Domination in a family.

Domination = Driving, influencing, decision maker, giving direction IMO here.

Okay, do you feel in family or friends, one of spouse dominates the whole living process. Think about it, sometimes men are dominating in household and sometimes women of house.

Question: Do you think dominating atitude by either spouse works in benefit of the household?

1. What role of spouses can help in favor of benefiting the household?

Please avoid Men Vs Women here, also 🤢 things. No quote on this please.

Most households have at least one spouse dominating in some way. A perfect household would be where there is a balance but in real world perfect households are rare. A lady who cooks well dominates the kitchen; a man who brings in the dough dominates finances. This dominion is subtle and often doesn't bother the partner.

Originally posted by: raj5000

Domination = Driving, influencing, decision maker, giving direction IMO here.

Okay, do you feel in family or friends, one of spouse dominates the whole living process. Think about it, sometimes men are dominating in household and sometimes women of house.

Question: Do you think dominating atitude by either spouse works in benefit of the household?

depends. I am all for mutual respect and equal participation in all decision making. That is what you see a lot now a days at least.

Sometimes, one partner is so timid and gullible that the other is forced to take a dominating role just for the sake of the family. Other than that, both participating equally in decisionmaking is what I personally like.

1. What role of spouses can help in favor of benefiting the household?

whatever role that they need to take to make sure everyone is benefitting and is on track. Be it being a disciplinarian for the kids or a loving, trusting better half for each other. My hubby is good in Math so he helps kids with math and physics where as I take over all other subjects whenever they need help. I am the accountant in the family with a CPA but it's my hubby who does our tax returns as I absolutely detest doing taxes🤢. Thinking about it now I realize that he does do a lot around house.......more than me I think😕 but I started working when we really needed the money despite being a homemaker before that. During hard times, so far, I have been the one who held the whole family together....and boy, did we have some hardest times anyone would face here....so I guess it depends who helps/dominates best where ever his/her skill sets are needed should be the mantra😊

Please avoid Men Vs Women here, also 🤢 things. No quote on this please.

Raj, observe her mom.....chances are she'll be like her😉😆

Originally posted by: Maya_M

Most households have at least one spouse dominating in some way. A perfect household would be where there is a balance but in real world perfect households are rare. A lady who cooks well dominates the kitchen; a man who brings in the dough dominates finances. This dominion is subtle and often doesn't bother the partner.

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

😕 I am thinking why the he** I use so many words when I could have done with just one sentence like my jaan DB doll ..... 😆

Awwwwwwww Thanks GD 😆 😆 😆 I could not think like you guys so I had to find a short cut like my cooking 😉 😆

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

within couple each has strength and weaknesses. Couple with common goal will use them to their advantage & make the best decision which will benefit their family.

^ true...and i agree with this........

If anyone feel Dominating her/him in diff matters in family life, it will not works properly.....

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

😕 I am thinking why the he** I use so many words when I could have done with just one sentence like my jaan DB doll ..... 😆