When Exactly???? Raghav started developing his feelings for Kalpi?

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Samridhi

@BinKuchKahe.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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In my opinion, there wasn't exactly a defining moment when he fell for Kalpi. There was a sort of attraction towards her since they were young.

Her sincerity, her dedication towards her education, her little act of telling Raghav not to show off if he knows how to solve the sum - all these little things were very real. Something that Raghav craved for since his childhood or even since his father died. He didn't need to pretend in front of Kalpi. Yes, they probably never sat down & shared their life issues with each other, but despite not doing that, there was an intimacy in their relationship; the way they looked to each other for support/help.

His feelings for her never died. When Raghav came back from US, yes revenge might have been on his mind but I'm very sure that he was interested to meet that little girl who brought a smile on his face. When he met her again after so many years, he probably saw a glimpse of the same young girl. He tested her & she passed. So he started believing again that there is someone who he can trust & someone who cares for him.

If he hadn't left for US, & stayed on with the Kapoors, I am sure he would have realised this way back & would probably not be as closed up as he is now.

Edited by prc_fan1 - 11 years ago

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LuvJammy

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Awesome post, luved every1's pov..

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Katty

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Posted: 11 years ago

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There can never be answer to question when? or how .. when it comes to love...

Raghav... Has always had liking towards Kalpi.. But that liking soon turned into attraction, attraction into love, and love into possessiveness ..

It's just a gradient... and you can pin point where are u exactly, and when did it happen.. It's like looking at sky with shades of blue and trying to figure out which suits the sky best..??

Uss Raat, has become popular term on EMA forum...!! But let me remind you all.. Uss Raat Kuch Nai hua tha...!! except that... Pull of attraction on part of Raghav increased.. and according to me.. it is still attraction.. Love is a stage of realization of this attraction and accepting it.. he is still in denial mode..

And Kalpi has also liked Raghav since childhood.., I wouldn't really say, she started developing feelings for Raghav now.. after Uss Raat... She has had some pull..!

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ajaved

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

He had a sof spot since child hood which grew

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Burns n Trolls

@shahsb_26

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Why is this topic up after a month??😆

So.. how much has changed in a month...

Conclusion: Raghav has always had that attraction towards kalpi..
and for Kalpi..

Uss Raat was just a like.. ok.. let me now.. calm and soften up to everyone.. (not just Raghav..) ... and then she fell for him... after he confessed his love for her..!!!

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Baljodh

@Haisisterz

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I think Raghav loved Kalpi from childhood, But we can't really call it love, Just concern and Raghav wanted to help Kalpi in each and everything. I think this all started when Raghav saw the baby Kalpi for the first time and started playing with her, He didn't even played w/ pakhi. And he loved the way how Baby Kalpi smiled back at him.And since childhood, Raghav,like Kamlaa maa really had faith in Kalpi that she'll grow as a very successful woman. Thus, his faith made him give Kalpi that Abacus. You remember since childhood, Raghav always had that look that he seem to know that Kalpi will grow to be a very good and successful person one day. He cared for her but never showed his care for her.

And, there were many scenes that were shown that Raghav cared for Kalpi, For instance, When she saw her crying at the chal..And, remember that scene when It was Kalpi's first day in the office, The ceiling fan fell down and Kalpi saved Raghav. And she even showed her concern by giving him the First aid kit. Maybe Raghav was surprised that after so many years, Someone started showing concern for him..But I don't really know when he started falling in love with her.Maybe it's still a question to be answered only after Kalpi will confess her love to him and she'll ask him about it.

Sorry for the long post! 😊

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maaneet930

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I think raghav was moved when he went to drop kalpi in his car(wen pakhi locked herself) at dat tym raghav was driving rashly.kalpi asked him to slow down d car not bcz she was afraid but bcz she was worried 4 raghav...dis really moved raghav and he openly shared his feelings with her...he was so surprised dat dere was sum1 in dis world whu cared 4 him...dis is hw liking changed to luv...
jst my pov...

Edited by maaneet930 - 11 years ago

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ajaved

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: ShanUlas
Shabs really a very logical question ...lol

Well if u ask for feelings .I think its right from childhood.He has always cred for her and somehow sees himself in her. He identifies with her in sorts that she too is lonely .

kalpi has had always had loving parents but she is a bit receded and lonely like raghav.its her nature and so it is of raghav.Both dont say their feelings easily.

As a child raghav was still vulnerable and did take solace in Kamla maa .But as he grew up he absolutly distanceed himself from all sort of intimacy, But Kalpi is still the same .She has not changed .She is still very very vulnerable.And thats what makes him to care for her more.

Subconsciously Raghav is caring for himself in Kalpi.He is nursing her dreams , the way he did his own.he made big even though he already had enough. And when he sees Kalpi trying to do the same inspite of having nothing what he had.he feels like helping her and does get angry when he sees her victimized .

But till date these feelings have been quit platonic and have been due to personality nearness he felt with Kalpi.Its actually in all of us.We all do to identify with very few so much that we just like helping them , why we ourselves dont know , while their r many we just dont care

The real feeling of love which contains physical tensions and biological harmones did strt from that " USS RAAT ".When he really realised her physical proximity , her warmth , her care .He is touched the way she just did not care to hug him tight to keep him warm.For him it was too much from a girl with whom he had always been emotionally connected.

Kalpi is no Maya for Raghav.raghav is used to being a Godfather to kalpi ,help her from didtant and smile at her success .But that night it was Kalpi who had upper hand on him.it was she was caring him ,while he was helplessly cuddling in her lap.

That night was too much for our high and mighty Raghav Singhania .he was taken off guards by a little thing called Kalpi

As for Kalpi as many have said here .Its the physical proximity with a man that is making her unconfertable.Till now Raghav has been her savior her boss but that night ,even though she had taken the task of a life saving nurse ,she could not avoid the manliness he exudes and woman in her is still not grown up to fathom the laws of attraction

Loved ur post

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Foram

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

wow such a nice post and the comments. thanks sejal for bringing this topic up... so it is still not clear that when raghav started liking kalpi.

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Dee (Daisy)

@drdee142

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Excellent point.

I do feel he had a soft corner for Kalpi right from childhood, remember he always stood up for her and gave her his two prized possessions.

Even after his return you could see that she always affected him and he couldn't stand her being hurt though he dealt with most of these situations rather sarcastically but guess he pushed Kalpi to be more stronger and proactive.

He definitely developed feelings for her before the Alibaug trip cause:

He was upset with himself when he doubted her regarding the presentation that Prem got
He only went to Kapoor's house for Pakhi because Kalpi asked him too
He sorta opened up a bit with Kalpi and was so protective about her (when the car braked stop) and he was later uncomfortable because he was emotional with Kalpi
When Pakhi couldn't go for the Alibaug trip and Sammy asked him to take Kalpi, his 1st thought was, the person he wanted to get close for his revenge cannot come and the person he's trying to avoid is coming closer
Also his demeanor towards her during the entire trip and also that he turned the car back and stopped for that couple only because Kalpi said so

There were so many instances even before.

Regarding Kalpi all I can say is that Raghav did affect her but there wasn't anything concrete till the Alibaug trip and even then I don't think she realized anything till the day Raghav confessed, then she started looking back at the earlier incidences (the hug in the store room, the way she was so protective of Raghav in Alibaug etc.)

I'll stop rambling now, any Ragna topic gets me so effected the Ragna magic is so isn't it. 😆

Edited by drdee142 - 11 years ago