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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: radhikalaya

Mala is so... for lack of a better word.. thanda. It is so difficult to empathize with her, and I honestly want to and not go all Right-wing on her and say, how dare you be less of a woman in abandoning a child. Maybe it is the acting, maybe it is the writing.. I don't know.

I feel for Paro. Really do. She seems to be fighting for someone who does not seem to care about her. Paro was more of some kind of project for Mala it seems like. Rudra, get a transfer, take biwi and go away to another city, please 😆


I agree ... I am surprised, because I thought Sadia was a better actress. Can't drum up much sympathy for her at all. She seems so lost ... doesn't seem to have much real affection for anyone, or even real regret for what she did, and how things turned out.

And her reactions towards Paro are even worse ... she hasn't expressed anything for her, except happiness that she is her son's wife. But Paro's own troubles, how she survived the bridal massacre, what happened to her in the BSD ... Mala has expressed no sympathy, or even curiosity about all that. Again the cvs are slipping up here ... they never pay attention to the female characters at all. This part is shoddy writing!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Yeah. I think dilsher asked paro to bring mala in the haveli and really hope that rudra come to know about it soon. I don't want him to be angry on paro.


LOL ... Rudra will always be angry with Paro ... it is his janam siddh adhikaar. Especially now that she has promised never to leave him ... he will take her for granted all the time ... she's his favorite punching bag. 😕

I miss that protective Rudra, who never let anyone harm a hair on Paro's head, or even come near her ... 😕 this guy is becoming a typical MCP.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JJKKL



OhHo MSIN. You took what I said seriously. I was just trying to crack a joke. Because all the discussion about Paro lonely, Rudra lonely etc is quite depressing. I understand that this phase maybe the lowest point in their lives. But I hope this phase gets over soon. Too much of negativity around. And we do not get to see the few good souls that much - like Aman.

Anyway nothing much to do other than wait.

The way it is portrayed - everybody is selfish except Paro. Does anyone really love Paro ? Or just depend on her for emotional support ? Other than Maithili maybe ?


I just said the same thing a couple of posts ago ... does anyone really love Paro? Mala, Rudra, Dilsher ... they all seem very self centred in their love ... Rudra wants her to blindly follow him, and understand his feelings, and if she doesn't, he sulks ... he makes no attempt to listen to her POV, and just brushes it aside as of no importance.

Mala is more concerned about Rudra, belatedly so ... and so is Dilsher ... does anyone put Paro first?

I want some sweet Paro Maithili scenes ... or Col Singh blasting Rudra for making Paro cry ... anything to show that someone cares for Paro, and she isn't just their emotional crutch.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JJKKL



OhHo MSIN. You took what I said seriously. I was just trying to crack a joke. Because all the discussion about Paro lonely, Rudra lonely etc is quite depressing. I understand that this phase maybe the lowest point in their lives. But I hope this phase gets over soon. Too much of negativity around. And we do not get to see the few good souls that much - like Aman.

Anyway nothing much to do other than wait.

The way it is portrayed - everybody is selfish except Paro. Does anyone really love Paro ? Or just depend on her for emotional support ? Other than Maithili maybe ?

Omg now I am going to call u joke JJkl ...I always fall. In your trap..😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Diya ,
First time writing on your post ... Relationships complex ... I love RR no matter how shallow the tracks are am enjoying watching the leads and the quality of acting is phenomenal . Here is a collage I made for T posted in Sush's thread reposting for you ...




"Unfortunately, some family members are so psychotic that no matter how hard you try to forge a healthy relationship, nothing will help. Now that you're an adult, take refuge in the fact that some things are beyond your control. You owe it to yourself to steer clear of people who are harmful to your health."
Andrea Lavinthal


Edited by ultimaterudra - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiyaS


Hope, thanks for posting! 😃 I loved the Paro Dilsher scene ... both actors were awesome, and we saw Paro's POV finally ... the cvs have finally woken up, though still too little IMO but something is better than nothing. I found Mala very thanda though ... Paro is all giving, but Mala's love still seems very selfish. I felt bad for Paro ... everyone expects her to be there for them ... be it Rudra, Dilsher or Mala ... no one really bothers about Paro's feelings.

Yep, I also feel Dilsher asked Paro to bring Mala home ... after Danveer's revelation, and Paro telling him how much Rudra burst out at Mala, and how hurt he still is. Dilsher has realised that Rudra can't handle any more, he has to know the truth.



Love your posts, so had to comment..😃 I said something similar to what you wrote above in Sush's post...We both have very similar thoughts regarding Paro😊... I am happy that CV's gave us some insight into Paro's thoughts but I wanted/expected more... From what I see, this whole situation is as hard and hurting for Paro as to Rudra, Mala and Dilsher... Why? because she truly cares and loves all of them. And because she is dragged into the center of all this mess... Even when she talked to Dilsher about Mala, she was not very open and comfortable, because she was worried of hurting him...

I feel bad for her. She hardly gets to express herself. Paro is just so giving. And her feelings always take a back seat😒... Don't know why CV's do this... They concentrate more on one character and forget the other.. Why can't we get to see the story of both the leads???🤔

Dilsher expects her to take care of Rudra, Rudra expects her to agree with him and Mala, like you said.. No clue... I feel, right now that lady has lost all her sense. She sees nothing expect Rudra and his hate for her (Can't balme her completely there. Knowing and seeing Rudra's hurt with your eyes are two different things). I loved the question you asked, "Would Paro ever get the unconditional love that she deserves??" I am not sure what to answer to that. Rudra will reach there some day but as of now it is a long way to go 😳.


I really wish and hope, CV's concentrate a little on Paro and her past, just like they concentrated on Rudra. Also why can't we get a well etched character of Paro, just like we got for Rudra... That will be a real treat to watch... Who am I kidding ???? Will stop here😉


Edited by Hope - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#57
Nice take.. Feel bad for Paro! I think she bought it cause dilsher told her to.. we'll get to know today i guess..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#58
You described each relationship well
Paro DIlsher is the bond which has been constant since the start and like their interactions
Overall a nice episode. Build up for today's dhamka
I really feel sorry for Paro, she is stuck in a mess called Ranwat family where she has to please everyone and each of them need pampering except Maithli
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Diya, missed your posts. Nice take on changing relationships, you said it all. Your post makes my repeat watch more pleasant. thanks.
Loving the bond of understanding that's developing between Paro/Dilsher. Loved how she trusted Bapusa with her conflict and his assurance. Nice acting by both actors.
I'm loving RR these days, story wise and acting wise, except for some technical errors last week. Loving the sensible Paro for doing a balancing act between Rudra and Mala. Sanaya is doing great job.
Coming to Rudra, i was not comfortable with his priortisation of his hatred towards his mom over his duty as a BSD officer. She is a witness for Thakur's misdoings and he seems to be oblivious instead.
Looks like Dilsher is the one behind Paro bringing Mala to the haveli and we'll see some aangan romance tonight.
Malini

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