So let's wait for sparks to fly, as their paths cross again, and this time they are on level!




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Murtaza is one git.. but that's how ppl chnge der behaviour wen u r succesful..
Kashaf's dialogues r so heart touching.

Sara..she is doing her biggest mistake, she didn't take time to evn think abt such a big decision to divorce farhan..Worst part was her mom encourging her to do so.. She didnt suggest her daughter fr once to sit back n think...

Kashaf n zaroon Meeting..uff..no words
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: iluvOriginals

Murtaza is one git.. but that's how ppl chnge der behaviour wen u r succesful..

Kashaf's dialogues r so heart touching.

Sara..she is doing her biggest mistake, she didn't take time to evn think abt such a big decision to divorce farhan..Worst part was her mom encourging her to do so.. She didnt suggest her daughter fr once to sit back n think...

Kashaf n zaroon Meeting..uff..no words


I want to see Murtaza apologise to kashaf, if not directly, then at least in some manner, that will give some closure to her. And as for sara, ya, I agree with you, her hard stand is what is wrong, and her mother is not able to see that, in fact it seemed as if Zaroon is playing Sara's mothers role, by trying to mediate between Frahan and Sara, and by trying to show Sara where she is at fault.

As for Zaroon and kashaf, - uff... A flirting Zaroon and attitude wali kashaf, will be a super sight!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post buddy ⭐️
ZGH gives us so many things to discuss every episode shows a another aspect of life ...

Murtaza a guilty man ... very late but he now realized he was never there for her daughters as a father & this guilt is his punishment well said by kashaf mom rafia

Rafaia this lady is made of patience a mirror image of every mother i can say ❤️

farhan is a nice guy he tried his level best to made sara realize but all in vain ... sara & her mom live there life on there own conditions they don't care if there life style effect there relationships they don't want to compromise

zaroon kashaf there life is about to change after that meeting 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jodah

nice post buddy ⭐️
ZGH gives us so many things to discuss every episode shows a another aspect of life ...

Murtaza a guilty man ... very late but he now realized he was never there for her daughters as a father & this guilt is his punishment well said by kashaf mom rafia

Rafaia this lady is made of patience a mirror image of every mother i can say ❤️

farhan is a nice guy he tried his level best to made sara realize but all in vain ... sara & her mom live there life on there own conditions they don't care if there life style effect there relationships they don't want to compromise

zaroon kashaf there life is about to change after that meeting 😆


Thanks dear, yes indeed it's a fascinating show, and so close to real life. The rigid attitude of Sara and her mom is difficult to understand. How can they be so blind that their uncompromising stand will ruin any chances of reconciliation and put Sara through so much pain!

Looking forward to kashaf Zaroon romance to start ,
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Posted: 11 years ago
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lovely post dear. yes the episode depicts the relationships and compromises .zarron's father compromises, sara didn't want to compromise for their marriage but on the other hand zarron didn't want a marriage which needs compromises to spend life with a partner.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tvluvr

lovely post dear. yes the episode depicts the relationships and compromises .zarron's father compromises, sara didn't want to compromise for their marriage but on the other hand zarron didn't want a marriage which needs compromises to spend life with a partner.


It also looked into the issue of how relationships collapse when it's a one sided compromise, one side demands that they are allowed to do what they want and the other has to change completely.

Murtaza demanded it, Sara demanded it, even Zaroon to an extent demanded it, and all these relationships ended very badly.

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