wasnt that rudra's fault too? being with laila for 8 yrs?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i felt that its a fault of rudra too...
he used her for 8 yrs na..i saw a scene were laila was upon rudra and asking abt bharatis..he was explaining everything to her...
i felt really sad...🤢
laila must understand that he is married and must get away but she wont..because as rudra has got paro,she hasnt got anyone else..
now how is rudra gonna pacify paro for that...🤢
really sad for paro..😭
no wife will be able to digest😭

#my personal views..im not an anti-rudra fan 😕
just felt to post it!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post... I have pondered abt it too... its his hatred to laila suddenly that is triggering her.. she does deserve an explanation as much as paro
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: coolbakes_Jalad

Great post... I have pondered abt it too... its his hatred to laila suddenly that is triggering her.. she does deserve an explanation as much as paro


yeap yaar much needed explanation..im sure he is caught 😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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even i feel , rudra shuld give an explanation , she deserves that for begin with a guy for 8 years , even if he told its not a real relationship and she knew what she was getting into .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think laila was at her best in the haldi scene. She was in fact the injured woman. The woman scorned. She held him accountable. And yes, he has to clear the books about her to
Paro. However, her returning for him was a completely wrong move.

At the end of the day for him it was jst consensual sex, and yes, some guys are cold like that. She liked it that way, matched his animalistic tendencies with her own. He never strayed from her for eight years, she was in her comfort zone. But she did not count on his meeting his soulmate, flawed and corroded by poison as he was. And thats what got to her.

Within a few days of capturing Paro and moving her to his house, he stopped going to her for sex. Her anger at his asking for clothes did not move him at all. And once Paro was masqueraded as his mangetar, he completely shut her out. No explanations. I think too that the least he could have done was tell her, but he had to be very careful about Paro and Laila forced his hand.

People seem to forget that Rudras world turned upside down when he met Paro! As did hers. Nothing was the same anymore! But the baggage remained, and had to be faced.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ya no will digest such facts
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yeah I agree... i've seen many posts saying paro shld over look this phase of rudys lyf but seriously... its not something easily digested and esp. for someone like paro who is brought up in a society where this is a sin and cheating.
A partical post after so long.
Thanx for posting! :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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First off people can have relationship before marriage, but what matters is that once they take the vows they are committed and honor their vows to their spouse. Thats why in Indian marraige we have agni dahan tradition. where husband and wife stand together with their hands around each other and pour rice husks to Havan agni. they take an oath that with this fire we burn all are impurities all our past and all temptations and vow that we will start afresh with each other and hold this bond sacred and be loyal to each other.
Now coming to Rudra, he is accountable to tell Paro about his relationship with Laila.. but he thinks that his relationship with Laila was that of consensual adults. he never committed to her as either a boyfriend or as a man about to marry her. Infact from the beginning he has been shown to keep reminding her that she should leave and not try to put obligation on him.

When Paro enetered in his life and became his fiance he had stayed away from her and even told her that it was over and i think he had given his side of explaination to Laila at mehendi and Haldi.

The way Rudra and Laila's relationship ended was bad and hard for Laila because she had feelings for him. But Rudra wanted to end it cleanly and amicably as he felt Laila and he were not committed in any way.

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