Paro. .. Thought process inconsistent..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have never criticized paro...
But yesterday when she found out mala was Rudra's mom.. Her reaction should have been shock rather than pleasant surprise... She's a rural conservative girl.. To know a mother figure or an aunt had a previous alter life of leaving her hubby and young son should have shocked her rather than bringing a smile that her favorite aunt in now her mom in law..


Then she justified by saying she left because she fell in love with. Thakur without. Knowing his truth.. So if thakur was a good man.. Her abandoning her son without a byword is ok...
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Why should rudra invest in a relationship with paro..after 5 years she meets a better good man than rudra leaves him and her child because she has fallen in love..


It happens in everyday life.. Couple split up..but paro should have expressed it. Better.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agreed, especially with your first paragraph 👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree, would her reaction be the same , if Thakur were to be a good man??? Would that validate Mala's betrayal??

Mala is a person who holds a pivotal place in both Rudra's and Paro's life, and Rudra was trying to show her an absolutely 360 degrees opposite Mala,, She ws bound to get shocked , or angry,, but definately not happy,,
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Posted: 11 years ago
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This was bugging me too...if thakur was a good man...would Mala leaving rudra and his dad be valid?!?! NO NO NO...makes no sense.

I partly understood where paro was coming from...for her the word thakurinsa brings alive her sweet memories she has with her...and now a sudden 180 degree turn...so the first instance of a smile I could relate...but after that the dialogues were totally off track...Paro thinks she is his wife and claims to love rudra...she should have thought before speaking...on the other hand when she comes to the room she realizes she was habad dabad in what she said...and apologizes...in the morning rudra apologizes...I must say they patch up pretty fast...to be honest my hubby and my patch up is not this fast if something happens...need to learn from Parud😉

The revelation of thakurinsa been rudras mum to Paro and Parud moment about this was supposed to be a high voltage drama sceen but sadly they lost it...in my opinion it could be a one full episode sceen...don't understand what this rush was for...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: soulspirit

Agree, would her reaction be the same , if Thakur were to be a good man??? Would that validate Mala's betrayal??

Mala is a person who holds a pivotal place in both Rudra's and Paro's life, and Rudra was trying to show her an absolutely 360 degrees opposite Mala,, She ws bound to get shocked , or angry,, but definately not happy,,

Agree with your first paragraph. She must have fallen for Teju, his wealth and beauty, so much so that she did not tell Teju she had a son.
For 15 years Mala kept Teju in the dark.Now she is screaming, she does not love him.I have no sympathy for her.Tejawat must have been charming, but that would never under no circumstances validate her going with him, leaving her son behind.
OK hers must have been a loveless narriage, she must have wanted more. But go to the extent of cheating her husband and son as well as her lover/husband, shows how selfish she is. She doesn't deserve to cone back to Rudra's life or into the haveli.she should have the fate of the dancer who was stoned. I forget her name.now, I remember, is it Vasavadatta?
This is, my 2 points.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ok We are talking about Paro's POV.I don't understand her at all.she was like estatic that Thakur a in mass is her hubby's masa.
There should have been an initial shock at least.Paro's reaction was down right, oh I don't know, stupid maybe.
And on top of that, she was justifying why Taki rain masa ran away with Teju. No sense and Brain in that head. She needs one coaching class.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro should have been shocked instead of pleasantly surprised. When she found out about Rudra's pre marital affair, she was shocked. But when she finds out about Mala's previous marriage, she is fine about it within a few minutes and remembers all the wonderful times they spent together. I expected her to remember the letter Rudra wrote as a kid and his pain. Hopefully when Paro meets Mala she will remember how much Rudra and his father was hurt when they were deserted by the woman they both loved.
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Originally posted by: DN2012

Ok We are talking about Paro's POV.I don't understand her at all.she was like estatic that Thakur a in mass is her hubby's masa.

There should have been an initial shock at least.Paro's reaction was down right, oh I don't know, stupid maybe.
And on top of that, she was justifying why Taki rain masa ran away with Teju. No sense and Brain in that head. She needs one coaching class.


I am seeing the expression on tv it's a lot better...now..I wish paro had not given the explainations she fell in love with a wrong man .. The place from where she's coming.. It doesn't win brownie with her husband.. Why should he invest in a relationship what if she falls in love with somebody after 2 years and leaves him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have to agree with you too. I love Paro but I just cannot relate to her for some reason...her reaction was odd...honestly, I fast forwarded the whole freaking episode...it was depressing...too much negativity. I am going to take a break.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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looks like CVs want to copy Jab we met and Jab thak hain jaan scene where hero or heroine mom ran away with their respective lovers
in Jab we met - kareena character says "oh pyaar mein hain, pyaar mein sahi galath nahin hota"

in the same way kartina character forgives her mother who ran away with another man leaving her father

CVs tried something in these two movies way making paro say "she is in love" and CVs might have patted their backs thinking they recreated the magic of love 😕

but looks like it backfired

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