ur dreams/ ur parents dreams!

After watching todays episode.... it got me thinking! You have your dreams and you have your parents dreams and only one can be fullfilled (unless they are same). But i feel for rocky I mean he wants to fullfill his parents dreams out of respect and love, yet he has his dreams and probably knows that he wont be happy being a doctor! Music is his life and hes very talented too! Actually I think all are in the same loop... rattu has bigger dreams then his dads planning, tp is a bit lost but shes trying to find what she wants and make her parents proud, because she failed her exams. Mannu's trying by all means (even betraying friends) to fullfill his grandparents dream when clearly he isnt that good! But i cant really blame him either b/c hes just making his grandparents happy who took care of him after his parents passed! So maybe he just dosent know what the line of right and wrong is! He just wants to make his dadi ji proud by all means!!
Its a very harsh issue they are facing... its the reality which this generation faces I feel (well i do)! I mean on one side you have your dreams, hopes and goals! Which make you happy and you work towards with all your effort because if the process brings some kind of pleasure of happiness! You know you would be happy doing this everyday, everyhour with every breathe what you dream of. Then there are your parents dreams which they see for your own good! They are angles that fed you, have put a roof over your head. Worked hard and long days so you have a close to normal life! They are ones who trust and belief in you to make them proud! And you probably know that what they want you to become isnt something you want to do everyday, everyhour of the day yet you do it for them no matter how miserable you are...b/c their love and respect!
Both ways I'm torn.... I couldnt even start to tell you which way should mannu, rocky, rattu or tp go!! I just hope they can find their dreams in their parents dream or their parents can understand, support, be happy and try to see their own dreams for their own kids in their kids dreams!
I feel like I'm rite their with all four! I mean you want to make ur parents proud and happy yet should that equal giving up and sacrificing ur happiness! Or for your dreams and happiness can you crush your parents dreams and happiness????
*their no rite or wrong answer.... its different for everyone unless you have been in their shoes you can NOT judge!! So feel free to share I would love to know what people think is rite in their point of view.... but dont offend anyone if they have an opposite point of view! Both are right as long as they are from the heart!!!*
Please share!!!

well according to me i think ......its a parent mistake to force ur child to do sumthing of which they r not capable of .........
i understand parents have their own dream for their children but they hav to understand tht similarly thier kids hav their own dreams too...and i guess every individual shud do watever he can do....if he does anything out of force or juss to keep ur parents happy they wont be able to do justice to the work they r doing........they cant be successful and will b under constant pressure to make ur parents happy and not let them down!! its better to do watever u want first ...if u not sucessful ...then u can alwayz change ur profession ....its never too late ..but atleast u wont regret tht u didnt try wat u wanted!!

Here in rocky's case .....he can do both ....he can get the doctors degree and ...then can go for music i.e his dream ....if at any point he feels like ...its not going as he expected ..he can alwayz turn back and strt practising for being a doctor cuz atleast he has a daegree .....so i guess it just a matter of planning ...u cn go both wayz .....

i agree wid u parents shud not b forcing children without knowin wat their children want..otherwise it becomes a big prob 4 both parents n children..

I 2 agree.... Parents shud nt force their children 2 do wat they don't wanna do......They shud shud leave it on their children 2 take up a career they like....