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Good noon friends.
I am back on chattering on Ishita againđ. Kya karoo this character and the lady portraying it amazes me everyday, every second.
Anyways, back to my main topic. It's about last night's Ishita's thoughts and her sensible acts.
I always had doubt about her character whether it portraying a real life character or not. Cos, some of her actions dint let me be confident. But, I am over my this doubting session. Cos, now I know that she is an epitome of a real lady, a real emotional lady. How? Here comes the main concern of my topic, and I am solely focusing on last night's episode.
1. She has a heart. She feels sorry also. She can't get over some intolerable matters in her life. And, one is her infertility.
Last night, she overheard Raman and witch's conversation. She knows that she doesn't have that much right on Raman. So, she doesn't react that time, doesn't go and stop Raman from his first child experience sharing with his ex.
Rationally, an educated and well brought, sensible woman won't create a create a scene infront of a drama queen. Cos, generally, women have a great place for their husbands. So, she won't try to insult her husband.
That's what Ishita did here.
2. She even cries in her sorrows. It isn't necessary to be melodramatic and cry loudly to show your sorrow.
Ishita left from Raman-Shagun convo and sat alone in the bench. She shed tears silently. Her inner side was just burning with sorrows. But, sometimes, it happens that we can't cry even if we are hurt badly. We become like stones. She also became someone like this after all the sufferings she faced. She became strong. She lets all sorrows go.
Realistically, some women cries out their heart, some women is destroyed inside and don't let others know. Even, I sometimes cry alone, silently if any such things happen. Noone realizes it. This is how Ishita is.
3. She shares her pain with someone most of the time. She doesn't keep things to herself only unlike other heroines out there in the TV right now. She feels at least one person related to her has the right to know about her feelings. That's what she does.
Generally, in real life, what do we do? You have pain, you have been insulted by someone, do you always keep those to you? I don't. I share each and everything with my mom, no matter whatever big thing. I know my mom may be tensed and may be she can't sleep at night thinking about me. But, I feel it's better late than never. I should tell whatever bad things are happening to me. Cos, it's her right. Even, I tell many things with my brother too. I feel relieved. And, seeing me relieved they also become relieved. My pain or sorrows reduce.
Ishita is exactly like me or many women or girls around there in such cases. She is hurt. She doesn't tell at first. That's okay. But, she doesn't need much push to tell her heart out. Last night, she told Raman whatever she felt hearing their convo. She dint hesitate that much. Cos, she felt instead of being sad, it's better to tell her condition.
4. Now, after last night episode, I completely understood, why she doesn't react much to many incidents. One reason is the above one I said in point 3. Another is, she considers that some things can't be rejected or changed. So, it's better to accept those without much drama. She hopes that something else will happen which will zero out her current plight.
Here, what I think is, I am saying from my point of view. Recently, in last year, in one semester, my result turned out very bad due to my illness. I was really very upset that day after hearing the result. But, while sleeping at night, I thought, there's no my fault. It happened due to circumstances and fate. So, why would I be this happy? This isn't gonna change the result. So, it's better to forget this and hope for the best for coming semester. I slept with a relieved mind that night.
Don't you think that Ishita is kinda this same?
5. Ishita is someone who believes in trivial happiness. Very trivial things can make her super happy. She got Ruhi...whenever anything bad happens to her, Ruhi makes her smile. Ishita forgets her pain thinking that she has still got the best.
I too went through kinda like this two or three times. One of my friends misunderstood me. I still can't forget that. I dint cry that day. I was just shocked to see that. She was my bestest friend in college. She still is. I forgot to cry out of my sorrow. I was very hurt. She dint talk with me for two days. On the 3rd day she made me call to her by my another friend. I went to her. She hugged me and fed me her tiffin. I immediately forgot what happened two days ago. For me, that present moment was the one to cherish, nothing else. That cute hug of her made me forget my sorrow. That's how life is.
Ishita is someone who thinks "We have one life. Why my sorrows will overshadow my happiness?''
I brought my situation for comparing her to real life. Cos, I found many things happened with me like her. Not exactly what happened to her. But, you too can relate some situations with her.
So, for me, Ishita is proved as a real life woman, a real life wife and a real life mother. CVs are successful in this. I applaud CVs for this. And, I am again saying that I am super proud of Ishita and Divyanka the phenomenal lady portraying the characterđ.
I am back on chattering on Ishita againđ. Kya karoo this character and the lady portraying it amazes me everyday, every second.
Anyways, back to my main topic. It's about last night's Ishita's thoughts and her sensible acts.
I always had doubt about her character whether it portraying a real life character or not. Cos, some of her actions dint let me be confident. But, I am over my this doubting session. Cos, now I know that she is an epitome of a real lady, a real emotional lady. How? Here comes the main concern of my topic, and I am solely focusing on last night's episode.
1. She has a heart. She feels sorry also. She can't get over some intolerable matters in her life. And, one is her infertility.
Last night, she overheard Raman and witch's conversation. She knows that she doesn't have that much right on Raman. So, she doesn't react that time, doesn't go and stop Raman from his first child experience sharing with his ex.
Rationally, an educated and well brought, sensible woman won't create a create a scene infront of a drama queen. Cos, generally, women have a great place for their husbands. So, she won't try to insult her husband.
That's what Ishita did here.
2. She even cries in her sorrows. It isn't necessary to be melodramatic and cry loudly to show your sorrow.
Ishita left from Raman-Shagun convo and sat alone in the bench. She shed tears silently. Her inner side was just burning with sorrows. But, sometimes, it happens that we can't cry even if we are hurt badly. We become like stones. She also became someone like this after all the sufferings she faced. She became strong. She lets all sorrows go.
Realistically, some women cries out their heart, some women is destroyed inside and don't let others know. Even, I sometimes cry alone, silently if any such things happen. Noone realizes it. This is how Ishita is.
3. She shares her pain with someone most of the time. She doesn't keep things to herself only unlike other heroines out there in the TV right now. She feels at least one person related to her has the right to know about her feelings. That's what she does.
Generally, in real life, what do we do? You have pain, you have been insulted by someone, do you always keep those to you? I don't. I share each and everything with my mom, no matter whatever big thing. I know my mom may be tensed and may be she can't sleep at night thinking about me. But, I feel it's better late than never. I should tell whatever bad things are happening to me. Cos, it's her right. Even, I tell many things with my brother too. I feel relieved. And, seeing me relieved they also become relieved. My pain or sorrows reduce.
Ishita is exactly like me or many women or girls around there in such cases. She is hurt. She doesn't tell at first. That's okay. But, she doesn't need much push to tell her heart out. Last night, she told Raman whatever she felt hearing their convo. She dint hesitate that much. Cos, she felt instead of being sad, it's better to tell her condition.
4. Now, after last night episode, I completely understood, why she doesn't react much to many incidents. One reason is the above one I said in point 3. Another is, she considers that some things can't be rejected or changed. So, it's better to accept those without much drama. She hopes that something else will happen which will zero out her current plight.
Here, what I think is, I am saying from my point of view. Recently, in last year, in one semester, my result turned out very bad due to my illness. I was really very upset that day after hearing the result. But, while sleeping at night, I thought, there's no my fault. It happened due to circumstances and fate. So, why would I be this happy? This isn't gonna change the result. So, it's better to forget this and hope for the best for coming semester. I slept with a relieved mind that night.
Don't you think that Ishita is kinda this same?
5. Ishita is someone who believes in trivial happiness. Very trivial things can make her super happy. She got Ruhi...whenever anything bad happens to her, Ruhi makes her smile. Ishita forgets her pain thinking that she has still got the best.
I too went through kinda like this two or three times. One of my friends misunderstood me. I still can't forget that. I dint cry that day. I was just shocked to see that. She was my bestest friend in college. She still is. I forgot to cry out of my sorrow. I was very hurt. She dint talk with me for two days. On the 3rd day she made me call to her by my another friend. I went to her. She hugged me and fed me her tiffin. I immediately forgot what happened two days ago. For me, that present moment was the one to cherish, nothing else. That cute hug of her made me forget my sorrow. That's how life is.
Ishita is someone who thinks "We have one life. Why my sorrows will overshadow my happiness?''
I brought my situation for comparing her to real life. Cos, I found many things happened with me like her. Not exactly what happened to her. But, you too can relate some situations with her.
So, for me, Ishita is proved as a real life woman, a real life wife and a real life mother. CVs are successful in this. I applaud CVs for this. And, I am again saying that I am super proud of Ishita and Divyanka the phenomenal lady portraying the characterđ.
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