Why can't a story take its own pace ?

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Why shouldn't a female lead have a proper character development as a story progresses ? I have been disappointed before and again see the same happening in RR. As soon as a man confesses his love, the female characterisation takes a dip. I can understand a wife's possessiveness and bossiness to an extent but not when she wants everything perfect without understanding other's feelings. . Yes, Paro is in love with Rudra, wants to see him move on, wants him to come out of his past but 15 years of pain & betrayal can't be forgiven in a day. I can understand as a DIL she wants to bind the family together, keep them all happy but she needs to give Rudra time to accept the truth which are thrown at him. I wanted her to cry with him for the child who had been betrayed, for the years he had lost and share the pain with him until he finds a bit of peace within himself. No one can forget and forgive so easily, we are after all humans. I wish the CV's in their rush don't forget to think of how a character needs to be developed. She can be the medium through which everything is sorted out but it needs time.
The less I talk about Dilsher and Mala the better. As individuals they have accepted whatever happened in their lives, they have had their face off and decided to move on but as parents what did they do ? Their son already has lived 15 years thinking his mother left him & now he finds out his dad has an equal share in it, as a parent they should be ashamed and despaired to even think what they have done to him. Rudra's life has plunged into darkness again and the only light in his life is Paro. He is holding on to her for support to get through this dark time and I hope they take this track slowly and give it it's needed priority. If tomorrow I see Paro doing some of her usual tricks and Rudra falling for it and we see a happy family get together then I am sad to say RR is another show which I am watching, nothing new in it. I want a track to take its own pace, develop the characters so that viewers can connect to them...that is what brings good TRPs.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaadal

Why shouldn't a female lead have a proper character development as a story progresses ? I have been disappointed before and again see the same happening in RR. As soon as a man confesses his love, the female characterisation takes a dip. I can understand a wife's possessiveness and bossiness to an extent but not when she wants everything perfect without understanding other's feelings. . Yes, Paro is in love with Rudra, wants to see him move on, wants him to come out of his past but 15 years of pain & betrayal can't be forgiven in a day. I can understand as a DIL she wants to bind the family together, keep them all happy but she needs to give Rudra time to accept the truth which are thrown at him. I wanted her to cry with him for the child who had been betrayed, for the years he had lost and share the pain with him until he finds a bit of peace within himself. No one can forget and forgive so easily, we are after all humans. I wish the CV's in their rush don't forget to think of how a character needs to be developed. She can be the medium through which everything is sorted out but it needs time.

The less I talk about Dilsher and Mala the better. As individuals they have accepted whatever happened in their lives, they have had their face off and decided to move on but as parents what did they do ? Their son already has lived 15 years thinking his mother left him & now he finds out his dad has an equal share in it, as a parent they should be ashamed and despaired to even think what they have done to him. Rudra's life has plunged into darkness again and the only light in his life is Paro. He is holding on to her for support to get through this dark time and I hope they take this track slowly and give it it's needed priority. If tomorrow I see Paro doing some of her usual tricks and Rudra falling for it and we see a happy family get together then I am sad to say RR is another show which I am watching, nothing new in it. I want a track to take its own pace, develop the characters so that viewers can connect to them...that is what brings good TRPs.



@bold: THIS...this is sadly what never happened...if you love someone, you share their pain with them for atleast some time before you try to help them move on...and 15 years worth of pain is a lot...but sadly this is just not in Paro's DNA...she moves on in the blink of an eye from pretty much everything...be it her parents's death, be it her fake husband dying in a massacre, be it the revelation that her parents were killed by Tejawat, her life was ruined by him and now by association, she is able to move on from Rudra's issues pretty quickly too even if he isn't able to...it's basically become about Rudra CATCHING UP to her speed of moving on😆...emotional strength is one thing and it's a great quality for Paro, no doubt but what Rudra needed was emotional SOLIDARITY...and she never gave him that...in anything other than just words...where was the real empathy for the boy who lost his childhood to such insensitive and self-centered people?

I would say, don't keep any expectations cuz Paro is very much on the fast track path of reconciling everyone...this storyline is done for.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar



@bold: THIS...this is sadly what never happened...if you love someone, you share their pain with them for atleast some time before you try to help them move on...and 15 years worth of pain is a lot...but sadly this is just not in Paro's DNA...she moves on in the blink of an eye from pretty much everything...be it her parents's death, be it her fake husband dying in a massacre, be it the revelation that her parents were killed by Tejawat, her life was ruined by him and now by association, she is able to move on from Rudra's issues pretty quickly too even if he isn't able to...it's basically become about Rudra CATCHING UP to her speed of moving on😆...emotional strength is one thing and it's a great quality for Paro, no doubt but what Rudra needed was emotional SOLIDARITY...and she never gave him that...in anything other than just words...where was the real empathy for the boy who lost his childhood to such insensitive and self-centered people?

I would say, don't keep any expectations cuz Paro is very much on the fast track path of reconciling everyone...this storyline is done for.


I know, there has never been an instance where we have seen her realisation of the pain in her life and now it is the same with Rudra's as well. I agree she is a positive person, I have supported her ways many times but it is really sad the way her character is being developed. If we feel Rudra's pain it is because it has been developed properly so why not Paro's. Both of them need to have the same strength in their characters, that gives us a good story. No, I am not expecting anything but it is so frustrating to see a good story not handled properly.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Unfortunately there is usually ONE character that has to be sacrificed in that sense. IT WOULD have been nice to see her sympathize (or cry as you say) with Rudra. While it wasn't quite the same situation, she should remember she also lost her parents at an early age too. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that between now and whenever they go on honeymoon they might "fix" this issue. 🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i have made a million posts cribbing about the same! sadly i guess very few of us feel this!
i wished she could hug him when he was slapped reasoning what he must be going through and then reprimanded him or whatever!

today too... its beautiful to see people sharing pain rather than helping with solutions.. sometimes ppl just need you for the shoulder!! 😕 after a while she could have started the joining process... it hurts to see him ask her every time who's side she is in!!

anyways rangrasiya is always on fast track!! leser the expectations better the journey!😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: juhi611

Unfortunately there is usually ONE character that has to be sacrificed in that sense. IT WOULD have been nice to see her sympathize (or cry as you say) with Rudra. While it wasn't quite the same situation, she should remember she also lost her parents at an early age too. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that between now and whenever they go on honeymoon they might "fix" this issue. 🤔


True, atleast a scene where we can connect with Paro baisa and her pain would be good but don't keep any expectations. Like you said the trend has always been that one character is sacrificed.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: coolbakes_Jalad

i have made a million posts cribbing about the same! sadly i guess very few of us feel this!

i wished she could hug him when he was slapped reasoning what he must be going through and then reprimanded him or whatever!

today too... its beautiful to see people sharing pain rather than helping with solutions.. sometimes ppl just need you for the shoulder!! 😕 after a while she could have started the joining process... it hurts to see him ask her every time who's side she is in!!

anyways rangrasiya is always on fast track!! leser the expectations better the journey!😆


Yeah this fast track spoils the beauty of the story which could have been otherwise perfect with such talented actors. Just need to enjoy what we get, so true.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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this is a point better to be brought in CVs' observation rather than cursing, blaming and bashing a character to no end
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MissinguSaRun

this is a point better to be brought in CVs' observation rather than cursing, blaming and bashing a character to no end


its not about bahsing!! its just that we could realet to the characters and in place of rudra ppl expect something diff from paro atleast once in a while... i would say this is constructive criticism😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MissinguSaRun

this is a point better to be brought in CVs' observation rather than cursing, blaming and bashing a character to no end


A character is made by the CV's and I am sure everyone who writes about them are talking only about the character and not the person who is playing the character. We all know an actor doesn't have any control over the script. I wish we had opportunity to tell the CV's but personally I prefer the makers to show their story rather than take any fans views but it is only wishing that when they write it, they keep in mind that it would be good to see all characters given equal development.

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