MIL and DIL- never the twain shall meet? - Page 14

@ Raj: good use of al serial's names 😆 😆

tum aur CB ko bina shadi kiye hee yeh DIL-MIL ka lafda kitna achcha samajh aa gaya....hai na Dekhna tum dono hee banogey sabsey badey zoru key ghulam kyun ki...jo garajtey hain woh barastey nahi
😉 😆

Originally posted by: raj5000

You Gals nah it's 10 minutes job copy the names, paste and shuffle ban gayi story ... as per home page...and how can anyone bypass main entrance before going to his/her room, assuming there is no back door or garage

DOTW is scheduled to be read for the ride home

Okay Raj.. I will give you full marks for honesty. Not copy pasting, not using backdoors and all such .. It was a creative post btw. good job.. i unfortunately panicked becos it reminded to of some random guy who watched too much desi soap. sowwyyy.... for not appreciating the creativity earlier.

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

@ Raj: good use of al serial's names 😆 😆

tum aur CB ko bina shadi kiye hee yeh DIL-MIL ka lafda kitna achcha samajh aa gaya....hai na Dekhna tum dono hee banogey sabsey badey zoru key ghulam kyun ki...jo garajtey hain woh barastey nahi
😉 😆

One should know the depth of water before diving.. all preperation done😆 ZKG - Woh waqt and haalat determine karege...abhi no comments 😆

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Okay Raj.. I will give you full marks for honesty. Not copy pasting, not using backdoors and all such .. It was a creative post btw. good job.. i unfortunately panicked becos it reminded to of some random guy who watched too much desi soap. sowwyyy.... for not appreciating the creativity earlier.

ohhhhh🤗 no sowwy... I actually meant it took 10 minutes thanks to rhyming names 😆😆 Thanks! but, I just meant j/ks on previous comment ... 😳

Originally posted by: raj5000

You Gals nah it's 10 minutes job copy the names, paste and shuffle ban gayi story 😆😆 ... as per home page...and how can anyone bypass main entrance before going to his/her room, assuming there is no back door or garage😉😆

DOTW is scheduled to be read for the ride home😉😆

Haila ..Raj... Now I am curious about the Garage and back door..😉 Sounds like some purani dodi in these serials where all past skeletons are hidden...😆

WOW another relation topic with so many pages to read

Originally posted by: chatbuster

i think it all comes down to how secure the main protagonists in the story feel, on how happy the girl is with the toys the husband gets her or even with the main lead himself, and whether the MIL has a life of her own. people who are secure and confident can generally rise above triviliaties.

Well said ... your observation in this matter is good ... personal experience kia j\k😆

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

QT you are so right. Make sure not only the guy who u like is good but the family is great too. Having similar family values helps in the marriage alot. If the ILs are not good & no matter how great the guy could be that marriage has odds against them in Indian marriages. It is a package deal. You can't get rid of them no matter what. Being open minded and having acceptance is the key to marriage.

Originally posted by: SholaJoBhadkey

My two bits for Raunaq - go for the man who treats his mother well. 90% of the times, they will also treat their wives well - so said my MIL

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

I don't see any current in my relationship with my DIL. MILs can never be Moms and DILs can never be daughters. But they can be the next best thing possible. We consider daughters and DILs Laxmi of family. One does not disrespect or hurt ghar ki lakshmi betiyaan

This debate is never ending debate, even for west ..... I really like some of the points which I m quoting here .... (I must admit I haven't read all of the posts here)

I agree with DB here MIL can never be a mother and DIL a daughter so people should keep this thing in mind and respect the newly formed relationship rather than delusionized it with pre existed relations.

Mother is something which remain special for everyone whether she is good or bad in the eyes of others...for us she is the best cook, best homemaker , problem solver, most loving person in the world....... my list is never ending and m sure it is true for everyone ... Yes it is true that the man who treats his mother well is usually good for his wife but it not only his behaviour that counts.. Usually in such situations he has been raised in a healthy environment where people respect each other and that is how he learned to respect his spouse.

Man loves his mother even if he doesn't respect. Whether he admits it or not he compares his wife to his mothers too..... And has the image of marriage in his mind which he saw all his life btw his parents.... He usually reflects the behaviour of his father in his own relationship (exception is of course everywhere)

If the relationship between his parents has been persistently good, there is a higher chance of good relationship btw him and his spouse... of course again there are more than one factor.. MILs in such situations are usually more secure and well respected by all and they have their own life... guy knows what marriage means... what is healthy atmosphere and how to respect the gal of his life.

Any way like any relation MIL-DIL relation is not a one way thing.. I totally agree with cutes here ... a relation has no healthy future if only one makes sacrifices