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DiyaS

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Posted: 11 years ago

The title refers to Paro ... trying desperately to hold on to relationships, to heal old wounds, mend old cracks, bridge old rifts ... and bring the broken pieces of a fragmented family together. She just needs some support, some reassurance that she's doing the right thing ... Mala's apparent acceptance of defeat and guilt doesn't give it to her, neither does Dilsher's silence ... neither does Rudra's anger ... but finally he acknowledges that even in his anger, her presence, her love, is the only thing keeping him going, keeping him alive and breathing, holding him together, and stopping him from breaking into pieces. And that's enough for Paro ... till the next storm!

Loved the song and the picturization both ...
Main tennu samjhavan ki
Na tere bin lagda ji ...

Mohini's sob story continued ... I didn't understand how much of it was true and how much was crocodile tears ... does she really intend to leave the haveli? Or was that her modus operandi to guilt Mala into leaving? If it was, it seems to have worked.
Mohini said that Mala ran away with her lover ... Mala didn't protest. So is that true?
And her biggest grouse is that the business should be hers, but it bears Mala's name ... the haveli should be her husband's but it bears Dilsher's name ... her hard work, her blood, sweat and tears ... but the rights all belong to others.
ROFL moment ... Mohini says ... I always speak the truth! 😆

Glad Aman reminded Rudra that he needed to question Laila about Tejawat ... although it didn't have much effect ... Rudra only ticked her off for trying to get close to him, but forgot to check whether she knew Teju's hideout. Not that it mattered, Teju is way ahead of him there ... he's gone! The good thing is, that it pushed Rudra into going home.
It also might push Laila into becoming truly a woman scorned and throwing her lot in with Teju... which will make her much more dangerous.

Mala, I'm trying to feel sorry for you, even trying to justify you, but for heavens sake ... stop crying silently ... and say something! And running away again is NOT the answer!

Precap - Rudra banna, you said you didn't want Mala in the haveli ... so shouldn't you be happy she ran away? Why are you angry, banna? Socho, socho ...

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Deepthi

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Posted: 11 years ago

All I can say about the big bad past is- Ananya Khare is one hell of an actress. She managed to make me feel bad for Mohini, sympathise with her plight for one full minute, before I woke up from the trance and was like- what the hell!!! She sure is one chalak lomdi. With Mala out of the house there is no more reason for to go off. All izzz well. She needs to check the dictionary for the meaning of the word truth though.

Oh Paro, my cute little Paro. Why can't you understand that the weight of the earth is not on your shoulders and sometimes some things just need to take their own way to resolve. Can't you concentratea little bit on that love starved hubby of yours.

Mala's silence and acceptance only makes her look giulty and her reliance on Paro is seeming more and more parasitic by the day.. She just loves to run, what else to say. Mala aunty, it takes some courage to face problems instead of running from them.

Poor Sumer,he just escaped malaria and dengue and its back to square one. Why is Mala taking only him? With all the confusion on 28 years , I'm quite confused about Samrat's parentage!

Rudra has a sweet little guest appearance. Bas.

Overall a balanced episode compared to yesterday.

Precap- Someone's true feelings are showing...😆😆

Edited by Msfrootie - 11 years ago

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Hope

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Diya, Nice post... I felt bad for Mohini... She did take care of the whole house when Mala ran away from her responsibilities (Reason till unknown, Of course), when Dilsher ran away to sulk, When Danveer broke down for his brother... She handled the haveli, the business, the broken house and her kids... Mostly on her own.. She felt it was her house and her business because she worked hard for it... But 15 years later Dilsher turns up claiming his right on the haveli and the business... Now Mala comes in and everyone is welcoming her as if nothing happened ... And this scared and hurt Mohini... Can you blame her???? She did so much and no one appreciated her... And now Mala comes and everyone is running around her... And Mohini does speak up her mind... She makes it very clear when she hates you... Her sweet talks, her pretense of love... You will immediately know she is faking it..😆

Mala on the other hand... I don't know. She still confuses me. Why the hell is she not speaking up??? Ok, not when Mohini talked about the marriage to Dilsher... I get it she was shocked... But at least when she taunted her of running away for her lover??? Her silence is killing me... And it sure is not helping her... These two sisters are so contrast to each other... One fights for her rights while the other feels self pity... One speaks her mind (Be it good or bad), the other hardly opens her mouth even when it is really needed. One can do anything for her self respect while the other doesn't even bother to fight for her respect... Whom do you prefer?? A fighter or a Runner??

I wanted Mala to stay and fight... But alas she ran away again.. In a way I can understand her decision. CV's showed her inner conflict..Does it really matter that she speaks up now?? Now when Rudra is finally happy?? Is it right for her to stay in this house and be the reason for Mohini leaving the haveli?? Does she even have a right to stay in the haveli?? CV's very nicely done.👏

PaRud Scene was awesome... I loved it. Paro innocently telling him, "If he is there next to her. She can take any problem head on.." Well said baisa... Rudra is definitely falling falt for your words... And today I saw a Paro who looked lost... Who didn't know what she could do?? Today we know what Pro thinks.. The reason for her actions.. It is all about LOVE... She thought love is enough to mend any pains and for people to stay together... but looks like it is not and she is confused... But Rudra few (surprising) words made her smile... Gain her strength... That subtle touch is to show us how those two are trying to gain strength from the other to face their problems...

Rudra wants her mother.. Whether he says it out loud or not and that is written all over the precap😃

Ananya Kher...👏👏

Edited by Hope - 11 years ago

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BillyJean.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Lovely take Diya!!!
Hats off to you for coming up with a wonderful analysis as often as you are able to.
Episode was good, well balanced.
RR has always wrapped up tracks real fast, then why are they dragging this so much?
Especially Rudra's ping-pong of emotions is irritating and boring yaar.
Why is he yelling now that Mala has left, isnt that what he wanted?
Someone needs to shake him real hard.
Now it is just coming across as mere tantrum throwing, cuz they are stretching the track too much.
Like Sanaya and /Ashish said in that segment, no one knows what he wants.😆
Actually no one knows how to resolve this impasse.
Every one is quiet and its driving me nuts.😆
Atleast we know what happened 28 years back, now we need to know what happened 15 years back.😆
And now we have to wait the whole weekend for that mooch/cheek scene

Edited by SanayaIsBest - 11 years ago

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bkamber

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Diya, I will be back after I watch the episode.

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DiyaS

@DiyaS

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: SanayaIsBest
Lovely take Diya!!!
Hats off to you for coming up with a wonderful analysis as often as you are able to.
Episode was good, well balanced.
RR has always wrapped up tracks real fast, then why are they dragging this so much?
Especially Rudra's ping-pong of emotions is irritating and boring yaar.
Why is he yelling now that Mala has left, isnt that what he wanted?
Someone needs to shake him real hard.
Now it is just coming across as mere tantrum throwing, cuz they are stretching the track too much.
Like Sanaya and /Ashish said in that segment, no one knows what he wants.😆
Actually no one knows how to resolve this impasse.
Every one is quiet and its driving me nuts.😆
Atleast we know what happened 28 years back, now we need to know what happened 15 years back.😆
And now we have to wait the whole weekend for that mooch/cheek scene

He is yelling because NO, he did NOT want Mala to leave 😆 Like a child who throws tantrums in front of his mother, I hate you, go away ... and the moment she disappears from sight, he cries, why did you leave me?

Only a mother can understand this and still love her child ... that is why Mala is silent, because she understands the torment behind that hatred ... and so does Paro. So does Dilsher ... ok, lots of people understand Rudra's pain. 😛 He obviously has lots of mothers 😆

Mala decides to leave because of Mohini ... not because of Rudra ... she could have withstood Rudra's anger for as long as needed ... but she can't withstand Mohini's emotional blackmail. So I think Mohini played similar tricks 15 years ago too.

But it's good that Mala will leave ... it will shake Rudra into facing his true feelings ... esp if she then falls into Teju's hands.

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Jasmin

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Posted: 11 years ago

Haven't watched the epi yet, but looks like ther delving into the oldies past, I really hope this does not affect the trp's *yikes*

Great take diya !

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DiyaS

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Msfrootie

All I can say about the big bad past is- Ananya Khare is one hell of an actress. She managed to make me feel bad for Mohini, sympathise with her plight for one full minute, before I woke up from the trance and was like- what the hell!!! She sure is one chalak lomdi. With Mala out of the house there is no more reason for to go off. All izzz well. She needs to check the dictionary for the meaning of the word truth though.

Oh Paro, my cute little Paro. Why can't you understand that the weight of the earth is not on your shoulders and sometimes some things just need to take their own way to resolve. Can't you concentratea little bit on that love starved hubby of yours.

Mala's silence and acceptance only makes her look giulty and her reliance on Paro is seeming more and more parasitic by the day.. She just loves to run, what else to say. Mala aunty, it takes some courage to face problems instead of running from them.

Poor Sumer,he just escaped malaria and dengue and its back to square one. Why is Mala taking only him? With all the confusion on 28 years , I'm quite confused about Samrat's parentage!

Rudra has a sweet little guest appearance. Bas.

Overall a balanced episode compared to yesterday.

Precap- Someone's true feelings are showing...😆😆

Ananya Khare is one hell of an actress ... and so is Mohini 😆 I was really confused ... I actually felt sorry for Mohini at many points. She has valid justification for her hate ... especially for the haveli and the business, she has poured her blood, sweat and tears into it ... for once, a villain has solid reason for her actions. Not excusing the murder attempts, of course 😆

Mohini ka definition of truth ... kahan se layi aisi bokwaas dictionary 😆

Poor Paro ... the weight of the world is on her shoulders ... Dilsher depends on her to clean up the mess he has created in Rudra ... Mala remains clueless and blank ... Rudra is one bipolar hubby ... thanks to Laila, Rudra realised what his fate could have been if Paro wasn't in his life, so he went back home ... Laila ne ek achha kaam kiya! 😆 And his yelling quota was done for the day, so Paro got some respite 😛

The forum is discussing Rudra's parentage ... I'm more worried about Samrat's and Sunehri's 😆

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DiyaS

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Hope
Hi Diya, Nice post... I felt bad for Mohini... She did take care of the whole house when Mala ran away from her responsibilities (Reason till unknown, Of course), when Dilsher ran away to sulk, When Danveer broke down for his brother... She handled the haveli, the business, the broken house and her kids... Mostly on her own.. She felt it was her house and her business because she worked hard for it... But 15 years later Dilsher turns up claiming his right on the haveli and the business... Now Mala comes in and everyone is welcoming her as if nothing happened ... And this scared and hurt Mohini... Can you blame her???? She did so much and no one appreciated her... And now Mala comes and everyone is running around her... And Mohini does speak up her mind... She makes it very clear when she hates you... Her sweet talks, her pretense of love... You will immediately know she is faking it..😆

Mala on the other hand... I don't know. She still confuses me. Why the hell is she not speaking up??? Ok, not when Mohini talked about the marriage to Dilsher... I get it she was shocked... But at least when she taunted her of running away for her lover??? Her silence is killing me... And it sure is not helping her... These two sisters are so contrast to each other... One fights for her rights while the other feels self pity... One speaks her mind (Be it good or bad), the other hardly opens her mouth even when it is really needed. One can do anything for her self respect while the other doesn't even bother to fight for her respect... Whom do you prefer?? A fighter or a Runner??

I wanted Mala to stay and fight... But alas she ran away again.. In a way I can understand her decision. CV's showed her inner conflict..Does it really matter that she speaks up now?? Now when Rudra is finally happy?? Is it right for her to stay in this house and be the reason for Mohini leaving the haveli?? Does she even have a right to stay in the haveli?? CV's very nicely done.👏

PaRud Scene was awesome... I loved it. Paro innocently telling him, "If he is there next to her. She can take any problem head on.." Well said baisa... Rudra is definitely falling falt for your words... And today I saw a Paro who looked lost... Who didn't know what she could do?? Today we know what Pro thinks.. The reason for her actions.. It is all about LOVE... She thought love is enough to mend any pains and for people to stay together... but looks like it is not and she is confused... But Rudra few (surprising) words made her smile... Gain her strength... That subtle touch is to show us how those two are trying to gain strength from the other to face their problems...

Rudra wants her mother.. Whether he says it out loud or not and that is written all over the precap😃

Ananya Kher...👏👏

Hi Hope ... awesome take! I felt bad for Mohini too ... she is justified in her hatred ... unlike many villains who hate for the sake of it ... she has some solid reasons. Sibling envy, rivalry, inferiority complex ... her hard work and someone else walks away with the ownership ...

Ananya Khare was awesome today ... I preferred her today with that mix of emotions, over yesterday when she was all hatred and malevolence.

Mala ... I can understand her running away ... Mohini's clever play of emotions and emotional manipulation has ensured that Mala is weighed under a burden of guilt ... Rudra's angry outbursts, Dilsher's awkwardness ... the fact that her presence is driving a wedge between Dilsher and Rudra ... when they have learned to live with each other and without her ... her presence is creating tension between Rudra and Paro, when they are obviously deeply in love ... and she feels, why burden them with her story, justify herself, when they are happier to hate her ... again, I can understand Mala keeping quiet ... even while I felt like shaking her to speak up!

Rudra Paro ... love the way you put it ... they draw strength from each other ... Paro stays strong when Rudra is weak, angry, helpless ... she understands when he lashes out at her, because she is the only one he CAN lash out at ... and when she shows her doubts, her fears, he is there for her (thankfully ... I would have been annoyed at him if he hadn't been sweet tonight 😆)

Rudra wants his mother ... but wild horses won't get him to admit that yet. So it will be left to Paro to 'persuade' him to do exactly what he wants to do ... go after her 😛

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showviewer

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Nice take Diya.

Mohini did for a few moments gain my sympathy but then again it dwaned that Mohini presented her version of events, omited a few things and played us all. Yes, she took over the business, built it up, safeguarded the haveli etc. but is it not what she wanted all along? To have the reins of business and haveli? To get the better of her sister? She got it by hook or crook and the destruction of her sister's life and family was the price she was ready to pay. Of course it does not take away from the mistakes that Mala and Dilsher made, but Mohini once again played with words to have her way. Ananya Khare deserves applause. 👏

With both the parents having a penchant for running geographically and psychologically from their emotions and problems, is it a surprise that Rudra does the same. Now here comes Paro desperately trying to get the three of them to confront each other and their issues, phew! Hope that fragile girl has adequate mental strength. Loved the Parud scene despite the constant storm around them they are each other's anchor.

Precap: banasa is still reacting, waiting for him to start reflecting.

Edited by showviewer - 11 years ago

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