Aisa ek beta mujhe chahiye hi nahi! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Indian_Isha

"Aisa ek beta mujhe chahiye hi nahi! Kash paida hi na hua hota!"

Why do I get a feeling that we would get to hear this line from Raman's mouth once Adi confesses that he got drunk and hit Iyer aunty?

Wouldnt that be an end to his obsessive compulsive disorder over Adi?

99.9% of my mind says that CVs would never give us the pleasure of listening to this! BUT, if this happens, how would it be? Shagun will have to plan whole new strategies to win back Raman as she cant use Adi as a trump card anymore! Maybe Adi would try to change, be under the counselling of Ishita and Ishita would try and gift a reformed Adi to Raman? Sounds and feels positive! 😊

i dnt think so he will leave him i think he will ask for adi's custody from shagun

lol isha you are too good. this is how you pick RKB. once he said to toshi ji about romi that kesi aulad peda ki he and called him criminal. should not be same applied to adi too ? and as some one had made post earlier what if adi would have done accident of ishu or what if ruhi would have harmed or even copy in exams ? but still RKB is pretty interesting character . realistic

Originally posted by: Indian_Isha

Great to see people supporting Raman that he wouldnt be bad to Adi by saying that!

Dont understand why some people have a problem when he loves him - See this is the contrast - Raman should neither be obsessed with Adi nor abandon him for his character!

Down the line, when his harkats will go overboard, or probably after a leap, he may say this, if Adi still didnt change even after he gave him enough gyan! This is not about demeaning Raman's character or his fatherhood, but he may take out his frustration this way to make Shagun realize how bad she has brought her son up! I'm not saying this will happen, but it may!

But again, I'm a strong believer of Raman's saath for truth, hope he digs deep into the issue and realize that Shagun doesnt worth his covering up!

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Isha, here is something scary about Adi. He ran an older woman down, rammed the car into a tree and fled the scene of the crime leaving Mrs. Iyer bleeding on the road. This in addition to bullying Shravu and his rude behavior.

What is even more scary is that Adi has been walking around as if nothing happened.😲 Has he lost touch with reality and forgotten the accident completely? Bala was the only one who told Raman his son was distracted at times🤓 while Shagun was partying.😲

Adi shows all signs of a person with a psychotic personality disorder as defined in medical terms. What we have seen of Adi to date fits the symptoms, risk factors and anti-social patterns of behavior including issues at school.

Adi is not your typical child having a tantrum once in a while. Poor and neglected parenting plays a big role in making this disorder a big problem especially into adulthood. Hope CVs address this in a responsible way as it's an important issue to educate parents about it.

Will they sweep it under the rug and be in denial or do something about it? What will Ishu do to help Raman get Adi the professional help he needs?🤔

Raman judged Toshiji for her parenting of Romi. Will he hold Shagun responsible for lying to cover up such a terrible act by Adi after he confesses?

Originally posted by: Indian_Isha

Great to see people supporting Raman that he wouldnt be bad to Adi by saying that!

Dont understand why some people have a problem when he loves him - See this is the contrast - Raman should neither be obsessed with Adi nor abandon him for his character!

Down the line, when his harkats will go overboard, or probably after a leap, he may say this, if Adi still didnt change even after he gave him enough gyan! This is not about demeaning Raman's character or his fatherhood, but he may take out his frustration this way to make Shagun realize how bad she has brought her son up! I'm not saying this will happen, but it may!

But again, I'm a strong believer of Raman's saath for truth, hope he digs deep into the issue and realize that Shagun doesnt worth his covering up!

😊 Let me write my comments in a different way! I didnt think what you said in your post, if it came true, would be a sign of bad character or parenthood!!! remember, even Mr Bhalla said to Toshi "Sab ke sab nikamme paida kiye hain Toshiji ne!!!" We took that as a joke, but he was serious when he said it! and many parents would have thought of it, and some may have also said it out loud. That doesnt mean they are bad parents. At least I dont think so.


Raman did what every parent's knee jerk reaction would be... protecting their child. But my point is that Raman will first feel guilty for Adi's behaviour. as if he is responsible that Adi turned out to be a monster. Even though Raman isn't involved in his day to day upbringing he will feel guilty that a child of his turned out like this. But Raman is NOT in a state currently where he would say (or even think) that it would have been good if Adi had not been born at all.

Originally posted by: pomegranate

this is one of the reason why I didn't think of adi. he walked around without a hint of remorse and he didn't even confess when shagun was taking the blame on herself. he is showing the symptoms of a classic sociopath.