Benefit of What Doubt?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Rudra was right in saying that he was wrong in the judgement call of Paro. But he lived through the treachery of Mala.

And Paro also made some blunders of her own on character judgement of Rudra, Tejawat, Varun, Laila.


So wouldn't Paro want to reflect on what Rudra is saying before forcing the situation of having Mala back in the haveli.


But, exactly what doubt is there in Mala abandoning the family?


If uniting the family was so critical for Paro, why did she let Sumer leave?


A family is not simply united by living together. They come together based on love, respect, prioritizing each others feelings and rights.


Why create ill will against each other by reminding everyone of the cruelty that once transpired?



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Posted: 11 years ago
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we all make decisions irrespective of whether we made mistakes in the past , so why cant paro
whether her decision was right is another issue all together , only consequences can say whether a judgement is right or wrong

my question is why should paro be always right
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ttt1

we all make decisions irrespective of whether we made mistakes in the past , so why cant paro

whether her decision was right is another issue all together , only consequences can say whether a judgement is right or wrong

my question is why should paro be always right



You are right, but is allowed to learn and live. But here, I guess as a viewer we can see the overall emotional impact its leaving.


I also don't understand the sense of urgency in reuniting the fallen. What gives?



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifsaal044


Even at work for instance, you have build experience and garner support of your team members to actually make decisions. Especially those that involve others well being.


Who died and made her king? She just got there. Didn't live the grief that everyone else shared. Least experienced in domestic disputes. Why is she forcing her decisions on everyone else.


Doesn't anyone else have a say in their lives?

but thats what we do in everyday life buddy , whether right or wrong we make judgements , i have rarely seen people scared to take decisions in personal life
not interfering would be a decision as well , but not in paro's character

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ttt1

but thats what we do in everyday life buddy , whether right or wrong we make judgements , i have rarely seen people scared to take decisions in personal life
not interfering would be a decision as well , but not in paro's character


Yah. But I for sure don't go over my seniors decision whether at work or home.


My parents get the respect they deserve as they are revered for it. My husband and I get to make decisions together.


The leaders at work that make the ultimate decisions have earned the right to make those decisions that impact others livelihood.


You have to earn the right to make decisions that impact other peoples well being, their emotions and their livelihood. I just don't think Paro's character is there yet.


Paro just got there. She needs to climb the ladder just like anyone else in the world. This doesn't fit any social norm.
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