Beyond ridiculous!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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No seriously...what the hell was today's epi about? Do Mala and Paro listen to the things that come out of their mouth?


Exhibit A: Self appointed Martyr Mahaan Mala ji...who bears a strangely blank stoic expression as she coolly chills in LAILA'S house😆


Exhibit B: Paro shows up, finally asks her THE question regarding why she left Rudra and her family and Mala HALF-ASSES some random vague answer in response and for a change even Paro is a bit W*F...imagine, when something forces PARO to go W*F, just HOW retarded it must be...I was starting to hope...until just SECONDS later despite the slight disgusted and disappointed look Paro was giving Mala, she coolly asks her to come home again and this time stick it out with her family😕😆

Is THIS how relationship issues are resolved? If this is their idea of showing Paro playing mediator, I'm sorry but it's remarkably juvenile especially for the way Mala comes across...for a supposedly grown woman with a GROWN son, she behaves like she has no mind of our own and no expressions on her face...


As if this wasn't enough, we have the last scene of Mala again coolly trying to tell Rudra she wanted to take him along and randomly starts reminiscing about his childhood days? Like seriously HOW callous and insensitive IS this woman? Are the women in this show all competing for a prize as to who is the MOST obtuse?😕


/End rant.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Urghhh I hate mala
Did she even answer the question that paro asked or maybe I don't understand hindi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Deedeepa1

Urghhh I hate mala
Did she even answer the question that paro asked or maybe I don't understand hindi



Mala basically told Paro something vague about how it takes two people to make a marriage work and fifteen years ago maybe she made some mistakes?😕😕😕 Like seriously W*F! I'm beyond disgusted with this character today! How can a mother be this selfish and JUVENILE in her thought process? After all this time and all the pain she's caused, she STILL doesn't have the guts to atleast give her son the whole truth? What a LOSER.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I thought only i m the one who found it outright ridiculous.
Mala and Paro has hit my last nerve tonight.

Firstly, i will rant about Paro. How irrational is her thinking, she does not even realize that she is being, she once again emotionally blackmails Rudra to search for Mala ? Whats with the nonsense that i wont step into the house unless Mala is back ? That was regressive, putting your husband in dilemma, and leaving no option for him.

Secondly, Mala, she was happily staying with Laila, and once again no remorse or guilt, she seemed normal, and she herself dont take any step to confront Rudra or make him understand.
When Paro asked her questions, i was happy, that finally Paro got the senses back, but then again, what was the nonsense ? Giving her a choice that either enter the house, or else i will make a pout and show u my puppy face ?

Mala, does not even realize what hurts Rudra, and she starts all self pity talks that how she loved him, cared for him, suffered. That was everything about her, how she suffered. there was nothing about Rudra in her tears. Atleast i did not see it, it wais beyond ridiculous, ridiculous enough to cringe Rudra that he screamed at her.
This is definitely not going well, Paro and Mala come off as rather insensitive and thoroughly in their own shell.

Rudra, thank god, he saves it always when i am just about to give up, he atleast has the audacity and sense to do something for Paro's sake, he does not have two options, he does not know emotional blakmailing which ends up at hurting Paro.

lastly, the kiss will be as a thank you for bringing Mala in . Why i am not surprised ?

And i can assume now that Mala ran away because she was not happy with Dilsher, random and silly fights and she was fedup, so she left, found tejawat and married. and this is what makes the lady more hypocrite when she and paro claims that mala yearned for Rudra all these years.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

No seriously...what the hell was today's epi about? Do Mala and Paro listen to the things that come out of their mouth?


Exhibit A: Self appointed Martyr Mahaan Mala ji...who bears a strangely blank stoic expression as she coolly chills in LAILA'S house😆


Exhibit B: Paro shows up, finally asks her THE question regarding why she left Rudra and her family and Mala HALF-ASSES some random vague answer in response and for a change even Paro is a bit W*F...imagine, when something forces PARO to go W*F, just HOW retarded it must be...I was starting to hope...until just SECONDS later despite the slight disgusted and disappointed look Paro was giving Mala, she coolly asks her to come home again and this time stick it out with her family😕😆

Is THIS how relationship issues are resolved? If this is their idea of showing Paro playing mediator, I'm sorry but it's remarkably juvenile especially for the way Mala comes across...for a supposedly grown woman with a GROWN son, she behaves like she has no mind of our own and no expressions on her face...


As if this wasn't enough, we have the last scene of Mala again coolly trying to tell Rudra she wanted to take him along and randomly starts reminiscing about his childhood days? Like seriously HOW callous and insensitive IS this woman? Are the women in this show all competing for a prize as to who is the MOST obtuse?😕


/End rant.


@bold 😆 so true.. I agree...I still want paro kidnapped and thakur back.. ( yes yes, after SR)!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DexterRocks

I thought only i m the one who found it outright ridiculous.

Mala and Paro has hit my last nerve tonight.

Firstly, i will rant about Paro. How irrational is her thinking, she does not even realize that she is being, she once again emotionally blackmails Rudra to search for Mala ? Whats with the nonsense that i wont step into the house unless Mala is back ? That was regressive, putting your husband in dilemma, and leaving no option for him.

Secondly, Mala, she was happily staying with Laila, and once again no remorse or guilt, she seemed normal, and she herself dont take any step to confront Rudra or make him understand.
When Paro asked her questions, i was happy, that finally Paro got the senses back, but then again, what was the nonsense ? Giving her a choice that either enter the house, or else i will make a pout and show u my puppy face ?

Mala, does not even realize what hurts Rudra, and she starts all self pity talks that how she loved him, cared for him, suffered. That was everything about her, how she suffered. there was nothing about Rudra in her tears. Atleast i did not see it, it wais beyond ridiculous, ridiculous enough to cringe Rudra that he screamed at her.
This is definitely not going well, Paro and Mala come off as rather insensitive and thoroughly in their own shell.

Rudra, thank god, he saves it always when i am just about to give up, he atleast has the audacity and sense to do something for Paro's sake, he does not have two options, he does not know emotional blakmailing which ends up at hurting Paro.

lastly, the kiss will be as a thank you for bringing Mala in . Why i am not surprised ?

And i can assume now that Mala ran away because she was not happy with Dilsher, random and silly fights and she was fedup, so she left, found tejawat and married. and this is what makes the lady more hypocrite when she and paro claims that mala yearned for Rudra all these years.



Oh for once, Megha, I'm right with you about wanting to rant over the outright B.S. these characters have become.

Is Mala for real? Like seriously her expressions today irritated me so much...this character doesn't generate ANY sympathy...and that is such BAD writing...why on earth would we root for a mother-son reunion then?😕...She literally was behaving like only she has suffered in this world and is only always justifying HERSELF rather than EVER managing to empathize with what she put her son through...and even now despite all these years having passed, she's still on the MAYBE I made mistakes path?? Get freakin REAL, woman...no surprises indeed that she brought up Paro...the similarities are becoming more and more stark...dunno what frequency these two mahaan minds operate on that is so immune to common sense and any regard for the people they claim to love.

Ofcourse the kissie is for getting Mala back...how qweet🤔...Rudra will give in and all izz well...so much fun the show is to watch these days🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
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she mentioned to paro that she doesn't want to blame anyone for it, she has no grudges against anyone...sooo I'm guessing theres more to it...which she didn't want to bring up and put the "blame" on...😕
this women confuses me too...most irritating part was when she asked rudra if he remembers all those childhood memories...as if rudra was gonna reply to her with a smile on his face...shes really insensitive...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mango-frost

she mentioned to paro that she doesn't want to blame anyone for it, she has no grudges against anyone...sooo I'm guessing theres more to it...which she didn't want to bring up and put the "blame" on...😕

this women confuses me too...most irritating part was when she asked rudra if he remembers all those childhood memories...as if rudra was gonna reply to her with a smile on his face...shes really insensitive...



Exactly...that was about the point where I really wanted to bash my head into a wall for the CRAP I sat through watching today's epi...absolute NONSENSE.

Well I've been waiting and waiting...how long is this "There's more to the story" going to cut it? Why not tell Paro? Isn't Paro like a daughter to Mala? Then why not tell HER atleast? On one hand Mala wants to come home and be randomly accepted by her son and on the other end she doesn't even want to properly reveal why she left? What B.S.! I'm so done with her crap!🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar



Oh for once, Megha, I'm right with you about wanting to rant over the outright B.S. these characters have become.

Is Mala for real? Like seriously her expressions today irritated me so much...this character doesn't generate ANY sympathy...and that is such BAD writing...why on earth would we root for a mother-son reunion then?😕...She literally was behaving like only she has suffered in this world and is only always justifying HERSELF rather than EVER managing to empathize with what she put her son through...and even now despite all these years having passed, she's still on the MAYBE I made mistakes path?? Get freakin REAL, woman...no surprises indeed that she brought up Paro...the similarities are becoming more and more stark...dunno what frequency these two mahaan minds operate on that is so immune to common sense and any regard for the people they claim to love.

Ofcourse the kissie is for getting Mala back...how qweet🤔...Rudra will give in and all izz well...so much fun the show is to watch these days🥱


I like that you used the word COMMON SENSE here, this very thing lacks in all the female characters of RR, Mohini is an exception.
Anu, i had lost my last hope for Mala when she wrote a letter again, full of self pity and ran away. This lady behaves too big for her boots, she desires for sympathy and love while she herself has not done anything great . She could run away, hiding away after one mere rant of Rudra, then how do u expect her to understand his pain , or his turmoil.
Anu the difference is that all these years she stayed happy, its only two days that her world has turned upside down, and she is behaving like she is the only person who has faced all these, so much of hurt and thus her crocodile tears.
I was still sane, till the jeep drama came onscreen and her cringeworthy dialogues of being the one to love, care for Rudra, how she waited for him while he was in the schoold, and blah and blah.. comeone lady, get straight, ask for an apology, or atleast ask him about him and not keep talking about yourself only.
I do not have any doubts that Mala brought up Paro, thus she has ingrained those qualities of emotional blackmailing, tears of self pity and what not ?

Anu i just do not fathom with people, who take the name of love, and force people to comitt to something which their heart does not wish for. Tonight i could see a similar thing, Paro made him go against his wil, and how, my threatening him that i wont step in the house ? So thats what and how her love is ? That how she understands Rudra ?

Lastly, yeah, wow Paro took the initiative to kiss him because he brought her favourite angel Mala back, so mahaan of Paro, he dissed her so much, but still she kissed him, how unfair Rudra never does anything to express Paro about his feelings, why she is the one to sacrifice, ohh Paro babydoll, your innocence is too good, you are just somebody who everybody must related to.. 🥱🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

No seriously...what the hell was today's epi about? Do Mala and Paro listen to the things that come out of their mouth?


Exhibit A: Self appointed Martyr Mahaan Mala ji...who bears a strangely blank stoic expression as she coolly chills in LAILA'S house😆


Exhibit B: Paro shows up, finally asks her THE question regarding why she left Rudra and her family and Mala HALF-ASSES some random vague answer in response and for a change even Paro is a bit W*F...imagine, when something forces PARO to go W*F, just HOW retarded it must be...I was starting to hope...until just SECONDS later despite the slight disgusted and disappointed look Paro was giving Mala, she coolly asks her to come home again and this time stick it out with her family😕😆

Is THIS how relationship issues are resolved? If this is their idea of showing Paro playing mediator, I'm sorry but it's remarkably juvenile especially for the way Mala comes across...for a supposedly grown woman with a GROWN son, she behaves like she has no mind of our own and no expressions on her face...


As if this wasn't enough, we have the last scene of Mala again coolly trying to tell Rudra she wanted to take him along and randomly starts reminiscing about his childhood days? Like seriously HOW callous and insensitive IS this woman? Are the women in this show all competing for a prize as to who is the MOST obtuse?😕


/End rant.


So agree with you regarding how these two characters and their emotional states have been written by the CVs in this track! The character of Mala is a great challenge for an actor...selfish, emotional and conflicted and in the hands of a good actor could be so meaty but the actor portraying her has not been up to the challenge...blank expressions, dull voice with just a boatload of glycerine tears...what a wasted opportunity.

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