Raman: brother vs Husband

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I can understand Raman's reaction as a brother... His brother wala mind is bound to hesitate, disbelieve such a thing... but as a husband his husband wala mind must do some thinking too! I mean... Parmeet had been accuse of the same crime before, his wife Ishita is a sane woman (he knows, I think! 🤔) she has everything she ever wanted, a child she craved and a comfortable life. What will she get by wrongfully accusing Parmeet? So ideally he should have supported her after the initial hesitation... Saying this... I am wondering if the CV's want to show Raman playing a game and tricking Parmeet into making a mistake and get him caught! 🤓

But until Parmeets real face is revealed all that's is going to happen is disturbing and vexing! 🤢

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agreed that both are closely related to him...but in this case the fight should be between truth and false na...a woman molested by his own brother in law in his own house that too when is not in town...and everyone turning against her very painful...cannot understand his silence...😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I understand that Raman should have reacted here and said something in support of Ishita but isn't it the way all men react if there is a situation between his wife and his sister. There are people who openly support sisters but Raman is just silent and maybe he is taking time to come to a decision. Its fine. Biwi ko kabhi bhi manaa sakta hain but married sister is someone to be handled very sensitively. Isn't this the way people react in real life too. U can hold your spouse's feet too if U hurt her or him but not those of your sister.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Raman is neither a good bro nor a hubby
You keep a psycho loitering around when you have another sister and a girl kid at home,when a person is accused of sexual harassment any person would go by the victim first and then check if she is lying ,he is just a coward now and nothing else

He has never lived along with parmeet but he did with ishu so he should have got his hint

Cvs have killed raman s character and all his tamil speech is down to drains but I will wait till scene plays out 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nebuna

Raman is neither a good bro nor a hubby
You keep a psycho loitering around when you have another sister and a girl kid at home,when a person is accused of sexual harassment any person would go by the victim first and then check if she is lying ,he is just a coward now and nothing else

He has never lived along with parmeet but he did with ishu so he should have got his hint

Cvs have killed raman s character and all his tamil speech is down to drains but I will wait till scene plays out 😕


I agree. He should've at least paid extra attention to Pervmeet. Pervmeet is a kaamchor and spends all day being a creep, how could he not be a little suspicious of him before?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chitrathan

I understand that Raman should have reacted here and said something in support of Ishita but isn't it the way all men react if there is a situation between his wife and his sister. There are people who openly support sisters but Raman is just silent and maybe he is taking time to come to a decision. Its fine. Biwi ko kabhi bhi manaa sakta hain but married sister is someone to be handled very sensitively. Isn't this the way people react in real life too. U can hold your spouse's feet too if U hurt her or him but not those of your sister.


Agree with you... Seldom a daughter in law is treated as a daughter of the house... I will be disappointed if Raman fails to support Ishita... I can understand if he hesitates for a few seconds, but if he refuses to believe, listen and support Ishita then the CV's need to rethink about the character of Raman Kumar Bhalla.

I sincerely hope the CV's know what they are doing and do not play with our sensibilities!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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raman needs time to weigh his options and plan his next step. according to the spoilers, he was silent throughout the entire fiasco. he didn'tt shout at eshita or support her and his family. this is a delicate situation, he cannot stand against his own sisters happiness without solid proof. Raman is not stupid, he knows this will destroy his sister's life, so it is better to stay quiet and take his steps carefully
I don't think raman doubts ishita, he just needs time to sort this mess out.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Even i feel Raman fails as a husband here...It might be his plan to expose Parmeet or that he is just shocked..but when his wife is making such a big allegation and is in a wreck , i dont understand how can brains work and not heart..all she needs is a comforting gesture from someone in that famiily...and the person we would look upto the most would be our husband...i m really really feeling sad for Ishita..and find no way how these Bhallas can redeem themselves when they get to know the truth...in ones own home u r facing such sexual abuse and no one is trusting ur words...God, what is the position of such a woman in that family...unworthy dirt these Bhallas...

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