The damage has been beyond repair now.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ok, CVs, yes we love Rudra and Paro as a couple, we want them to be together, but yes we aint school going kids, whom you will serve a lollypop and can get scotfree.
Tonight's episode was beyond pathetic, i do not have words, so much hopes, and extremely disappointed at the end result.

Let me rant about Mala first, i have never seen such a weak, half baked, feeble, disoriented and clueless character in TV, was she meant to be like this ? A lady who comes back to her son, after being tortured by her 15 years long husband, she has not audacity to even approach him for an apology but she goes out there and begs her elder sister for forgiveness ? Forgiveness for being the bride of her supposed groom ? Forgiveness for an unintentional mistake she did 28 years back, and in remorse and guilt she ran away again. But the same lady is outright insensitive to the INTENTIONAL pain she caused to her son, which is still raw in his heart, raw in his life, even he expressed his despairness to Mala just how Mohini did, and what did he get in return ? Mala told him that how he has no time to listen to her story , like really ? Why would he listen to her nonsensical bhajaan, which has no root, nothing to give him his answers ? Why would he listen to that dumb story when that does no good to him , and it just raises the conflict ? She has not been good with words also, what with all the natak of waiting for the day he listens to him ? And till the time he is ready, what will this mahaan lady do ? She will hover around in his bedroom and look at the moon and be all smiley and happy with her reentry in his father's life ?
Beyond ridiculous, because she is not even Dilsher's wife now, i dont know what the hell did mohini mean with your husband to Mala, like he is her ex, and that too they did not divorce, someone bring it up please đŸ€ą

Now Paro, why does not for once she surprise me with her ideologies ? Can she keep shut when Rudra is ranting, plss ? Why cannot he scream and let Mala know how he feels about Mala's sob story ? Does he owe anything or any sort of respect for the lady ? NO, but still he had to clarify to them that he did everything for the sake of his wife, and then wow, what a mahaan wife to give him his reward for listening to her threats. I could not even enjoy the kiss, for the reasoning behind it, simply pathetic.
For once I am happy that Rudra told her that its not a joke, she can go and be all happy and merry go round the mulberry bush, but for him its life, and he has been the victim and only witness of the mess HER foster mother created in his life.
Ok, Paro give your room to Mala, i dont care, but why worship her ? Didnt you see that she herself confessed that she left for Mohini's sake, and still you call her run away as balidaan and what not that too for Rudra ? And TBH, all the phoot phoot ke haasna, all those saas bahu talks were beyond boring, like they had to kill the episode and decrease the pace with the most illogical characters of the show.

Someone plss clarify, when Paro came to this Ranawat haveli, the family was already broken right ? The family never lived in a manner where every member loved and respected each other, the distance between the members was always there. Then why is Paro behaving like that suddenly the family broke apart and she has been in a competition of mending the broken relationships ? What was with the stupid claiming of reuniting the family and all living like a hum saath saath hain to Dilsher and Danveer ? When did this family even look like that? The family had members who always maintained their own business and due to their own self profits or desires, so what makes Paro interfere and somewhat forcibly make Mala part of this family, when none of the other members even give a damn about Mala?

Lastly, Dilsher ...đŸ€ą . what was with the smile when Mala returned ? Why was he silent ? Orelse should i think that he opens his mouth at the wrong time, and only to object with what Rudra does, otherwise he is pinning high hopes for his marriage to work again ? He really does not have anything in his heart about the fact that Mala is tejawat's wife ? Nothing about the fact that he dissed his son, because of this lady, not once but multiple times now ?

If this is the way, Rudra will get closure to his past, then i can only pity him. It now comes off more like that the whole closure and reconcilation is being shoved down in his throat " Beta accept Mala, otherwise you will lose paro ", something like this is happening.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am sick of this lady Paro & sick of this show. How can she decide to give the room to Mala ? Disgusting.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have a love & hate relationship with the show.

My logical brain screams at Mala's character and Paro's character.


But

I like Rudra's character. Hence I watch his scenes 😳

I just think it is a drama... don't look for perfection and gulp everything
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harshuu

I am sick of this lady Paro & sick of this show. How can she decide to give the room to Mala ? Disgusting.


giving the room is a small matter in front of whatever she did in the name of love and bringing back the nonexistent unity for the family.đŸ€ą

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't understand how Mala has the gall to return. Why is everyone listening to Paro? Exactly what street cred does she have that suddenly she knows how a family should behave?

I couldn't watch much of the show without cringing. And by the time the kiss came around, it was so displaced that I couldn't even bother with it.


Rudra and Paro's love story should be part of the story not running in parallel of the actual story. It comes off way too disjointed. And the viewers emotions are all in a disarray.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harshuu

I am sick of this lady Paro & sick of this show. How can she decide to give the room to Mala ? Disgusting.



Moreover how can mala accept???đŸ€ąđŸ€ąđŸ˜Ą
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifsaal044

I don't understand how Mala has the gall to return. Why is everyone listening to Paro? Exactly what street cred does she have that suddenly she knows how a family should behave?

I couldn't watch much of the show without cringing. And by the time the kiss came around, it was so displaced that I couldn't even bother with it.


Rudra and Paro's love story should be part of the story not running in parallel of the actual story. It comes off way too disjointed. And the viewers emotions are all in a disarray.


@bold :- Thats what annoys me the most. She was never bothered about the unity of the family unless Mala returned. And how can forcing Mala into everyone's life unite the family ? Paro was least bothered about all these, now suddenly what happened ? And why is she behaving bipolar now, at one moment asking Mala questions and the other moment worshipping her without even getting answers .

The kiss was just to please the fangirls, who crave for romance without any element, thats it. And it was displaced as you said, and especially the root cause of the kiss, she succeeded in emotionally blackmailing him and make him do what she wanted him to do, he did and thus the prize he gets is that kiss.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Also, why is everyone acting like she left Dilsher only and calling her bhabhi and what not?

She left Dilsher to be with her Premi (Tejawat). She is not Dilsher's wife. She was doing Puja in the Mandir and had sindoor in her mang of Tejawat's. She was not Dilsher's wife for the last 15 years.


And if she was so gung ho about taking Rudra with her, did she repent on that alternative of nearly further destroying Rudra under the care of a Terrorist Stepfather. What self respect he has for himself is his loyalty to the country. Does Mala feel any remorse for even considering separating Rudra from his real father for the sake of this illegitimate affair?


And what did she mean, "Shahid galti hui"?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifsaal044

Also, why is everyone acting like she left Dilsher only and calling her bhabhi and what not?

She left Dilsher to be with her Premi (Tejawat). She is not Dilsher's wife. She was doing Puja in the Mandir and had sindoor in her mang of Tejawat's. She was not Dilsher's wife for the last 15 years.

Yes, its beyond ridiculous that how nobody except Rudra, not even Dilsher manages to point out that she is someone elses wife now, and that factor itself is enough to not normalize the 15 years of conflict that simply and easily. It amazes me how easy its for Paro to decide for Mala and Rudra and preach them, she herself needed proves to believe in everything Rudra claimed, and now look who is trying to solve everything.đŸ„±. Its utter selfish of her to put Mala on pedestal, only because she has brought her up, this should have been about right vs wrong, and Mala comes off as so selfish and insensitive to deduce any sort of empathy for her.


And if she was so gung ho about taking Rudra with her, did she repent on that alternative of nearly further destroying Rudra under the care of a Terrorist Stepfather. What self respect he has for himself is his loyalty to the country. Does Mala feel any remorse for even considering separating Rudra from his real father for the sake of this illegitimate affair?

No, she does not. Thats what bothers me, that even after seeing that Mala has zero repentance or remorse, how Paro is all about giving her the luxury and opportunity to be back and enjoy the living here so easily.
She would take away Rudra only to separate him from his father, in anyway Rudra would be deprived of one of his parents, so where is the big balidaan. She says she tried to take him with her, now is that a big enuff reason for Rudra to forget and forgive ? NO, being treated like a grabage, being the victim of bully is not a silly thing, does Paro and Mala even realize ?


And what did she mean, "Shahid galti hui"?

all she means and does is that earning sympathy and shedding tears of self pity, which is good enuff to move Paro who rides on the same boat.đŸ„±

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post!! .. I completely agree, - do not like paro - thinking she can fix anything.. I liked any naive behave in the beginning of the show-- the change is not into a woman but I do not know what..

Guys.. The actor playing thakur, I read someway that he had left the show- do then he surprised us..I really want him in the picture.. tired of paro - curer of problem feber..!! I really want him to kidnap paro!! give her a reality check!!

Mala .. do not ask.. Just wondering did she divorce dilsher - now beginning back to him--- so she has divorced thakur-- Or she can just go from one to another with no problem???

really do not get her character..

Rudra.. hotness!! is the only reason for watching the show - at the moment..


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