Is there really UNCONDITIONAL LOVE in JA Serial - Page 7

Originally posted by: nabiii

my comments is als not for u..the one who said bashing...may be she als mean someone else..its ok...if we say anything abt jodha some ppl thinks we are bashing jodha..ths is discussion forum and everyone has write express their opinion whether it is negative or positive...if not there is no use of discussion forum...im sure evryone loves both jalal and jodha equally bt during wen track goes on some ppl have different opinion abt character it may b postive or negative...bt some shudnt take it seriously even if it is negative...and saying some negative opinion doesnt mean they are bashing or doesnt love jodha...so they sudnt take it seriously unless ofcourse if no one bashes the real rajath and Pari..

Edited by sullii - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: sullii

Excuse me !! what r u saying ??/ n to whom u r saying ??/ did i say anything to u ??? why are you taking it personally? LMAOOO no one attacked you, why r u getting worked up for no reason. First read what i wrote before u reply 😛

Originally posted by: sunshine_sun

haan m proud of him n so u shud bereally proud of jodha too ? isnt it😳

Originally posted by: AJSharma79

Unconditional love is like a mother's love. She loves you with your flaws, but that doesn't stop her from correcting your mistakes or being the roadblock when you are heading toward destruction or evil ways

So...

BB + Sharrifudin - Hardly qualify for unconditional love. At the best its a extreme infatuation. The need for her to remain married is more pressing than her love for him. The love is because he is the husband. Not he is shariffudin. This love has no morals, respect, care, kindness and attraction

Jalal + Rukaiya - This too cannot be unconditional because on Rukaiya's side she needs him to the Shehensha. No doubt she has soft spot for him as his childhood friend. But the adult rukaiya in her needs him more in control of his power. She is not exactly power crazy, but she is extremely boastful. And her may trump card is that she was/is the beloved of the all powerful Shehensha.

On Jalal's side, he needs her to be the strong, power minded female copy of his previous self. He had never taken any steps or efforts to mould/evolve/refine her qualities. He let her be the person that she is, eventhough at current it is not compatible with him as he has no time or energy to spend on any relationship except that which is between him and Jodha.

Jalal + Jodha - Jalal accepts Jodha at her best and worst. He has been kind, forgiving, gentle and a true friend to her. But he too has allowed her to become spoilt, arrogant and blinded to her faults. He has not taken any measures to put her in her right place. All he had done is to add more hydrogen gas to the already expanded ego of hers. She practically floats now.

When your child no matter how intelligent they are, makes mistake, especially which can stunt or discourage healthy character growth, you dress them down good and proper. In your heart you know you love them more than life, but its important to do that because you need them to be wholesome human.

Jalal claims himself the father of the nation, but has done nothing to snip this character deformation of Jodha at the bud. He in fact is fertilizing it...and rather shamefully I would say.

Jodha has no love for Jodha. Her love for him is like our love for winter jackets. In cold (time of need) we hug it close and its our life. In heat (time of no need) we cast it away, tuck it in a corner, waiting for the next change in weather.

People keep writting that Jalal has progressed so much, and Jodha is getting ther. but not fast enough. Jodha to me never had started the journey. She remains, in love, with her self, her Rajvanshi birth, her ego, her pride. If she can actually see past herself I will consider her being able to start the journey.