Expectations and.... Disappointments - Page 2

i do understand what you are implying. Even though Ragna love was true and pure, but they were still in initial lovey-dovey phase. not to forget the Cvs rushed Ragna marriage in itself a b too early. On 17th april there was confession, and the next thing you know even wedding preps have started within one week! I think had the Cvs not shown wedding track of Ragna, but instead only focussed on building their relationship stronger, hence the more time they spend with each other, the more understanding & mature they'd become. They only needed some more time with each other. But the Ragna marriage track was rushed, and I'd sensed that there's "daal mein kuchh kaala". Raghav & Kalp both wanted ecah other or a lifetime, so they didn't object to the marriage, welconing it, thinking they'l; be able to spend time with each other openly now. But, as you said the expectations killed everything, and the fact that the marriage track was rushed, focus should have been on their relatinship instead.

Originally posted by: chahat4u

i do understand what you are implying. Even though Ragna love was true and pure, but they were still in initial lovey-dovey phase. not to forget the Cvs rushed Ragna marriage in itself a b too early. On 17th april there was confession, and the next thing you know even wedding preps have started within one week! I think had the Cvs not shown wedding track of Ragna, but instead only focussed on building their relationship stronger, hence the more time they spend with each other, the more understanding & mature they'd become. They only needed some more time with each other. But the Ragna marriage track was rushed, and I'd sensed that there's "daal mein kuchh kaala". Raghav & Kalp both wanted ecah other or a lifetime, so they didn't object to the marriage, welconing it, thinking they'l; be able to spend time with each other openly now. But, as you said the expectations killed everything, and the fact that the marriage track was rushed, focus should have been on their relatinship instead.

I still feel as you day had Raghav resorted to any other method, or even if he had ditched Kalpana, but had not come marrying Paakhi, Kalpi would have been more understanding, ore patient, more in her cool senses. but what she witnessed was, Rakhi marriage, which was shattering of her dreams forever, for her , her world, her Raghav could no longer be hers now, not in this life now. She could not belong to him legally, in the eyes of the world anymore now, even though in hear she is already married to him. her heart broke in pieces, which pierced her capability of understanding Raghav's deep wounds. "coz she herself was injured now, not completely fit to be look after & understand Raghav's genuine deep pain and wounds.

I do feel sorry for Raghav, and understand his path of revenge, bt I just can't digest his marriage with Pakhi, that was a bit too much! 😛😊

sorry...that was a long reply! 😆

Yeah, Charu..yeh cvs bhi naa we want RAGNA developing their relationship and cvs giv us marriage track..ok chalo ab wen we cozied 2 the idea of Ragna marriage they giv us RAKHI!!😡😡I loved ur statement that wen Kalpi herself is injured how will she understand the pain of the person who in the first place inflicted those wounds upon her!! His plan was idiotic I must say and that too a top business tycoon whose judgements r often influenced by his heart!!
By the way, I love 2 read...so u giv me pages of replies too, I will b more than happy!!😛

Originally posted by: amby71089

totally Agreeing with your post.I know everyone is bashing Raghav for choosing path of revenge including me and he knows kalpana is very strong and she will defintely understand him but fault is fault but whatever it is if i am in his place even i'll do it in same manner becoz we know how much it pains when somebody hurts your most loveable things and we will make sure that they will get those pain how much we suffered.

There is famous dialogue Everything is fair in love and war.so he is doing his job by taking revenge and kalpana is doing her job by showing everyone that she is also belong to this society and also deserve same happines what others.

In sense to get something we need to loose something.

In anger I wud also opt for revenge but I totally do not support the way Rags executed the plan!!(or rather what cvs did)😊 As for the quote "evrything is fair in love and war"- its just a quote...practically it would be utter foolishness 2 do sumthing and regret later on whatever may b the scenario!!😛

Yep they both had expectations as was expected when two people from different spheres of life falls In Love unexpectedly 😉

Originally posted by: Asgard_Nim

Yep they both had expectations as was expected when two people from different spheres of life falls In Love unexpectedly 😉

Raghav expected Kalpi to accept him and wasn't going to stop at anything less ( because he has to get what he wants) and Kalpi expected him to accept her world wholeheartedly.

To Raghav's credit he did. He attended the celebrations, wore colour for her, put colour on her. Though hesitant at first the finally took it upon himself to ask for her hand in marriage. Then, when it seemed that her mother was going to rip her away from him, he even went a step further and asserted that he was like Kamla's son as if to say he was already a part of their family. Following that, however short it was, he began accepting their traditions because that day when he ( conveniently) met his mother he told Kalpi that he went to the temple to seek blessings because Kamla Maa says it's the right thing to do.

So Raghav really tried to live up to Kalpi's expectations.

Kalpi was a bit more difficult. While a Raghav went head on into doing everything he could possibly do to please her, she was more reluctant to accept him and was actually the one who had created this barrier between them by constantly saying they did not belong together. And now when that barrier broke down, and she accepted him in her life, accepted to spend her life with him what happens?

A ridiculous idea that popped up at the creators table happened. And then we got two people who managed to live up to each other's expectations back to square one with Kalpi believing that ok yeah we are from different worlds and Raghav depicted as being nothing more than a heartless business man who made the family and woman he loved into another business deal.

Sigh.

Vidya, your love 4 Ashish's character has clearly been portrayed here😉 Blame it on the cvs...While showing their sweet short love story, cvs showed us more aspects from raghavs perspective like his inner turmoil and his readiness 2 change...whereas 4 kalpi it was rushed!! the only major footage given 2 her was wen rags went underground b4 her results!! even kalpi's dialogues were so repetitive (abt difference in worlds) ...Finally cvs make a mess out of the storyline portraying kalpi as a victim and raghav as the villain!!😡

Originally posted by: amy.r

Vidya, your love 4 Ashish's character has clearly been portrayed here😉 Blame it on the cvs...While showing their sweet short love story, cvs showed us more aspects from raghavs perspective like his inner turmoil and his readiness 2 change...whereas 4 kalpi it was rushed!! the only major footage given 2 her was wen rags went underground b4 her results!! even kalpi's dialogues were so repetitive (abt difference in worlds) ...Finally cvs make a mess out of the storyline portraying kalpi as a victim and raghav as the villain!!😡

Amy...lovely post...guess i missed your previous post...!!
And yeah would love to read more from you.

Originally posted by: myera

Amy...lovely post...guess i missed your previous post...!!
And yeah would love to read more from you.

tks...so glad 2 c people r appreciating my posts!!😊 first time ever writing sumthing 4 others 2 view...so guess I should write more😉

Originally posted by: drdee142

Well said, their relationship was already so complicated with baggage from both sides, different thought processes & goals so somewhere this was gonna crash and burn since they reached a crescendo too fast.

There was no space for the love to settle and take root.

Let's see how these two analyze what happened between themselves & learn something from it that will help them in future when they come back together (Yeah I still expect and want that)

Every relationship needs its fair share of ups and downs..then only we will appreciate the "ups" in life...their love story was going up like a roller coaster ride at top speed but alas accelerated down too..not to worry this time they will rock!!😛