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Posted: 11 years ago
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huh..sejal..u dont want me 2 live peacefully..m still not out of that..confession hangover..y r u..dragging me to that jungle raat again...now i should get admitted in asylum😭😭😭

huh..n when did raghav fell in love with kalpi..only raghav knows..i mean when did cvs made him fell in love..only cvs konows..😆😆😆 dont kill me for this answer


ok then i will give serious answer now..
from the childhood days..i mean..from the raghav saw baby kalpi..he somehow got attarcted to her..i mean..from the beginning its like..they are meant to be eachother...this is a destinty khel..
n some how..he likes her since the childhood..n likes her behavior.intelligence and honesty..to be frank her ziddi nature also..

and all expained..abacus ,pen n all..
i felt that secret observing of kalpi..on her bday alot..n..after that paying bill for them...n getting pakya from the jail..i think..raghav likes kalpi then..that dilaogue she told prem that day...duniya me to tarah ki log hoti hai...one he repeted in chawl saving incident...n he loves her guts also...somehow..this girl made him speechless all the time..n he is keep on thinking about her..n end up in love...

from that interview incident,pune incident...i feel..raghav wants to see the strong side of kalpi again n again..he likes her attitude..thats y he keeps on insulting her..n enjoying her speeches..
whenever she gives speeches na there is asmile in his face...he always insulted her..to make her weak..n get over her..but she is always a hear..

n from that..first day svaing him..n dat presentation night..he cant get her out of his mind..n heart..n that jungle wala incident he completely gave up all..n realized that he fell in love finallyy


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Seju if your looking for that Eureka moment, it hasn't been shown ya. Like everyone has said he's had an emotional pull towards Kalpi from a young age. He was intrigued, impressed & proud of her personality hence, the care and concern for her was natural to him.

The car scene where he was watching Kalpi for the 1st time as an adult was so poignant. He came back to avenge his dad's death from Kapoors, he could have easily stuck to that and not bothered to check on Kalpi or know her whereabouts. Did he do that? No, before he even sat there watching how the spunky girl turned out. He had already helped Jhadhavs in many ways being in the back ground and came out of his hiding to look at Kalpi that night 😳 Man !! that scene had so much intensity & chemistry 😳 😳

Post that we saw how he didn't want to be near her but was always there when she needed comfort, push or put some sense into her 😆 Like Shana said 'uss raat' the physical attraction for her started working over time for Ragz & Kalpi too was feeling restless 😉 Once they spent the night in each other's arms, the rest like they say is 'History' 😳 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Right when he saw baby Kalpi for the first time, made her smile..tabse 😆
I think after Kalpi proved her worth, he started drinking.. Self talk, then with Kalpi in the car..back from Poo house. When Kalpi says, she is more concerned abt him than herself.. The look on his face! That marked the beginning. Even before "uss raat" when Poo sprained herself, he had to go with Kalpi.. His self talk " jiske pass Jana Chatha Hun, who door ja rahi hain. Jisse door rehna Chahtha hoon woh pass aa rahi hain! (Kalpi)
After uss raat, when he started calling her to come office.. Full blown love..😆
Edited by aishu_25 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yaa... raghav luvs kalpi a lot... jaan wala pyaar... and now kalpi luvs him too a lot...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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How many of you remember their very first meeting?
Any guesses?

Remember the dinner party at the Singhs' house when the 12 yr old Raghav was first introduced to us. He had come in with his father. Kalpi and Pakhi were just a few days/weeks old. He hears a baby crying and walks into the bedroom where Pakhi is sleeping in a lovely cradle and Kalpi is lying on the sofa. He barely glances at Pakhi but is drawn to Kalpi. He walks up to her and smiles down at her. I don't remember if he touches her.

The subconscious bond began there and strengthened as they grew. If memory serves me correct, Kalpi too did her bit when the Singhs came looking for Raghav who was hiding in the bathroom in Kamal's home. If I remember correctly, she pretended ignorance about his whereabouts thus sending them off on a wild goose chase!

I don't think Kamla's family was too far away from his mind even when he was in the US. I think Raghav's the one who gave Vittal his job as a thank you for the help in escaping.

The soft corner for the family was always there, especially for Kalpi which burst into an instant and wild attraction that just threw him off his feet. The first time they met at that coffee-making interview...he was rude to her but was softer with Pakhi when it should have been the other way round!

He just couldn't help himself. He was using some sort of an emotional "suraksha kavach" to protect himself from becoming vulnerable to his emotions and exposing himself to future hurt. So he continued to be rude. His offer of a job, under the guise of returning a favour to kamal for past favours, was a gesture both of denial of his feelings and certain helplessness of the same.
The only way to protect himself was to be rude and belittle her every chance he got so that she leaves. That she was made of sterner stuff caught his off guard and made him slowly wonder if she wasn't the one for him after all.

The fact that he was thinking more about her and less about his revenge plan probably made him give in to his feelings which probably led to that unguarded and impulsive confession to the supposed Pakhi. Had it not been Kalpi who heard it, god knows if he would have confessed his feelings for her anytime soon.

By 'that night's incident' that everyone is talking about is, I suppose, when they got lost in the jungle. That was probably the catalyst that made him realise and finally accept the inevitable.

Sorry for the long essay...probably the longest post I've written in IF in years.

That's the deep and abiding effect of Raghav on me!😳


Edited by pippa - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pippa

How many of you remember their very first meeting?
Any guesses?

Remember the dinner party at the Singhs' house when the 12 yr old Raghav was first introduced to us. He had come in with his father. Kalpi and Pakhi were just a few days/weeks old. He hears a baby crying and walks into the bedroom where Pakhi is sleeping in a lovely cradle and Kalpi is lying on the sofa. He barely glances at Pakhi but is drawn to Kalpi. He walks up to her and smiles down at her. I don't remember if he touches her.

The subconscious bond began there and strengthened as they grew. If memory serves me correct, Kalpi too did her bit when the Singhs came looking for Raghav who was hiding in the bathroom in Kamal's home. If I remember correctly, she pretended ignorance about his whereabouts thus sending them off on a wild goose chase!

I don't think Kamla's family was too far away from his mind even when he was in the US. I think Raghav's the one who gave Vittal his job as a thank you for the help in escaping.

The soft corner for the family was always there, especially for Kalpi which burst into an instant and wild attraction that just threw him off his feet. The first time they met at that coffee-making interview...he was rude to her but was softer with Pakhi when it should have been the other way round!

He just couldn't help himself. He was using some sort of an emotional "suraksha kavach" to protect himself from becoming vulnerable to his emotions and exposing himself to future hurt. So he continued to be rude. His offer of a job, under the guise of returning a favour to kamal for past favours, was a gesture both of denial of his feelings and certain helplessness of the same.
The only way to protect himself was to be rude and belittle her every chance he got so that she leaves. That she was made of sterner stuff caught his off guard and made him slowly wonder if she wasn't the one for him after all.

The fact that he was thinking more about her and less about his revenge plan probably made him give in to his feelings which probably led to that unguarded and impulsive confession to the supposed Pakhi. Had it not been Kalpi who heard it, god knows if he would have confessed his feelings for her anytime soon.

By 'that night's incident' that everyone is talking about is, I suppose, when they got lost in the jungle. That was probably the catalyst that made him realise and finally accept the inevitable.

Sorry for the long essay...probably the longest post I've written in IF in years.

That's the deep and abiding effect of Raghav on me!😳




The one who has truely answered my question in this post..!! Would always provide an essay.. which I personally enjoy reading..!!!

Yet... I loved how he looked on at Kalpi... Even on her birthday..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShanUlas

Shabs really a very logical question ...lol

Well if u ask for feelings .I think its right from childhood.He has always cred for her and somehow sees himself in her. He identifies with her in sorts that she too is lonely .

kalpi has had always had loving parents but she is a bit receded and lonely like raghav.its her nature and so it is of raghav.Both dont say their feelings easily.

As a child raghav was still vulnerable and did take solace in Kamla maa .But as he grew up he absolutly distanceed himself from all sort of intimacy, But Kalpi is still the same .She has not changed .She is still very very vulnerable.And thats what makes him to care for her more.

Subconsciously Raghav is caring for himself in Kalpi.He is nursing her dreams , the way he did his own.he made big even though he already had enough. And when he sees Kalpi trying to do the same inspite of having nothing what he had.he feels like helping her and does get angry when he sees her victimized .

But till date these feelings have been quit platonic and have been due to personality nearness he felt with Kalpi.Its actually in all of us.We all do to identify with very few so much that we just like helping them , why we ourselves dont know , while their r many we just dont care

The real feeling of love which contains physical tensions and biological harmones did strt from that " USS RAAT ".When he really realised her physical proximity , her warmth , her care .He is touched the way she just did not care to hug him tight to keep him warm.For him it was too much from a girl with whom he had always been emotionally connected.

Kalpi is no Maya for Raghav.raghav is used to being a Godfather to kalpi ,help her from didtant and smile at her success .But that night it was Kalpi who had upper hand on him.it was she was caring him ,while he was helplessly cuddling in her lap.

That night was too much for our high and mighty Raghav Singhania .he was taken off guards by a little thing called Kalpi

As for Kalpi as many have said here .Its the physical proximity with a man that is making her unconfertable.Till now Raghav has been her savior her boss but that night ,even though she had taken the task of a life saving nurse ,she could not avoid the manliness he exudes and woman in her is still not grown up to fathom the laws of attraction



Super like.. Very logical

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