not related to ema ,plz help me note on pg 3

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today my dreams r shatterd,i didnt get the marks what i expected,in 10th standard i given most happiness for parents with my 98 percent marks but today worstest 80 percentage in 12 th standard,i dont what to do,i had a dream to do mbbs,my brother is ready to pay for me,but i dont what to study without my capability,iam fully shattered,i dont make my brothers burden,i cant controll my emotion,guys plz just me something,otherswise will i die with this emotions,plz guys help me,plz guys calm me down,plzzz,
i dont have anyone to share my feelings,iam scared to speak with people now,they may make me showcase piece of me ,plz help in choosing my next higher studies,plz help me,think me as ur sis and help me plzzz,,,
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dear calm down , your 98%in 10 grade shows that you are capable and 80 is not too less either . Life doesn't stop at this point go a head for admission and you may come out in flying colors in future . I have seen many failure in grade 12 who later became engineers and pursue their masters now settled in US . Don't loose hope . Make a wise decision.
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same thing happened with me few years back (2008).Now when I look back major I realise just getting marks is not important. I know a lot of people who never score well but have a bright career. The mantra is never stop chasing your dream. Keep yourself focused. You can not expect to win every time and will be facing few hurdles as well but this is what makes you strive more hard. Trust me just follow your instincts and keep in mind marks are important but they will never decide your future.
P.S : I sometime used to score bad and when I think about it I realise they always made me be down to earth and prevented overconfidence from creeping inside me.
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Originally posted by: idonkno

same thing happened with me few years back (2008).Now when I look back major I realise just getting marks is not important. I know a lot of people who never score well but have a bright career. The mantra is never stop chasing your dream. Keep yourself focused. You can not expect to win every time and will be facing few hurdles as well but this is what makes you strive more hard. Trust me just follow your instincts and keep in mind marks are important but they will never decide your future.

P.S : I sometime used to score bad and when I think about it I realise they always made me be down to earth and prevented overconfidence from creeping inside me.

what did u choose later on
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Posted: 11 years ago
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My bro was very good at studies but got only 68% in matric but today he is engineer at a rep co don't loose hope u keep up the good wk these things happen its part of life
Best of luck u will do good beleive in yourself
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even i was sailing in the during my time...i got 90.5% in tenth and in +2 82.16%...but i wanted to do apparel and fashion technology and i did...parents and grandparents wanted me to take engineering but i didnt...i chose what my heart said and i felt this is one industry i can start my career wtihout any experience at any time...its all about creativity and i had chance to go to both manufacturing and designing...and 80% percent is not a less mark u wont believe it not that students who get less marks ll score the same in their college... college is totally a different...u can see even school topper struggle to get pass marks in college...i ve seen this...and u wont believe me...i m gold medalist and the best outgoing student from my department...in short i ll tell choose ur path what ur heart says and discuss with ur parents and friends and take a right decission...its only u going to learn and i want u to be happy in watever u do...thats the actual hapiness...life is short dont make it stressful... and school life is different...and i ll ur actual life starts from college...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mehfooza

today my dreams r shatterd,i didnt get the marks what i expected,in 10th standard i given most happiness for parents with my 98 percent marks but today worstest 80 percentage in 12 th standard,i dont what to do,i had a dream to do mbbs,my brother is ready to pay for me,but i dont what to study without my capability,iam fully shattered,i dont make my brothers burden,i cant controll my emotion,guys plz just me something,otherswise will i die with this emotions,plz guys help me,plz guys calm me down,plzzz,

i dont have anyone to share my feelings,iam scared to speak with people now,they may make me showcase piece of me ,plz help in choosing my next higher studies,plz help me,think me as ur sis and help me plzzz,,,

chill girl. 80% is not a joke. Its nice mark. Take MBBS as ur higher studies only if you r interested in becoming a doc. otherwise choose the subject, which u r interested in. If u have passion for being a doc, dont think u r being a burden to ur brother, please take up that subject.
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Originally posted by: smile_san

even i was sailing in the during my time...i got 90.5% in tenth and in +2 82.16%...but i wanted to do apparel and fashion technology and i did...parents and grandparents wanted me to take engineering but i didnt...i chose what my heart said and i felt this is one industry i can start my career wtihout any experience at any time...its all about creativity and i had chance to go to both manufacturing and designing...and 80% percent is not a less mark u wont believe it not that students who get less marks ll score the same in their college... college is totally a different...u can see even school topper struggle to get pass marks in college...i ve seen this...and u wont believe me...i m gold medalist and the best outgoing student from my department...in short i ll tell choose ur path what ur heart says and discuss with ur parents and friends and take a right decission...its only u going to learn and i want u to be happy in watever u do...thats the actual hapiness...life is short dont make it stressful... and school life is different...and i ll ur actual life starts from college...

i studied so much i got nothing,now i dont want to break my head with studies,so plz help me to choose something which i dont want to break head again
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aryagr

chill girl. 80% is not a joke. Its nice mark. Take MBBS as ur higher studies only if you r interested in becoming a doc. otherwise choose the subject, which u r interested in. If u have passion for being a doc, dont think u r being a burden to ur brother, please take up that subject.

i had passion to to be doc,but now i made a mind not to be a doc,till now didnt think something apart from doc,now when i steppped back i dont know any other course to choose
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mehfooza

what did u choose later on


I did not wanted to do medicals. I was more into biotech engineering. I did my Bacherlors in India ( I had to go through the same pain as in calss 12th in the final semester). Anyways, the good thing is that I am in University of Melbourne now doing Professional Science Management in Biotech. Its one of the top 50 Uni's all over the world.

See those episodes never hindered me in moving forward. I am doin what I always wanted to do. Now, I care less about marks and more about knowledge

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