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I am finding it hard to understand why Paro is in a rush to mend relationships that have been broken for 15 years. Why are the Cv's going at the speed of light. I understand the kinship Paro feels towards this foster mother, something she has rarely shown for her masi/mami who actually took her in after her parents died. And if Mala did play the role of a foster mother lovingly, how does it compensate for what she did with Rudra. Infact, even if loved my foster mother more than anything else, I would demand to know the reasons she left my husband so damaged and broken as a child. My first concern besides her being safe would be to ensure my husband has me constantly with him, so as to not leave him vulnerable to being in a drunked rage or a melancholic state.
I am sure, they will justify her departure by showing Mohini as the villain, or Dilsher as the driving force to their broken marriage or whatever. But, as a mother, Mala cannot be excused for Rudra's abandonment. Ok, Dilsher did not let her take Rudra with her. But, there is so much more a mother can do if she really wants to be with her son. Even when she married Tejawat, she could have come back to explain situations to Rudra. Technically, if she is the mother, no one can stop her from meeting her son, unless legally a restraint order has been placed. It would have made a world of a difference, if she had reached out to Rudra when he was young, to explain to him in whatever mild way the reasons she had to stay apart, but being a part of his life silently while he grew up. He would not have been so damaged and Dilsher would not have driven him to this hatred he has now. So if she could keep in touch with Danveer, why not extend that courtesy to Rudra? Mothers are known to be like lionesses, who can fight anything to keep her cubs safe. Mala was a coward. She could not fight her husband for her son, let alone the world. She married Tejawat, lived a lavish life in a haveli, once in a while pined for her son, and gave her love to Paro and overall lived a rather comfortable life I should say. Meanwhile, Dilsher and Rudra (even if self-inflicted) lived a rather contrary life to hers. And not giving a damn about the husband is understood if their marriage had fallen apart so bad, but not trying to reach out to your son is not palatable to me at all. And yes, there are some mothers, who walk out of a marriage, and don't keep a relationship with their children who are with the father, but they also don't waltz back into their lives, suddenly wanting their love and understanding 15 years later. That is utter rubbish.
Paro, some of her actions are beyond me. At this point, I understand her feeling conflicted between mother and husband. But, she has to understand that Rudra's wounds are greater than Mala's right now. Mala has lived a comfy plush life until recently when she figured Tejawat's identity. But Rudra has lived in pain for 15 long years and she has first hand seen the damage in him. Her priority right now should be to alleviate Rudra's pain, not pacify Mala that everything will be alright. Ok, she got her home on Dilsher's request, but now please Paro spend your time trying to be there for Rudra, instead of leaving him angry to fend for himself in his own misery and instead running to Mala to tell her she is a great mother. Mala is broken too, but give her some time to introspect and regret her decisions. And instead, spend time with Rudra and give him your attention and listen to him rant. He needs you right now. And once Dilsher said, this is between husband and wife, why don't you leave Mala to let her sort it out with Dilsher? You go to your husband na. Right now, Rudra needs support. With her support and him knowing Paro is with him, it will make him calm down. I feel bad for Rudra. His father said it's between husband and wife, when the most who has suffered thanks to husband and wife drama is him, their son. His wife hugs him, tells him she is with him, but doesn't stop singing praises of the love his own mother showered on her. And then, goes on to pacify his mother, rather than being with him.
This is not to take sides of characters, but I am failing to understand Paro's insensitivity towards Rudra. When, she is the only one who has seen and heard first hand the damage the man has undergone. She should wait till Rudra has accepted that his mother is back. Be with him, till Rudra calms down enough to hear Mala's part of the story. Give him the time to sink in this new development. But, wanting everyone to be one side is very naive at this point. 15 years is a long time to wash away with the return of the mummy. And how much ever you love your masa, you have to realize you got her love, because Rudra was deprived of his. So please stop commenting on that every time you get a chance in front of him. Tell Dilsher, ok. But telling Rudra is just stupid in my opinion and very very unthoughtful of her. He doesn't want to hear her predicament, when his wound is a lot lot deeper than her conflict.
I am sure, they will justify her departure by showing Mohini as the villain, or Dilsher as the driving force to their broken marriage or whatever. But, as a mother, Mala cannot be excused for Rudra's abandonment. Ok, Dilsher did not let her take Rudra with her. But, there is so much more a mother can do if she really wants to be with her son. Even when she married Tejawat, she could have come back to explain situations to Rudra. Technically, if she is the mother, no one can stop her from meeting her son, unless legally a restraint order has been placed. It would have made a world of a difference, if she had reached out to Rudra when he was young, to explain to him in whatever mild way the reasons she had to stay apart, but being a part of his life silently while he grew up. He would not have been so damaged and Dilsher would not have driven him to this hatred he has now. So if she could keep in touch with Danveer, why not extend that courtesy to Rudra? Mothers are known to be like lionesses, who can fight anything to keep her cubs safe. Mala was a coward. She could not fight her husband for her son, let alone the world. She married Tejawat, lived a lavish life in a haveli, once in a while pined for her son, and gave her love to Paro and overall lived a rather comfortable life I should say. Meanwhile, Dilsher and Rudra (even if self-inflicted) lived a rather contrary life to hers. And not giving a damn about the husband is understood if their marriage had fallen apart so bad, but not trying to reach out to your son is not palatable to me at all. And yes, there are some mothers, who walk out of a marriage, and don't keep a relationship with their children who are with the father, but they also don't waltz back into their lives, suddenly wanting their love and understanding 15 years later. That is utter rubbish.
Paro, some of her actions are beyond me. At this point, I understand her feeling conflicted between mother and husband. But, she has to understand that Rudra's wounds are greater than Mala's right now. Mala has lived a comfy plush life until recently when she figured Tejawat's identity. But Rudra has lived in pain for 15 long years and she has first hand seen the damage in him. Her priority right now should be to alleviate Rudra's pain, not pacify Mala that everything will be alright. Ok, she got her home on Dilsher's request, but now please Paro spend your time trying to be there for Rudra, instead of leaving him angry to fend for himself in his own misery and instead running to Mala to tell her she is a great mother. Mala is broken too, but give her some time to introspect and regret her decisions. And instead, spend time with Rudra and give him your attention and listen to him rant. He needs you right now. And once Dilsher said, this is between husband and wife, why don't you leave Mala to let her sort it out with Dilsher? You go to your husband na. Right now, Rudra needs support. With her support and him knowing Paro is with him, it will make him calm down. I feel bad for Rudra. His father said it's between husband and wife, when the most who has suffered thanks to husband and wife drama is him, their son. His wife hugs him, tells him she is with him, but doesn't stop singing praises of the love his own mother showered on her. And then, goes on to pacify his mother, rather than being with him.
This is not to take sides of characters, but I am failing to understand Paro's insensitivity towards Rudra. When, she is the only one who has seen and heard first hand the damage the man has undergone. She should wait till Rudra has accepted that his mother is back. Be with him, till Rudra calms down enough to hear Mala's part of the story. Give him the time to sink in this new development. But, wanting everyone to be one side is very naive at this point. 15 years is a long time to wash away with the return of the mummy. And how much ever you love your masa, you have to realize you got her love, because Rudra was deprived of his. So please stop commenting on that every time you get a chance in front of him. Tell Dilsher, ok. But telling Rudra is just stupid in my opinion and very very unthoughtful of her. He doesn't want to hear her predicament, when his wound is a lot lot deeper than her conflict.
Also, a plea to the CV's to not rush so much with Rudra and Paro. They had just come to a new point in their relationship and you brought Mala in to take it all back to square one. And if Mala had to be brought in, please show some growth in Paro and Rudra's relationship, instead of making it all about Mala, and not focusing on them as a couple at all. I am very curious to find out Mohini's role in this whole chakkar, as well as mystery of Mala-Dilsher relationship. I like how it is all yet to unfold, but I am very scared that if Paro continues her mummy mummy rant, Paro-Rudra will become Dilsher-Mala in the making. So please, spare us and get Paro to stop being naive about this.
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