Was it Gulli's mistake that she went in that place alone?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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In yesterday's episode it was shown that Gulli was recording Heth Singh's son & his goons' plan to bribe the public for getting votes...she was doing it when she was alone and the place was vacant... those goons were drinking at that time...Well, she was caught and as per the pre cap she will be molested I guess...this sequence reminded me of Mumbai rape case!...

I made this topic to discuss your views about Gulli's act & those goons' act...did Gulli do a mistake by going in that place alone where 4 goons were drinking? Those goons didn't even notice that Gulli was recording their conversation.. But they were drunk ..they were in the mood of having fun...and they got one woman alone at that moment...according to them it is the right moment...so they will torture that gal in the name of having fun! Is it justified that just becoz she is alone in a vacant place and she is a gal, she will have to be molested or raped by goons? Do you think that women should not go to the vacant places becoz they will be molested?...was there any fault of Gulli?..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think it was Gulli's fault. People have to ensure their own safety instead of expecting other people to behave - freedom comes with responsibility. Suraj already misbehaved with Gulli on earlier occasions also - so she was aware that he is not a good person, and he was drinking in company of other bad people - Gulli knew that if she get caught, they will misbehave. Even then she went on recording, she took no precautions - she did not inform anybody about her whereabouts or what she was doing at that time. She did not even put her phone on mute. Since the window was open and she was not hidden, any one of the goons could have seen her. At least when she was almost got caught due the phone ring - she should have thought of her safety and should have gone to mandir and wait for DS.
Women's safety is a tricky issue - nobody can justify molestation or rape or any such thing - but then why should not women think of their own safety? Why women should expect bad people to behave like a civilized persons? If the goons attacked her while the she was standing near jeep, waiting for the driver to return - then we could say that it was not her fault.

She was herself doing something illegal. Nobody should record the conversations of other people - if Gulli came across Suraj and his friends plotting something - she could have contacted police. The recent incident where Suraj misbehaved with Gulli (when other men in cycle came and she was saved) was different (even though why Gulli asked the men to leave her at a deserted place - it was a long road with no house etc. in vicinity - could not be understood), there we cannot say Gulli was at fault - Suraj could as well misbehaved her in front of her own house. But in yesterday's episode - it looked Gulli's fault. Even if it was Nandu or Jagya - the goons would have tortured them also - so her fault was that she did not think of her own safety.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why would it be fault of Gulli ?? Isn't it a free independent democratic country ??? Everyone is allowed to roam about anywhere anytime he/she wants ! Why should we hold the girl responsible for such incidents ??
Also, few people think it's the girl's dress that provokes the guys.. Oh like REALLYYY ?? In Satyamev Jayate Epi 1 of Season 2, it was clearly mentioned, around 85-88% raped victims wear salwar kameez or saree.. And the rest... Dont go for 'Jeans'... They were frocks because they are below 10/11 yrs.. 🤢
Neither the girl's dress nor the girl's activities such as : going to a place alone, or smiling at a guy ( who instantly thinks it's a girl's YES ) can be considered as reasons of rape/molestation.. It's the SICK SICK SICK mentality of a guy who thinks women are commodities.. Rape/molestation is not about having fun ( read s** ) either... It's ONLY AND ONLY about enjoying the power... and having SADISTIC pleasure to see someone in pain and helpless..
Gulli or Mumbai Victim or Delhi Victim or any single female of the country should be allowed to go anywhere at any given time of the day in any type of clothes.. That does NOT mean animals should jump on her 😡
Sorry for the rant, but the rape/molestation topics anger me like anything 🤬
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Gulli's case is different from Delhi or Mumbai rape case. Her fault was not about being alone, her dress etc. Women should be free, but that does not mean women can go to goon's hideouts and expect them to behave. Her fault was - taking no precautions while going for recording knowing fully well that Suraj or his men are bad people.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Gully ko akale nahi jana chahiye tha. Ladki ko dekh kar
Gande logon ki neeyat kharab ho jaati hai
Vo ladki ko dekh kar gangrape bhi kar dete hain
Please ladkiyaon se request hai janha par khatra ho
Vanha se bachna chahiye.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Considering she had been saved from molestation in nick of time twice before, Gulli should have been careful knowing what a gunda Heth Singh's son was.

She should have put her phone on silent mode. Informed DS or others about what she had seen and what she was going to do (so that someone could be around to help her just in case).

She was so eager to record their convo that she simply forgot to take precautions and ensure she did it in stealth without getting caught.

She risked herself. Especially when she heard them talking about another man who was supposed to come but had not come yet, then she should have scampered off from that place to hide somewhere.

Even if a man were in her place in such a situation he'd have been killed or attacked grievously.

Those guys were goons after all!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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gulli is at fault because two times gulli is trouble by het singh son while going alone so gulli should think i have already trouble by het singh son while going alone so this time i will not go alone and will not invite trouble for my self .but gulli instead of learning from past bitter experience and instead of being cautious gulli again make mistake and behaved as careless person .being careless also give enemy chance to attack

gulli should not take risk alone recording talk of sooraj and his friend even if they r not drunk .she knew very well that sooraj is dangerous person if he see gulli recording then sooraj will not leave her .so gulli should have not alone record talk of such dangerous people .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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thank you everyone for replying to this post...
i missed yesterday's episode...but i think what Gulli was doing by recording their conversation was brave...i don know if it was legal or illegal...but she was not doing it for herself!...she knew it that they r dangerous still she recorded their conversation for jaggya & BH people!!...she didn't care that she is alone...
but I think yes she has done some mistake by not taking any precaution...also she could have escaped from there when DS called her!...but she continued recording without noticing if someone else is coming from behind..she should have been more alert!...

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