Originally posted by: princessunara
Surabi what if the murderer came back to hurt him while he was vulnerable and more susceptible for that? I think inside a home like theirs it was what she grasped on so that she doesn't concentrate on what would happen next if she loses him..
I had seen this before in real life happening in one incident.. one of the people only broke to pieces only once that loved one was out of danger. till then she held on doing what had to be done almost robotically.. logical emotionless behavior.
i suppose that is also a defense mechanism in a way..
I have a hard time digesting the fact that a girl like paro would think like this at the time when her husband is battling for life... As I said, I can totally relate to her showing the courage of mind to get him to hospital and make sure he is out of danger... That only needs presence of mind and Paro has been shown to have that on several occasions (one being when she had to remind Rudra that having said she is from jaipur she is supposed to know how to operate household equipments and got his help to not let the truth slip out out to other members of the house).
I can also very well understand that she does not have to lose her emotions and hang on to her courage until the danger passes away. I don't need any anybody else's experience. I have gone through this myself very very recently. After all that shock was over and the body burnt to ashes, my closest people asked me "why don't you just cry now and let it out ????". sometimes we, especially women, get the courage to go through extreme situations with utmost calmness... that is a gift from god since we have children to think of, take care of.. if we fall apart, the whole family falls apart... I can imagine her making sure he is danger free... She should have done that by being near his bed (which surprisingly she did not since Mohini came there and tried again) to avoid further damage... I can imagine her making sure everything proper is being done to him... but going back on an investigative mode like a police officer and trying to find out clues... Hmmm!!! I can see a sandhya from DBH doing it, but not a paro of RR... Maybe thats my viewpoint.. You might not agree with this.. I don't want to argue and win a point here... So lets just amicably disagree on this point!!! Have a good day (or night)!
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