Sentimental attachments

This topic is cross overs on two points (1, 2 see below)

1. Sentimental attachments with things in like which at some thing were value by you.

2. Some rules or norms followed in family that were beneficial at one point of time, but now are outdated and unfair.

Debate - Sentimental attachements to things / occasions / cultural values are for keeps or has to be replaced by new more beneficial substitutes??

eg : First car/radio in life is for keep? Cultural / Societal norm of men working and woman managing the household is for keep?

Reason I mixed both as emotional aspect in both have fine line. Hope to hear some sensible thoughts

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Originally posted by: sweta01

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Originally posted by: raj5000

Debate - Sentimental attachements to things / occasions / cultural values are for keeps or has to be replaced by new more beneficial substitutes??

Family customs are generally followed through generations. Though sometimes there are times when some customs are really unnecessary and hinder normal living, in such cases values needs to be changed. For eg. A lady of the house taking pallu to cover her face in front of elders. Do the work and take care of that pallu also.. it is really difficult managing both and I certainly feel it is unnecessary. Thats my personal opinion.

In case of personal things, always the first is special and if given by someone special then more so. 😳 I am not chaning my sim card [even though I can opt for a cheaper rate one 😛] just cos I have all those lovely messages on it and changing the sim, I will lose those messages, which are very special to me.. 😳

On special occassions, we expect our family and friends to wish us and if they dont we feel hurt, so we should always remember those special occassions and wish them... 😊

Originally posted by: raj5000

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